Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
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Location: Pittsburgh
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Age: 15
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well i am getting to that middle school age where everyone has a boyfriend. now im not one of tthose desperate girls who must have one, but if i were to get one how would i tell my mom?
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I would just tell your mother you have this guy friend named _____, and if it would be okay if you were to have him over to help study for a test, or have dinner, or just to hang out or whatever.
Then while he's over, you know he can introduce himself and everything and maybe that can have a little conversation and everything, and then whenever he goes home, just ask your mom what she thought of him. (Her:"I think he's a wonderful boy! :P ) And then just let him know that you like him more as a friend, and he likes you the same way, so you're hoping he asks you out.
Then the next day just run up to her all happy and be like,"He asked me out today!" And she'll be glad that for one, you had them meet so she got her own opinion on him before he even asked you out so she'll already be comfortable with him and trust him and you guys to hang out together and be together.
I hope I helped.
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14/m
how long should you be in a relationship before you kiss your girlfriend? (link)
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Well, there is really is no certain point in a relationship where it's okay to kiss ; it's really just whenever the two people feel most comfortable and ready to do it. Some people kiss on the first date, some don't even kiss till after a month when they date.
I would slowly just work into it. First just give her pecks on the cheeks and everything and see if she's fine with that, and then maybe sometime whenever you two are hanging out and it just feels like the right moment for the two of you, start to lean in towards her. If you see her backing up, obviously she's not too comfortable with it yet, and you should wait awhile longer. But if she doesn't, then.. go for it!
I hope I helped.
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13/f
OK, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 months. Well, a lot of girls in my school like hiim. They always talk to him and flirt with him, and he flirts and talks back. I have asked him many times to stop and he claims hes just talking. But all my friends keep telling me that he always does this. Plus, he told me he thinks other girls are hot. Should I end our relationship? I am getting really mad at him about this and need help! (link)
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If I were you, I'd end the relationship. It sounds to me like he might want to venture out and meet other girls and be single, which you should do also. I mean, you guys are only 13. Girls are going to come and go for him, just like boys are going to come and go for you. This is the age where everyone first gets to date people and wants to date all these guys and girls and everything.
Plus, being in a relationship with a guy whose liked by so many girls and he thinks they're hot, doesn't let in alot of trust into the relationship. He could possibly be cheating, thinking things, who knows, he might not. But who the heck TELLS their girlfriend they think other girls are hot? He doesn't sound too respectful towards you and your feelings.
So like I said, you're young. Try meeting someone else whose new and exciting and will actually respect your feelings and not tell you such rude things and you can have fun with them without worrying every second if they're out flirting with some girl or something. Plus, guys like that usually are called players, and then after awhile, once he's played every girl in the school, he has nobody and winds up by themselves.
I hope I helped.
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Well it seems I have this little problem with saying "I love you" too much... My fiance says its starting to get really annoying lol, But don't get me wrong he does say it back a few times but sometimes I get really offensive or mad when he doesn't say it back everytime even though I think I do over do it too much (I don't know I guess one would just assume "I love you too" is an automatic response). Do you think maybe I'm just too insecure? Lol I mean I suppose there is such a thing as saying it TOO much but how do I stop? I mean obviously I do love him and I want him to know that.... Is there a way I can teach myself not to sound like a broken record though? (link)
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Maybe instead of trying to say you love him all the time, focus on trying to show him you love him. If you're walking out the door, maybe instead of just going "I love you", give him a kiss on the lips and be like,"Love you, I'll see you later, alright?" Or maybe just even kiss him on the lips and say "Bye". Also if you feel yourself starting to say it, just slowly start to try and hold it back and mention something else, or just start thinking of something in your head to make yourself focus elsewhere.
Maybe you're also feeling the need to say it so much, because you're also feeling the need to hear it back just as much. I mean, come on, everyone wants to hear that they're loved and love to hear people say it to them and everything. :] So maybe instead of just saying it to him, show it to him. Take him out to dinner, take him to a movie, maybe somewhere new and he's been wanting to go to.
