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okay so i'm a 14/f, and i'm really into my best friends brother. they are step brother and sister, so they are the same age and in the same school, since they live together. her brother and i talk, and we don't like each other, but we just both think each other is attractive. my friend is getting very angry at the fact that i talk to her brother. i don't see why she is so mad - but she is almost forcing us to not talk to him. how can i confront her about this? i really want to continue talking to him and just treat him as another one of my friends - but my best friend is telling me that i'm going to far. what can i do to help the situation?
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Well, I would talk to your best friend and ask her why it isn't ok with her if you and her brother talk to each other. It's not like you two are making out or anything, just talking. Maybe that will help. I hope it does!
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well i would tell her 2 shut the f*** up but thats me lol u should tell her that he is just your friend and nuthin more that she shouldnt try 2 keep you from havin friends and see if she changis at all... i hope i helped:)
*$*kasey*$*
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To you it may look like your just hanging out, but to your friend, it may look like more. Sit her down and talk to her. Be strong, but not over powerful. Don't back down when she accuses you of things but don't be pushy.
You may even get her step brother to talk to her too. I'm sure in the end you'll all be fine. And if you must try to hang out with her step brother on your own time and with out her. But not all the time because then she might think you are ditching her.
hope this all gets better
~kooka
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Well I can't tell you what to do, but I will tell you how your friend may feel. She is very aware that this boy is her step brother, they are not really related by blood. But she has been raised to believe that they are step brother and sister do not like each other in any way other than brother and sister. (THe reason for this is it makes the parents feel better.)
So she may feel, that if she can't have him, she doesn't want any of here friends to go out with him. If a good friend of hers dated her brother she would get to learn more about him that maybe she wants to know. I would suggest that you be a person of character and respect your friends wishes. Eventually she will believe that you are not after him and she will relax and you will at least be able to acknowlege each other (you and the step brother) without her having a fit. Also, she may grow out of it.
Michele
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She may think you were just using her to get to him. Maybe try talking to her more and him less, she may feel as if you aren't giving her as much attention anymore.
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Hey talk to your girl friend and tell her that you just wnat to another friend. be like i think it's really nice to have friends that live together and everything. tell her to give you guys a chance at being friends. also ask her why she doesnt want you guys being friends because maybe she thinks that she's loosing you by being eith her step brother. let her know whats going on and i'm sure things will be easier. hope i helped. Take Care =) x3 SweetStar.
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