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hey everyone im maria and i love giving advice. im pretty good, at it i must say. so if you have a question just drop it in my inbox. lots of love ♥

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well ok i am 18 years old and i have a boyfriend that i really like but lately i cant stop thinking of my good friend and its weird cuz shez a girl but i think i might really like her but then when i think of what would happen if i did go out with her well i'd be scared because how would my family take to me liking someone of my own sex? i really need to know what i should do plz help and fast

i thik your bi if you have a bf and like your friend.hope this helped.

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Hey, this morning I woke up and my eye was crusty. And then I looked in the mirror and it was all red. it still is. My mom said it might be "Pink Eye" but my eye doesn't itch, and it's not really goopy. Does anyone have any ideas on what this is?? I rate all 5's.

it probably is pink eye. or you could have just gotten something in your eye. see a doctor. hope eye helped! haha-eye!

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well i like this boy in my class. He`s really cool and smart and funny nd everything , i want to ask him out but i feel that he wont like me or that he`ll say no and it will make it worse for me knowing that he`ll never go out with me. can you give me some adivce?! thanks alot

ask one of your friends to ask him out for you. hope i helped!

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I never know what to say when im talking to my crush. Sometimes, its akward because i would have nothing to say then it would turn out to be dead scilence. I get kinda scared about what he thinks of me because hes an outgoing guy and i only wish to be outgoing enough to fit up to his standerds. How do i bring up a good conversation without it being akward, and what if i cant think of a topic to bring up what should i do?

gossip. i know it sounds gay but guys actually like to gossip about people. hope i helped!

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Ok, I have naturally blonde hair and I dyed it black in the sprig and touched it up in the summer. I have not done it since July, so my roots are like, 2 inches maybe 3, and I am getting it dyed professionally. The lady said I could get highlights…but they had to strip the black from those areas first. My first question is, how bad will that damage my hair? Getting all over color and highlights on black…and my second question is I am thinking of red highlights…does anyone have any suggestions of a color?

keep it blonde. blondes has more fun. im blonde most of my friends are blonde. blondes are hott.hope i helped!

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Can anyone tell me the right way to shave down there? I shave down there, but after shaving I still feel hair, especially on the lips. I have a really hard time shaving the lips, is there an easier way to shave them?

use a shaver that you dont need soap for.hope i helped

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I have a really hot boyfiend thats cute,funny,nice and caring but I have the biggest feeling that he's cheating on me and I don't wanna be hurt what should I do?

keep him til he dumps you

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Im a male. Theres a Girl I really like. I don't think theres a possibility that she likes me back. I don't want to do anything wrong to get her to like me. I dont even know how to act around her. Do you have any suggestions on how to get her to like me?

be really sweet to her, i know that charmed me a few times.you can like help her carried her books or walk her to her locker.i hope i helped!

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dear, helper i really need help! i am overweoght and i hate doing boring exercises and nasty diets ( i ahve cravings) so please give me some advice.

sincerly,
in need

dear in need,
well you dont have to go on a diet. but not all excersises are boring. a really fun one for me is swimming. and there are a few indoor pools open in winter time. and theres this really fun excersise machine thingy. its called the AB lounge 2 its soooooo fun and it really tones your abs and you can eat whatever you want! glad to help!

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Ok, there's this kid at my school, Drew. We sorta like each other, so on Sat. we had like, this 5 hour long convo, and we just decided to go to the Snowball together. (it's a dance). So anyway, today at school, I was telling my friends Jenny and Nicole (Nicole likes Drew) about it. Jenny was real happy for me, but I noticed Nicole just looked mad. So I just online a little bit ago, and my one friend was talking to her, and IMing me their convo, and turns out, she's real pissed about me going to the dance with Drew and just liking him in the first place, but I can't help it. I heard from Drew that he doesn't even like Nicole the way she does. So I IMed her saying I was sorry if I made her mad, but we both decided to go to the dance together. I told her to stop bein so weird about it cuz it has nothing to do with her. And then she signed off. Idk, I just want your opinion about this. Who's right and wrong here? And I want to go to the dance w/ Drew, but I don't want to upset Nicole either. What should I do?

i think your both wrong. not to like be rud e or anything but nicole shouldnt be mad at you for liking a guy, it just happens.and you shouldnt act like you dont care that shes upset that her crush like her best friend. something exactly like this happened to me. it wasnt fun. my crush kept giving my friend dhugs and stuff. i got soooooooo pissed. try to feel what shes feeling.hope i helped!

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hi
ive got this friend and shes really annoying, she folllows me around EVERYWHERE and i mean EVERYWHERE! even when i want 2 talk 2 my other friends in 'private' she has to come up and listen in. my other friends think shes annoying as well and we dont no what do. and she always leans on my shoulder all the time and when i tell her to get off, she says that shes tired or something like that. PLZE HELP
what can i do/say to stop her from doing it???
luv nickixxxxxxxxx

make excuses to get away from her. like if she calls you say "sorry i cant hang out i have an appiontment today" if shes already with you tell her that you have to go to the bathroom and that you prefer that she stays where she is.hope i helped!

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i just thought about this, and figured i'd ask it.


i guess i've never really seen past what happens after college. i've always i guess thought that after you got your degrees, they just handed out the jobs to you at graduation (i didn't REALLY think this, its an example). so where do you find your job? are their listings for them in the newspaper? i mean like career jobs, not just teenage quick cash sort of things. do you keep your ears peeled for the mentioning of a job?

ok you can look in the paper for a job. but i went to a really good site, tickle.com. when you get there go to standardized tests then take the iq test. i tells you some good colleges to go for your iq and what degrees you can get there like...bachelour's, doctoral degrees. go there its a great site.i hope i helped.

