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Nervous conversation starter


Question Posted Monday January 10 2005, 5:41 pm

I never know what to say when im talking to my crush. Sometimes, its akward because i would have nothing to say then it would turn out to be dead scilence. I get kinda scared about what he thinks of me because hes an outgoing guy and i only wish to be outgoing enough to fit up to his standerds. How do i bring up a good conversation without it being akward, and what if i cant think of a topic to bring up what should i do?

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uacctk14 answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 8:08 pm:
i have the same problem if you both have somrthing in common like you like a certain type of music or anything else that you both like would work too and don't think of yourself as not good enough for him cause maybe your just too good for him my advice is get to know him vefore you jump into any conclusions

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maria2653 answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 4:22 pm:
gossip. i know it sounds gay but guys actually like to gossip about people. hope i helped!

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xO_Natalie_Ox answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 8:46 am:
Well, talk to him about school you guys probably go to the same school. Ask him about the teachers or homework and from that build a tsronger conversation. it can also help to get his AIM screen name becuase it is easier to talk to people online then in person. The conversation might flow easier.

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IxAmxCrying answered Monday January 10 2005, 9:53 pm:
Say "FAT PENGUIN!" really abrubtly...come on... a FAT PENGUING would break the ice... get it. Trust me...I've used it numerous times.

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JadedinNowhere answered Monday January 10 2005, 8:09 pm:
Hmm, if he's approaching you, mention something about his clothes or something he's doing. Try and be very observant.. don't make yourself more outgoing for him.. whatever you do don't change yourself for a guy.. really, that is completely stupid because no one can ever keep that up and it will never work out. Also, if you want to lose a bit of the awkward, just a small laugh or something is enough to sort of break the ice. Offer him a pencil, breath mint (but it might send him a message if he's smart enough to get it).. just anything you think he might want. Be nice to him and try and get into some of the conversations he's in.. make a joke, if he's outgoing he'll probably like that in a girl.. hope I gave ya some helpful tips.. go get'um.. ;)

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americangirl101 answered Monday January 10 2005, 8:03 pm:
The same thing happens to me. Well first talk about stuff like so u bummed that schools back or hi and stuff like that get to know him and be his friend. Then when you become his friend you guys will probley call each other and that good of a relationship so you wont feel akward when you talk to him then you can just ad into a convo. that you like him or you would like to hang out. Good luck and follow your heart! <3 American Girl-

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tweety answered Monday January 10 2005, 7:50 pm:
talk about the weather...just kidding. ummm talk about sports(guys love sports!duh!)

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crazybrunet09 answered Monday January 10 2005, 7:30 pm:
wow you totally described how i used to be! ok well i used to be soooo shy! but when i would talk to my crush- just start off being intersting! if theres anything funny thats happened to you or anything like that blurt it allll out- even if it is simple- thats how people talk! but if you have something in common- PERFECT starter! like my old crush- we were on the same soccer club and math class- hope i helped

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