If he brings up the topic you're saying it too much again, just be like,"Haha, well I'm trying not too, so it might take some time. I just love you tooooo much." And laugh it off and just explain to him you're at least trying.
He just might be annoyed with it slightly because he already knows you love him ; you're his fiance. And whenever you feel you're getting upset if he doesn't always say it back ; you say that to yourself also. That he's your fiance, he asked you to marry him and you KNOW that he loves you.
I mean I guess one CAN say it too much, but you just might be more of an expressive person that your fiance, and feel the need to tell people more your emotions and let them know how you feel about them. I remember with my one boyfriend, we couldn't STOP saying it to eachother, haha. I just don't see how he'd get annoyed, I would love it if someone told me all the time that they loved me!
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I need help fast! My friend is having a bat mitzvah party at a hotel pool, and I need to know how to do my hair! I'm wearing a flowery bikini and the coverup im wearing there is one of those babydoll terrycloth things in green, white leggings, and flats. I need to know how to do my hair though! I know I want it to be up. Since I will be in the pool the whole time, I need something good for water. Also, I have sidebangs. Should I pin them back so they won't be in my face in the pool? One more thing: Should I not wear makeup? I think I might get all runny black eyes if I do. How can I look good without wearing little or no makeup? (link)
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Well, for hair:
-ponytail ( high/low )
-pig tails
-bun
-braided pig tails, or just braid it once.
You could even maybe get one of those flower hair ties that match your suit so you look like you have a little flower sitting in your hair, and then just take that hair tie out and replace it with a normal one when you go to go swimming.
As for makeup, I wouldn't wear it. Unless you have really good waterproof mascara or eyeliner ( even then, sometimes it can run ). Maybe wear some brownish/tan eyeshadow ( I don't know your skin color if you're tan or not ), just some natural looking light color to go with your eyes to give it a little shine.
I hope I helped.
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i think im going to dye my hair this color.. http://img50.imageshack.us/img50/2962/bbbbbbbay8.jpg
i have 2 questions.
1. is that considered light brown, medium brown, or dark??
2. i have blue eyes, light brown hair, and tan skin will that shade of brown look good on me??? (link)
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I would consider that a medium brown, because my friend has dark brown hair, and it's so dark it almost looks black, so that's a nice medium color.
I think that shade would look very nice on you. Medium browns and tan skin would go very nice together, and I just think blue eyes and brown hair in general looks really pretty together since it's such a contrast because with blondes, you know it's the light hair, light eyes. But brown hairs darkish hair with light eyes, it might make your eyes even stand out a bit too.
I hope I helped.
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15,f missouri
there is this guy that i like, we go to the same school and we hang out alot, he knows that like him, and he says that he likes me, but he isn't doing anything about it. My dad said that i can't ask out a guy, it is forward and unapporpriate. So my question to you is how do i convince him that it is ok to ask me out. he flerts w/ me all the time, and i flert back, but i don't know, any help is appriciated. Thanks in advance
~Ash (link)
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Well, in my opinion, I don't think it's exactly "forward and innappropriate" to ask a guy out. It actually shows you have alot of confidence and a guy really likes it sometimes whenever a girl has alot of confidence and makes the first move for once.
I think that's just your dad's view on things because he DID grow up in a different time and things were different back then. Back then, a girl probably WOULD never ask out the guy first, she'd wait to be asked, and also, your his daughter. I'm sure he doesn't even want you dating guys, really. So he might think by telling you that, if the guy's too shy to ask you out, and you're going to wait, it'll be awhile before you get a boyfriend which is good news for him.
I suggest just telling the guy that you really like him, and was wondering if he'd want to go out with you sometime. So that way, you two aren't instantly dating, and you guys can still hang out together and know of your feelings for one another, and hopefully soon you two can become a couple, no matter who asks who.
I hope I helped.
