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I'm currently on a swim team and eatin much healthier, but today my friend and I went to the pool and she only brought sodas to drink it was very hot so I broke my 3 week chain of no sodas. I feel terrible, I also ate a few cookies, how can I keep from eating the bad stuff when the oppurtunities right in front of me? .. Ill rate :] (link)
They have rules for a reason! You don't drink soda and go into the pool, otherwise you will drown. Good going, you ruined your career.


Well, there's this guy that I like and I know he likes me, his friends have told me.All of his friends think that we should go out, but I can't gop out with him because of my friends.See...I'm into Cheerleading and danceing, and hes into skateboarding...two different worlds, and his not the most popular guy either, and well, I am, and I can't really go out with somebody like him. What should I do?I really like him, should I go out with him or do what my friends want and not even talk to him? HELP!!! (link)
You're funny.






Oh, im sorry. Wow, I think you're serious. You're living out trendy pop songs, good for you.





Don't be a superficial idiot.


I'm working out more, and I'm off sodas and sugar, but I want to know, what are some good or okay foods to eat for like, lunch, dinner that I could actually convince my mom to make for dinner or lunch? Also, what are some good or okay foods I can prepare and actually like for lunch? *btw, I get sick when I eat seafood, so I can't eat any type of fish.* I'Ll rate HigH! (link)
I've heard a lot of good things about angus beef and steaks.

Basically any red meat. If you drink the blood of the animal with it, it will give you the strength of the animal so you can work out better.


what does 69 mean? (link)
69 - or Sixty Nine - is a number in standard english - not to be confused with the numbers of other languages, such as - Negenenzestig, Soixante Neuf, Sechzig Neun, or Sesenta Nueve.

Sixty nine is the number that comes after sixty eight, and before 70.


okay ive been so self concious about my wieght and all.. im not fat but i have a little gut that i wanna get rid of and i just wanna flattnen my stomach so like whne i just stand up its just like flat but i hate going on diets and i dont really care abouta loosing wieght i just wanna flatten my stomach anbd thin out my legs so they're not all flabby and just tone my body.. but some people told me that i can just eat as much of whatever i want but then at night just do alotta crunches and kicks and excersise and even though i wont loose weight and all.. i'll still be toning my body.. is this true? (link)
Most kids would just cut their wrists or go on a diet, but you're a trooper.

Get some really thick books, maybe some weight loss ones, then just lie flat on the ground. Have a sibling stack the books on top of the areas you want flattened until you feel great pain and pressure.

Keep them there for 2-3 weeks and most importantly DONT EAT OR DRINK ANYTHING. You can't move or it wont work.

If that doesn't work then maybe try what the cool kids are doing and just drink, smoke and cut your wrists until the problems go away.


by bro likes golf and im trying to get him to play that cause i play football and he wants to play that what do ido please help me (link)
If suzy lee likes apple pie.

And Alphonzo likes margarine.

How much force does Mr. Turner have to put on a bottle cap to shoot it from Time Warner headquarters to Williams Street?


Is it right for a girl to ask a guy out? please answer..i rate!! (link)
Gee Huck, that woman done asked you out to the sadee hawkins dance.

Yessir Jimbo lets lynch her, woman should know her place!


I don't believe in myself..I have very low self esteem..I feel horrible about myself most of the time..How can I boost my confidence..It's not as easy as it sounds..I don't know what to do..I have no friends and my parents (esp. my mom) tells me I'm useless and ugly) I get made fun of all the time..no wonder my self esteem is so low..How can I boost my confidence..All I want to do is feel superior just once..please help (link)
Find out what you are good at. If you really want to make yourself feel superior, this site is a good place to start. You can mock people here all day, they really just set themselves up for it.


Ok, everyone and I mean EVERYONE says my b/f is bi. I don't really feel 'comfertable' going out with a bi person. My friends and other people like never shut up about it and it's really annoying. What should I do?? (link)
I agree, you should just ask him already. Just because "everyone" says hes bisexual doesn't mean that he is.


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okay .. well i'm going out with this really great guy, but before he asked me out we were like REALLY tight friends .. and right now i dont feel like we're getting anywhere and we might not last for much longer. but the thing is he really loves me, and i really do love him too but i wanna break up with him, so if we get in a fight we won't lose our friendship too. he's an awesome guy .. but i like someone else too, and i'll never have a chance with him if i'm tied ((spelling .. ?)) down with my current boyfriend. i KN0W THiZ iZ L0NG BUT PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
I was impressed with the post before I reached this part...

"i KN0W THiZ iZ L0NG BUT PLEASE HELP ME!"

If you love him and he loves you, I wouldn't try seeking another relationship.

If you "love" then why are you wanting to give that up in the first place? Obviously its not love and you are just in a little fling with some guy you "like" and you want to just jump off to other relationships when its convenient.

Thank you AdviceNators.com, i've learned a new stereotype for 13 year olds.

After about 10 people that should prove it right?


Hey this is (Hailey!) Ok, my 3 friends and I got in a fight, and its been 3 days since we haevnt been friends, and i mean, we were best friends to tha bone! And they are out having fun while I am sitting at home a mess because i miss them. They haven't even called me or talked to me. They don't even care about me. I don't want to lose them, but it looks like they DO want to lose me. What should I do? Because I know most of you will probably say "they arent worth it," or "make new friends" but i love them to death and i dont want to just let this go. And I mean, i've already tried to solve it, i've tried everything. THEY HATE ME. OMG Help please. I cant take this much longer. :'-( (link)
You didn't say *why* you were in the fight. With the vague description you gave its hard for anyone to tell if they should be angry at you. For all we know you may have shot one of their boyfriends because you took supaiku's advice, or maybe started smoking or drinking like all the other cool kids on this site.