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ok well i dont eat anything really... i would say im becoming anerexiox. i know its not good for you but does it mmake you lose weight?

yes, you are becoming anorexic. and yes, i does make you lose wieght but you will die if you make this choice.

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hi... after about a week after i had my period i had sex for the first time.... and i didnt use protection. ( bad mistake) and.. now its been about 4 weeks and ive been feeling abit sick ( but i usually get like this when im going to have my periods) and i havent got them yet and im really scared that i could be pregnant.. and when i felt up my virgina i felt this weird thing inside me.. could this be and unborn baby i might have??? pleace help, im really scared about this

ok well i can see why your scared. just get a test. digital ones are easier to read. the reason why you feel sick might be because of cramps.if you skip your period... thats bad. hope i helped

p.s how far did you go up to feel an unborn baby, thats weird

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Hey yeah.....My best friend likes my boyfirend...and shes trying to brake us up and I dont know what to do...cause i love my boyfriend to death and I don't want to lose him....and my best friend I dont want to lose her either I don't know what to do please help...I rate high!!


-Amanda Marie

well if your boy friend loves you then hell stay with you.and if your friend is trying to break you up its obviously not working because you said she TRYING to break you up.any way dont worry about it and if your boy friend says ay thing like " why did you say that im a bad kisser?" or something then just explain what your friend is doing.hope i helped!

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Well, I am 13 going on 14, and I would like to have a party. My parents are strict..and for the past years my party has been just a sleepover with 2-3 girls. Wth, I know. That is certainly NOT a party. So, my problem is..I have so many friends, and I'm tired of narrowing down to 2-3 for a sleepover. I'm thinking of inviting around 10 people, maximum, because my parents will probably be pissssed. Ahaha. So, does anyone have an idea of what we can do? I don't want to go bowling..or golfing, OR see a movie, really. I wanna have a cool party, a fun one. My birthday's January 9th, but my party's not until later. (2 weeks maybe) So, does anyone have an idea what to do..something OTHER than a sleepover? Thanks.

well you can beg your parents and if that doesnt work just wait till a night they go out together. then call all your friends for an emergency party!hope that helps!

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ok so i'm fighting w/ my bestfriend..and like now the "popular" girls are all sorta taking her side. and they decided to put mean things in their infos about me, and it doesnt say me but i can tell..and their so stuck up and snobby and they think their so much better than everyone else, when their just b*tches that spend their time talking about other people. and they think their so "popular" when more people hate them then actually like them. and i have a group of friends that love me for me and i'm happy with my life. so after hearing all this your probably thinking what's the problem? well even though i know i shouldnt let what they say get to me..it Really Really does..and it just hurts even though i know their not worth my time. :-( any advice? i rate high for effort..thanks..

forget those bitches! you got friends that actually care about you, you dont need them. they just got something stuck up they're asses and they need to realize what they're doing to people.ugh....i hate people like that! well....i hope i helped!

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k so i like this guy who goes to a different school then me lets call him John. so one time some friends dared me and john to kiss so we did..and we had never really talked before then...but now we talk online like once a weeek cuz he doenst go online much..and he like gave me his phone number and i gave him mine and hes like call me and i say the same thing but we both dont call each other and we try to make plans but they fall through...he also has a neighbor whos gorgeous who likes him and im not sure if he likes her back. and im going to the movies this weekend and i want to invite him...
do u think he likes me and should i invite him to the movies?

yea if he doesnt talk much to your face that means hes shy around you. that means he likes you so i say ask him!hope i helped!

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first of all, my boyfriend and i have been together for two years, and about three months. i love him with all my heart, and i know he loves me as well. well, last month i was going through his sidekick and i went through his text messages. i wasnt looking for anything particular really, i just wanted to read my texts that i sent him. i came across a message from another female, and i guess he was trying to talk to her. i approached him right away about it. he told me that, yes, he hangs out with other girls, drinks with them, etc. im already aware of that, and thats perfectly fine with me. but then he told me that when he sees a cute female, that he does try to get her number for the challenge, and flirts with them. he said he's never done anything sexual with any other girl, he just likes to get to know other people. i let him know that bothers me and that if he still wants to be with me, he needs to stop approaching other females because thats unneccesary when he already has me. he said he'd stop. i really love my boyfriend, and i used to trust him, but after some of this stuff, its hard to trust him. im kind of stuck, and i dont know what to do because i find myself worrying about him cheating on me and things along that line. so.. i'd like to know, what would you do if you came across this situation. thanks. sorry about the length ;\

flirt a lot with him. maybe hell start liking you even more if you come onto him.hope i helped!

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i am very gassy. I know I know, it sounds so gross, and i am alwyas so embaressed about it , but i dont know what to do. I alwyas get gas everywhere i go, at the mall, at the movies at school and even at home! Its not what im eating because i eat very healthy. And my mom says its stress, but i know its not becase besides the gas, im happier than i have ever been. And also its not silent gas, and its very smelly. I ALWAYS get so red when i have gas on the bus or in class, and everyone looks at me. I don know what to do , i have tried medicines and stuff but theuy never seem to work! help!!!

one word, tums. that really helps. i hope i helped!

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