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Has anyone else besides me noticed that the age of kids starting to have sex is dropping more and more. I mean the other day my friend told me she knew an 11 year old that had sex. I was like whoah thats messed up i'm 15 and i'm still a virgin and proud of it.lol. I mean serisouly what kind of a message is this sending to other countries?
So two questions...
Do you think Americas youth is way too sex oriented? yes or no?
If so what do you think is the cause for this? ex.tv music etc....
Thamx in advance (link)
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I think America's youth is getting into sex wayyyyyy too much. I think it's messed up myself.
Yes, I believe television, music and everything IS the cause for this, but it's not just that. It's people itself. They always hear their older sister or brother or someone talking about it, and think it's the cool thing to do. Also, they think it'll make them seem older. Don't you remember whenever you were a little kid, and you always hated it when you couldn't do this because you were too young, or that because you were too young? Well they might be thinking,"I'm older now. I had sex." If they only realized how much disease they're probably spreading or recieving, and all the other consequences of having sex, and how easily it seems kids don't treat it anymore like it's just some thing they do and they lose their virginity and that's it. It's over. I personally think it's something special between two people who love eachother. I'm 15 and a virgin and proud of it too, and I don't expect to lose mine for a good while.
I've read so many questions on here about girls who are pregnant and they're like, 12, 13, 14. I even read one once about a girl asking us what to do about her 8 year old sister who was having sex. And I'm just like,"Oh, my, god." I was shocked.
I hope I helped.
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I started High School about a month ago. and I've pretty much hated everything about it so far.
Except for this one boy. I really like him, but I never showed it. and he asked me out one day, and I said yes and I was very happy. But he broke up with me 10 HOURS LATER! with no explanation. and it hurt me because I really like him.
we hung out the next day and everything was cool between us.
but all of a sudden, he began to avoid me and RUN AWAY. as though I annoy him or something. and I rarely talk to him/wanna talk to him.
so what can I do to let him know that I don't like him and I am completely over him? because what he's doing it so immature and stupid. (link)
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Well to really show an ex your over them and want nothing to do with them, don't even try and get revenge. That shows that you were probably sitting there, plotting all these ideas just for them and to get them upset or whatever.
Just do exactly what he's been doing to you, if he talks to you, just avoid him or even run away too like he does to you all the time. Then maybe he'll start to think HE'S the annoying one.
Just don't even bother to waste your time with this kid anymore, he just sounds like a huge immature annoyance.
But if you really want to "get revenge" or whatever, just do something that'll help you out and show him you're over him - just talk to other guys and flirt with them. Show him you're over him, and at the same time, maybe find a new guy for yourself.
I hope I helped.
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friday night my school had a dance and a couple boys pushed this other boy into me and they were saying "dance with her, dance with her." but he backed away and said no. whats with that, could it mean anything...? (link)
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That probably means that that guy likes you, and his friends were just tryign to get him to make a move for you or something, but obviously ( as most would handle the situation ) he was nervous and shy and didn't want you knowing he liked you, so he just said no.
I hope I helped.
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16, female.
tonight my friend had a little bonfire for her bday! and well this kid ive liked on and off for about 5 months was there. he's actually her neighbor. we've been pretty good friends for awhile and well now he has a a girlfriend of about 4 months. well me and him still flirt KIND OF, not as bad as before he had a girlfriend but then to me its flirting but to him or others it might not be. like me and a couple guys were throwin the football around and me and him (matt) were at one end, in the dark and we were kinda close and when they guys would throw it hard at me on purpose he would like jump in front to try and save me and he would always give me the ball because i wanted to throw it, but he would pass it off to me. but he wouldnt hand it to me he would like kind of hug me from behind and then give the ball to me. and then he was sayin i liked this guy that i madeout with but really i dont! long story..anyways he knew that i was getting angry with him but he knew that i would just punch him or run after him or like hit him in the stomache so he kept doing it and each time he would grab my hand and smile. also when we would sit by the fire he was sitting next to me and i looked at him and then he like took his hand and tapped it on my face/chin :] i dont know if you know what im talking bout! but then he took my purse and was holding it and was looking through it and saw i had my school pictures and he looked at it and then took one (link)
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I wouldn't stop talking to him. If you stopped talking to him, that would probably hurt you even more than you are right not.