I'd have to say from what you've given me. If you've tried everything and they still don't want to be friends with you.

Its not going to happen again.


hey i have a tough decision to make. yes its tough for me. tomorrow (tuesday) i can either go to bible school or my softball leagues party. i really wanna go to both but they are at the same time. i already said id go to bible school but i also said id go to the party with my friend. will someone please help me decide and give me good reasons y i should go to what you chose? (link)
Well, first of all, this would be easier for me to reply to if you made a bunch of spelling errors.

Well, if you go to bible school, then you lied to your friend and then you're a damn sinner and going to bible school doesn't matter anyway. So the predicament you are in, you are probably better off to just go for the more entertaining lie. Your life before you go to hell will be much more entertaining if you go to the softball party instead of reading the bible.


Does anyone have a link to the full song "Crazy For You" by Gemini? I absolutley LOVE that song and I can't find it anywhere. I rate high.

Thanks-

-bonjovigrl- (link)
http://www.samgoody.com/Music/Album.aspx?p_id=P+++434754&a_id=R+++649327&prodid=CATL1004.2

Hope I helped.


alright my boy friend has some issues and i dont know wat to do about it . He has a problem in figuring out who he wants to be . He sed one day that he wants to be gothic but then he changed his mind and i cant stand all the pressure of worrying about him all the time . I realy love him and i dont know wat i wud do with out him but im tired of waiting on him to figure out who he wants to be and im scared to break up with him cuz i love him so much . Wat shud i do?? -worried (link)
Date more intelligent people if you are going to date someone at all. Seeking personality is one thing, but it seems like your boyfriend is trying to figure out what trendy group to be stereotyped as. He sounds like an idiot.


ok this is really worryin me my g/f is in middlsboro with her mom 4 the summer there is alot of boys that like her up there. i mean yea i trust her and all but i rlly dont kno what 2 think about all those boys can any1 help me???? (link)
Well, having what is so far a short life, typing everything out as short as possible (i.e. - "rlly" - "kno" - "any1") I think that just like the rest of your life, this relationship will be short.

If you learn to take your time and go down the right path, im sure that you won't have these problems.


i really dont like meat..i mean just the taste of it..does anybody know a list of foods that i could eat that have protein in them! thanks a bunch! i rate!! (link)
Try feeding off the tears of the meat packing industry. Now that you have insulted their product by saying the taste is bad.

Im sure how much protien is in disgrace and sorrow, but im sure theres at least a bit.


i got this weird virus on my computer through AIM..i did a virusscan on my comp. and it said there was nothing there but it still kept acting funny. so i restored my computer to an earlier date, will this get rid of it???? thanks, i rate 5's!! (link)
It depends, odds are you have a virus in a folder that virus scanners wont go through (some operating systems come with viruses installed (which are not malicious, but they are there)) its a common tactic, you may want to try manually searching for the virus or clearing out your master boot record.


i want to know what kind of guitar to get. not too expensive, but not really cheap. and also what kind of amp? i have no idea about anything, but i really want to get a guitar and then take lessons to learn how to play. a friend of mine has an ibanez. im pretty sure thats what it was called...so anyways is that a good kind? anything about guitars would help me out a lot. also..is there other kinds besides bass? im not going to be in a band or anything, maybe one day since my friend is already in one, but so is bass what i want? or what? please just tell me anything i need to know...and what to get. thanx! (link)
I play bass and guitar, and personally, if you don't want to spend a lot of money, I really suggest that you buy accoustic for your first guitar, because its generally either cheaper or about the same price as a regular guitar, and you don't need an amp. If you are into singing while you play as well its a lot easier to hear yourself.

You don't have to buy a top notch brand right away, my first guitar was an Antares Accoustic and I still play it to this day (I actually prefer it over my fender stratocaster... By quite some bit) Accoustic gets better as the wood ages and down the road if you keep playing it the guitar will only sound better and better. If you plan on going with a bass, and you want an electric bass, I suggest Washburn - Which is what I started on. The XB series of Washburn basses can get relatively cheap and they are fairly reliable. Theres always room for upgrading, and you can always buy another guitar, I currently own 5. Don't go out and buy a really expensive guitar right away. You will often find yourself just as impressed with the lower end knockoffs.


What do u do when the guy youve been going out with dumped you cause he wanted someone hotter?
age 13 gender female (link)
Have a tea party?


13/f
Okay well there's this guy I really like and I want him to be my boyfriend but the thing is that one of my friends likes him a lot too. So when I told her I liked him she made me promise that I wouldn't go out with him. I think it's kinda stupid for her to make me promise that so I told her that if he asked me out I was gonna say yes. But then she got mad at me and I think she told him that I liked him because he has been avoiding me ever since. I wanna talk to him about it but I haven't gotten a hold of him lately. And since he's avoiding me we aren't really hanging out. I'm really sad since I've liked him on and off the whole year. And I'm kind of jealous of my friend cuz he's been flirting with her a whole lot. So what do I do? Do I talk to him or her. . .Or both of them? Was it wrong for me to not promise I wouldn't go out with this guy since my friend liked him too? (link)
Well, I sincerely think you should just get over it. Why are you sacraficing friendships for meaningless pseudo-romantic relationships? You're 13, you have no place in a "love" relationship right now, you should stick to being friends with people and leave the romanticism for a time where you are old enough to understand it.




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