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what should i dooo
i'm starting to really like my guy friend. he just recently broke up with his girlfriend & told me he wants a new one. i have also hinted that i want a boyfriend. i've flirted with him too. he seems like he's interested, but i think he mostly just likes me as a friend. when he asked my best friend if she knew who would be a good girl for him, she said me and he said "i dunno" & "hmm" ... i guess hes thinking about it. . . i dont really know what to do.
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Just try hanging out with him and flirting with him as much as you can, and send some more signals out his way. ( Don't be discouraged if he doesn't catch on, guys hardly ever do ), and just see what happens. I suggest try and take a chance, and let him know you like him and see what happens. We only live on life, so best to live it good, right? Also, you say you only THINK he mostly just likes you as a friend, you never know. Guys can hide their feelings about a girl ( especially a friend girl ) very well.
So just hang out with him alot and everything, and maybe one night whenever you're feeling extra confident and comfortable to tell him, tell him. Just be like,"____, I know you just broke up with your girlfriend not too long ago and everything, but I just wanted to tell you I like you. And I'm saying it now, because I know I'll probably never say it any other night, cause I'll be too scared to. And if you don't feel the same way, that's fine, I really hope we can remain really good friends and everything, because I'd rather be that than nothing."
And if he does feel the same way, great!
And if he doesn't ( which I hope he does feel the same! ), then there's always plenty of other fish in the sea, and it may be a little weird at first, but slowly if you both work at it, your friendship'll soon return to normal and everything'll be fine. Like I said, better friends then nothing, right?
I hope I helped, and I hope everything works out!
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just really try to continue being friendly to him, and things should work out for the best. try to hang out with him more, even if its with a big group of friends at the moviesw or something.
best of luck
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