It sounds to me like he does like you, but if he loves his girlfriend, I'm not too sure. He just might be thinking that he's being friendly, but others are taking it as flirting and everything. Guys always do this and always send signals out to girls that they really didn't mean to send. Or, he just might like the both of you, and doesn't know who to go for.
I would just keep doing what you're doing so he doesn't suspect anything and just have a good time with him still. Maybe after awhile, more feelings for you'll develop, and he'll realize how much he likes you and want to go out with you, or not. But either way, you still get to hang out with him and everything, right? That's still a great thing. And even if they weren't to break up anytime soon, you guys are young. Most couples wind up breaking up sooner or later, so you never really know what can happen. Over time, the more you flirt and the more he flirts back, I would jsut tell him. I mean, we all only have one life to live, and we're all so afraid to do anything, just take a chance. You never know, he might return the feelings and he could be the greatest boyfriend you'll ever have. And if he doesn't feel the same, you can always go back to being friends. You'll just have to work really hard at keeping your friend steady and making it less awkward and pretend like it never happened.
Just be really careful with how you flirt with him and everything, because you don't want someone going and telling his girlfriend, because that's going to cause alot of unwanted future drama , and her friends and alot of other people might start to view you as trying to steal her man or whatever.
I hope I helped.
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16-f
alright! well im usually pretty outgoing, but thats around the people im comfortable with and stuff. and around people i dont know, and dont go to my school. anyways when im with this guy i kinda like but has a girlfriend, sometimes im really shy and quiet because i dont want to say anything stupid but then sometimes at like bonfires or something im kinda loud and scream alot, sometimes i feel like im annoying! i cant help it. what do guys like? how can i get a guys attention? i know i cant just sit there, but i dont like making moves! i like when the attention is on me, dont get me wrong. me and this guy flirt alot but we always do the same stuff, like hit each other, smile, he takes something and i have to get it back, just regular stuff like that and after awhile i dont know what to do to keep his attention and sometimes we stop chasing or talking to each other and its awkward silence! sometimes i try and make him jealous by talking to other guys, or like going places with other guys or like sitting by others and i know he is looking at me! i dont want to go too far, because he does have a girlfriend but he always starts the flirting! its like after awhile im like, alright i dont want to argue or i dont want to chase anymore, but i still want to flirt if you know what im saying? i dont want to be annoying about it or be too obvious though. sometimes i feel like he realizes he is flirting big time and is like wait i have a girlfriend and then backs off a little, which is the right thing to do! but i love when he looks at me and smiles, when he gets close to me, when he grabs my face and tilts my chin up when im looking at him. hes just adorable and really sweet! any suggestions? im NOT gonna stop hanging out with him, i always have a good time with him and i cant tell him how i feel- i dont want to ruin things. i always try and get all dolled up when i think im gonna see him, hoping he'll notice me or something! but i know he doesnt care about girls lookin all skanky, i know he thinks im cute or hott or whatever. but i feel like i always have to look cute or perfect when im around him!..he isnt shallow though. thats the thing :] and he always notice the little things in me. its cuuute!
well thanks! and any help would be great (link)
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Hm, well some things you can also do whenever you guys are hanging around together is:
- poke/nudge his side lightly ( which may arise in a tickle fight )
- after he takes something from you, maybe give him a really big hug ( and you know to hug you use two arms so he might lower his ) and then just grab whatever he took, stick your tongue out/smile & laugh and run away with it )
- or just give him alot of hugs
- if he's wearing one of those beanie hats, pull it over his face or even if he's wearing a normal hat, grab it from him and put it on your head
- grab his cheeks instead and move them around to make weird looking faces
- compliment him and tell him he looks really nice or just in general compliment him by telling him he's a really nice, funny guy ( and maybe after that, over time if you're comfortable enough too, then tell him you like him i don't see why you shouldn't - it sounds to me like he likes you back, but it's your choice wether you want to say anything or not. )
- just make alot of eye contact with him and smile
- if you haven't talked about anything alot yet, try and find some common ground and ask him alot about himself. he'll appreciate you listening and wanting to know so much about him.
