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how to keep a guys attention.
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alright! well im usually pretty outgoing, but thats around the people im comfortable with and stuff. and around people i dont know, and dont go to my school. anyways when im with this guy i kinda like but has a girlfriend, sometimes im really shy and quiet because i dont want to say anything stupid but then sometimes at like bonfires or something im kinda loud and scream alot, sometimes i feel like im annoying! i cant help it. what do guys like? how can i get a guys attention? i know i cant just sit there, but i dont like making moves! i like when the attention is on me, dont get me wrong. me and this guy flirt alot but we always do the same stuff, like hit each other, smile, he takes something and i have to get it back, just regular stuff like that and after awhile i dont know what to do to keep his attention and sometimes we stop chasing or talking to each other and its awkward silence! sometimes i try and make him jealous by talking to other guys, or like going places with other guys or like sitting by others and i know he is looking at me! i dont want to go too far, because he does have a girlfriend but he always starts the flirting! its like after awhile im like, alright i dont want to argue or i dont want to chase anymore, but i still want to flirt if you know what im saying? i dont want to be annoying about it or be too obvious though. sometimes i feel like he realizes he is flirting big time and is like wait i have a girlfriend and then backs off a little, which is the right thing to do! but i love when he looks at me and smiles, when he gets close to me, when he grabs my face and tilts my chin up when im looking at him. hes just adorable and really sweet! any suggestions? im NOT gonna stop hanging out with him, i always have a good time with him and i cant tell him how i feel- i dont want to ruin things. i always try and get all dolled up when i think im gonna see him, hoping he'll notice me or something! but i know he doesnt care about girls lookin all skanky, i know he thinks im cute or hott or whatever. but i feel like i always have to look cute or perfect when im around him!..he isnt shallow though. thats the thing :] and he always notice the little things in me. its cuuute!
well thanks! and any help would be great
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Hm, well some things you can also do whenever you guys are hanging around together is:
- poke/nudge his side lightly ( which may arise in a tickle fight )
- after he takes something from you, maybe give him a really big hug ( and you know to hug you use two arms so he might lower his ) and then just grab whatever he took, stick your tongue out/smile & laugh and run away with it )
- or just give him alot of hugs
- if he's wearing one of those beanie hats, pull it over his face or even if he's wearing a normal hat, grab it from him and put it on your head
- grab his cheeks instead and move them around to make weird looking faces
- compliment him and tell him he looks really nice or just in general compliment him by telling him he's a really nice, funny guy ( and maybe after that, over time if you're comfortable enough too, then tell him you like him i don't see why you shouldn't - it sounds to me like he likes you back, but it's your choice wether you want to say anything or not. )
- just make alot of eye contact with him and smile
- if you haven't talked about anything alot yet, try and find some common ground and ask him alot about himself. he'll appreciate you listening and wanting to know so much about him.
- suggest a hang out thing between just the two of you @ the movies, or bowling, or the mall, wherever.
- whenever you're sitting close to him and talking to him, just fiddle around with anything on him ( like if he's wearing those khaki (sp) pants with those things hanging off them, just fiddle with them, or if he's wearing a hoodie, fiddle around with those tassel things around the hood. )
But just remember, be careful whenever you're flirting with this guy that somebody else whose there doesn't go to his girlfriend and tell her what's going on. You don't want people thinking you're a man stealer or something.
I hope I helped!
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