ok like if your popular and every1 thinks ur a snob how do you get people to stop hating you!?!?! thanxxx
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? xGAWSHNESSx answered Monday June 6 2005, 7:35 pm: well is there a good reason why they think you're a snob??? if there is then you're going to have a harder time trying to get back peoples respesct for you. but i do have some advice: dont be fake-you want people to like you but DONT act like you are their friend then talk about them behind their back. dont be rude to some jsut because some one your hanging out wiht at the time doesnt like htem and you tink it'll look good. believe me anyhting you do will come back and smack you in the face eventually. jsut be yourself and try to consider how other people feel. [ xGAWSHNESSx's advice column | Ask xGAWSHNESSx A Question ]
mapetiteodette answered Monday June 6 2005, 7:32 pm: The best thing to do is just to go and make friends with some people who don't hang out with you. Spread youself out. Sometimes just because you're popular, people don't like you because they don't like one of your friends. Go and sit at a different lunch table than you normally do, or talk to someone who you normally don't talk to. If you are extremely nice to everyone and you talk to people by initiating the conversation, then people will realize that you aren't a snob, but a really nice person.
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Teza answered Monday June 6 2005, 7:19 pm: You cant really stop that. Some people hate me because they think Im conceded and stuck up but Im really not. Thats just how they are. People get jelous because you have more friends and they have exaclly nothing against you so they will start hating you. Thats how some people are really ignorant! But just be nice to everyone. ♥ [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
x_C010rMyW0r1d answered Monday June 6 2005, 7:19 pm: Well.. if your popular.. and everyone hates you.. your not really popular. Being popular means you have a lot of friends and a lot of people like you. I guess to get people to stop hating you you could be as nice as possible without being to phony. But.. if your that arrogant to say your popular.. no offence.. its probly gunna take some work. [ x_C010rMyW0r1d's advice column | Ask x_C010rMyW0r1d A Question ]
SweetStarx89 answered Monday June 6 2005, 7:15 pm: Hey. to me being popular is having everyone like you so be nice to everyone and dont act like a total bitch ( i'm not saying you are one =] ) anyways just be nice to everyone and get to know some people so they know you and not just the outside. instead of hanging out with the popular kids say hi to other people too. and im sure no one hates you because they dont know you if you think your a snob. thats how it usually works..lol hope i helped. Take Care =) x3 SweetStar. [ SweetStarx89's advice column | Ask SweetStarx89 A Question ]
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