- suggest a hang out thing between just the two of you @ the movies, or bowling, or the mall, wherever.
- whenever you're sitting close to him and talking to him, just fiddle around with anything on him ( like if he's wearing those khaki (sp) pants with those things hanging off them, just fiddle with them, or if he's wearing a hoodie, fiddle around with those tassel things around the hood. )
But just remember, be careful whenever you're flirting with this guy that somebody else whose there doesn't go to his girlfriend and tell her what's going on. You don't want people thinking you're a man stealer or something.
I hope I helped!
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How do you feel better when you are crying? I'm kinda going through a really rough time and I'm having some sleeping problems. If it helps, the rough thing I'm going through is a break-up. We were together for about 3 years and he just ended it. So can anyone give me some tips on how to stop crying and feel better? (link)
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Actually, sometimes crying can be a good thing. It's letting all your emotions out at once. So I suggest just crying big, good, final cries, and then just focus on other things and try your best not to cry again.
Start focusing on yourself more and try to interest yourself in other, new things that you might've not ever tried before. It can become a new hobby, or you can even just stick with an old favorite hobby of yours you might've not done in a good while. And just go out with your friends, have alot of fun and just realize you don't need him. You can get plenty of other guys, and someday, you'll meet a guy whose x59034 times better than he is. Watch all your favorite movies, but just don't do anything that's going to cause memories of him and something you two have done together, cause that obviously won't help.
It took me awhile to get over my last ex, and believe me, I cried, I had trouble sleeping too and everything, but I just cried all I could cry until I couldn't anymore, and then when I couldn't cry anymore, I thought,"Well, now what do I do?" And so, I just got my life back on track, just without him in it. And now, I'm over him and happy.
And I hope over time, you will be too, and I hope I helped.
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OK so i just heard a country song and I loved it, but idk what it's called or who sings it. Ive looked on itunes, google, and lyric websites but can't find it. It goes like "But no matter how far that I am .. I keep coming back"
If anyone knows what it is, pleaseeee help me! (link)
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This is the only song that comes up, but it doesn't seem to perfectly match what you said:
http://www.singulartists.com/artist_o/outspoken_lyrics/elastic_lyrics.html
Like in the one part of the chorus, it does say,"I keep ____ back," but it doesn't say coming. It saying running.
So check it out, and hopefully it fits in with the song you're talking about. Other than that, no luck.
Also consider the option it's a brand new song, and nobody has yet to create a lyrics site for it yet or iTUNES hasn't heard of it yet, so it hasn't put that song in their song list.
So maybe wait awhile too, listen for it on country channels, and see if it appears and try and memorize a specific part of the chorus, and try to listen to the title/song artist and then check again to see if anybody created a lyric thing for them.
Also, something else you might want to try doing is, do you remember the station you were on whenever you heard the song? If you do, find out the number of the station, call them, and just let them know you heard a song they played earlier, and if they knew who sings it.
I hope I helped.
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ME *&& my friend are being Betty and Wilma from the Flinstones. we need help. could should we do our makeup so that we look good but i dont wanna look like.....slutty. lol. sorry. bbut yeah if anyone knows thank youuu! (link)
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Hm, well since you two are playing cave women anyways, they didn't really have makeup, so just wear it as natural as you can.
Maybe wear some light mascara, and lightly dab some eyeliner on, and then then just a white eyeshadow or a brown/tan color and blend it into your skin so it just gives your eyes sort of a natural shine.
I hope I helped.
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alright, so first off i'll say i'm 13/f and I'm turning 14 in about 2 weeks. My best friend's birthday is in January, last year she didn't have a birthday party because her mom said she was too old and mature for birthday partys... well, lets say that I still want to be a kid and still throw birthday partys. I just thought about some ideas that I could have for the party. Here they are-
Hollywood theme-
everyone dresses up as a celebrity, then we have a red carpet at home where each person walks down and then they have to do what the celebrity does (example- christina aguilera- that person would have to sing) and then later do a craft project, we take cement and shape it into a star, then have each person put their hand and foot prints in, and also their signature, then let it dry and then they can keep it. Pretty fun huh?
well my question is... does this idea sound too childish? and are 14 year olds still allowed to have birthday partys? I really dont want my friends to go home after this party, saying "Oh my gosh, she threw a party that 7 year olds would!" I want a party that makes my friends say "WOW! That was amazing!" but still think I'm not childish.
oh yeah, and another idea was to split everybody into teams, then tye-dye T-shirts with team names, then play night games that have teams included... then when everybody is cold, we make a bon-fire and make 'smores. Does that seem too childish to you people for a 14 year old??????
THANK YOU FOR TAKING YOUR TIME TO READ THIS... REMEMBER, MY BIRTHDAY PARTY WILL BE IN 2 WEEKS, SO I SHOULD HAVE SOME IDEAS SOON! (link)
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Well, I just turned 15 in July, and I had a party. My mom also thought I was maybe getting a little too old for birthday parties. I say, who cares? Alot of friends getting together and having fun sounds like alot of fun to me.
For the hollywood theme party, eh, I wouldn't do that. It sounds cool but it seems a little tad childish. Plus, if you're going to have guys there and everything, they're probably not going to want to do that at all. I know if I was 14, I'd feel weird making a star with my name and everything and I'd be so embarassed and hate having to sing infront of everyone.
But that's what I did last year was have a bonfire! And that's compltely not childish. It's older, fun, and you're just hanging out, chilling by the fire and making smores and playing night games like any teenagers would do to have fun. It's basically just like one huge get together like on a normal friday night.
So I think you should go have the bonfire and do the teams thing! That sounds like a blast.
I hope I helped, and I hope you have a good time.
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for just over a month now. She had been a very touchy feely person, not in any sort of sexual sense, but always holding or playing with hands, or hugging and such.
Up until this week. She has been in an absolutely horrible mood since Sunday, really hasn't talked to me or returned calls or anything, and hasn't been fond of any sort of physical or social contact from anyone. I would chalk it up to PMS (sorry about the stereotype, girls) but it's literally been all day all wee. I had asked her earlier in the week if she was okay, and she said yes, that she was just feeling weird and didn't want to be around people. Today at lunch it was awful. I asked her again, walking to class (just to note, the first time she didn't hold my hand walking to her class) and she said she didn't want to talk about it. She didn't say anything else, and I hugged her an kissed her goodbye, but still.
I've treated her very well, and I've been giving her space. I'm pretty sure it as absolutely nothing to do with me, but nonetheless, what am I supposed to do? (link)
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There could be multiple reasons as to why this is happening. Girls can just become very moody at times, and aren't always wanting to be around people at the moment and don't want to be hugging everyone and talking.
I would just try asking her again if she's alright and just ask her if it's something you've done, just to get it out of the way. I doubt it's that she's cheating on you, because you seem like a really nice guy, and if she's breaking away from social contact/psychical contact with EVERYONE, then it's something else, I'm sure. But also just let her know if there's anything that she needs to talk about, then you're here for her, and she knows that.
It just might be a little depression phase, which every person goes through, and she, like I said, might just feel she wants to be left alone for awhile and doesn't feel like socializing or anything with anybody.
Also, something might be going on with friends, family, etc. and she's been put in a bad situation or something and doesn't know what to do about it.
Or like you said, lol, PMS. And PMS ( as you probably know ) lasts around a week, maybe a little more, so just give it some time and see if she starts to cheer up a little more. Cramps and all the "wonderful" things that come with PMS would but any girl in a horrible mood.
So maybe just try some things for her to cheer her up a bit. Bring her some flowers, write her a letter telling her how much you love her and care about her, or buy her a little stuffed animal, anything to hopefully just perk up her day and let her know how much you like/love her. Take her to a place that she loves to go, or watch a movie with her that she loves or just do something that involves her interests in some way.
I hope I helped.
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i'm starting to really like my guy friend. he just recently broke up with his girlfriend & told me he wants a new one. i have also hinted that i want a boyfriend. i've flirted with him too. he seems like he's interested, but i think he mostly just likes me as a friend. when he asked my best friend if she knew who would be a good girl for him, she said me and he said "i dunno" & "hmm" ... i guess hes thinking about it. . . i dont really know what to do.
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Just try hanging out with him and flirting with him as much as you can, and send some more signals out his way. ( Don't be discouraged if he doesn't catch on, guys hardly ever do ), and just see what happens. I suggest try and take a chance, and let him know you like him and see what happens. We only live on life, so best to live it good, right? Also, you say you only THINK he mostly just likes you as a friend, you never know. Guys can hide their feelings about a girl ( especially a friend girl ) very well.
So just hang out with him alot and everything, and maybe one night whenever you're feeling extra confident and comfortable to tell him, tell him. Just be like,"____, I know you just broke up with your girlfriend not too long ago and everything, but I just wanted to tell you I like you. And I'm saying it now, because I know I'll probably never say it any other night, cause I'll be too scared to. And if you don't feel the same way, that's fine, I really hope we can remain really good friends and everything, because I'd rather be that than nothing."
And if he does feel the same way, great!
And if he doesn't ( which I hope he does feel the same! ), then there's always plenty of other fish in the sea, and it may be a little weird at first, but slowly if you both work at it, your friendship'll soon return to normal and everything'll be fine. Like I said, better friends then nothing, right?
I hope I helped, and I hope everything works out!
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This kid on my football team, when me and him get in arguments he calls my girl ugly. and it makes me wanna deck him. now my ques is, next time he pulls that crap should i just deck him? Cause this pussy, right when we're bout to fight always apologizes. in a fight i don't know if i'd win bu i wanna deck him so bad. should i? (link)
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No, don't deck him. As much as I know you want to, it'd only create further drama and probably future arguments between the two of you, and plus, you'd get in alot of trouble for hitting someone on your team, let alone in school.
Whenever he makes a comment like that, just ignore him and be like,"Pft, you're not worth even hitting/trying to come up with a come back." Or just let him know,"You're just jealous cause I got her, I bet." Or just be like,"... have you even looked at yourself lately? You're more uglier of a girl than my girlfriend would be."
And like I said, just ignore him. You know your girlfriend's not ugly, and everyone else does. Whenever people usually try and insult eachother it's because they just feel crappy about themselves, so they have to take it out on other people.
I hope I helped.
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this guy basically asked me to have sex with him. he does that alot. we only talk, and i don't like him more than that. i dont know what to do. (i say no of course, but he always asks.) (link)
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The next time he asks, in a serious tone, just be like,"No, I won't have sex with you, I've tell you the same thing all the time, it's always going to be the same answer. I'm not trying to be rude or anything, but I can't keep talking to you if all you're going to do is ask me to have sex with you, and I really think you're a cool person, and I don't WANT to stop talking to you, but you always asking is aggrivating."
If he continues to ask you even more, just keep repeating that to him in a serious tone each time, and then after a couple times, just start to full on ignore him after it. So then he knows that whenever he's going to ask that, you're just not going to talk to him. So hopefully, he'll either toss out the sex question, and start talking to you normally.
I hope I helped.
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