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Location: Austin, Texas
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does anyone now how to get a boy to like a girl

sleep with him.

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Well, My friend and i were just in a fight and recently we just made up. I still feel I don't trust him and that I kinda don't want to be friends anymore. He ALWAYS hurts the one he loves the most and then regrets it. He has done it to me way to many time and it has gone to far. Should I end the friendship because I don't want to get hurt again or should i keep with the frienship. I kinda feel like I am being used for advice, Help, support, and love and I know that is the meaning of the friendship but he expresses it in a different way... I know I said to him that I never wanted anything to come between us and never to have brake a relationship and I have always been the one keeping the friends together.. Should I stay friends or Not??

yes you should stay friends because getting hurt is so much fun.

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i have this idiot for a friend and her name is ashlee shes retarded and doesnt know how to plug a lamp in what should i do??

it wasnt a lamp it was my playstation! and i got it to work..and now just so you know im going to beat you up

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i'm 13/f and i weight 115!! i want to lose 15 lbs. and FAST, i already skip meals and sometimes i even make myself vomit... i know it's not healthy but i see myself as the fattest person on the face of this earth. i gained like 15 pounds over the summer and i have no idea how! i have a boyfriend that i havn't seen since the begining of the year and when i see him again i don't want to be all fat. but thats beside the point... does anyone know how to stop food cravings.. besides diet pills cuse i have no idea how i'd get those, and my friends said they don't work. help please

dont you have self control..just dont eat so damn much. if you want to lose wieght bad enough youll do it. its cheap too

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OK ive been liking this guy ever since we've been in the same class together and ive told him and he asked me out but then two days later he broke up with me saying he wants to get to know me more and hes been with me everyday since we broke up but still hasnt asked me back out...i want to be with him but i dont wanna wait around very long.. what should i do?

tell him that. duh

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i have this friend. shes nothing like me, and follows me around everywhere. i've tried to deal with it, but its really annoying. ive told her several times how i felt , but she still follows me and stuff. i guess i kinda feel sorry for her. only im tired of it. should i move on?

tell her to back off. if it annoys you then the fuck should you have to deal with her? shes not your responsibility.

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I like this guy I'll call him Brian, when he had a girlfriend he always flirted with me, but Friday his girlfriend broke up with him then he was at a dance I went to and we barely spoke. I kept trying to talk to him but he barely said a word. I'm wondering why he didn't talk to me. Also there's a rumor that he likes me, do you think he does. (Sorry that its long)

yes he likes you. all guys ignore the girl they like.

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someone help me please. Im not gunna ramble on so im gunna put out the basics alright
1)bf of 9 months
2)havent seen him for 19 days
3)barely calls
4)keeps askin me if i know this certain.. constantly
5)he still says i love you.. but im confused
i just want to hit him sooo bad yell at him so loud get it thru his thick head and leave him but i dont because I love him

did you accidentally hit the period button the first few times? learn how to use a period, and try again.

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17 female senior. (sorry its so long!)
Okay so i have this thing where i'm scared to mess around with guys, like i'm cool with them doing things to me, its the whole idea of me doing stuff to them. Don't get me wrong its not like i've never done anything before but i get nervous everytime that i have (which have been on rare occasions) I'm okay with sex too... it's just like handjobs and head and whatnot. But anyways, i think the reason why i get so nervous is because once when my boyfriend and i were kind of drunk i gave him head and he didn't go which i didn't really think was possible but i felt so bad and i just couldn't get him too, does this have something to do with him being under the influence or do i just suck? lol

you just suck *badly* you said so yourself

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my sisters are so pretty i just feel like im not and i hate that...then i always feel fat to because there are girls in my class who are like size zeros and im like not a size zero im tall and i weigh a bit but what is the average weight of a 14 yr old who is like 5'3 and how could i spruce up my look ill rate if this really helps me thnx
depressed
p.s. is this low self-esteem and how could i have good self esteem

the average wieght is 70. maybe you should get liposuction so ur not such a fatass

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Ok, heres my story, im always getting yelled at, my brother and sister are always being obnoxious and screaming, my friends and my boyfriend are makin me choose who to be friends with, my mom wont get off my damn case about everything, especially school work, and im really stressed. Idk what 2 do.. im really sick of life. Is there anything I can do to be happy and be more independant at my house?? I dread weekends cuz i hate bing home nad im only 13

maybe your getting yelled at because your annoying. if you werent so annoying your life might not suck so bad

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My friends and I might be taking a trip to New York! My crush is going on the trip too! I already told him i liked him! what should i do during the trip with my crush? any suggestions on what i should o or say to my crush?!

have sex with him

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ok i have this friend. I have wrote one just like this but this girl lives in the same town as me. And all what she does is Drink and got Stoned. 24/7 that is all. And see i am really worried about her cause she when she get a drink in her hand so won't stop till it is all gone. She will even clean the house clean just to got a some. And she always says why do you care. Or just drop it. I try but i cna't cause i care about her to much. if there is tha can help me. Just wirte back. Michy

are you foriegn? i have no idea what you just said

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ok strange stuff has been happening to me I see like some thing happen in my head then they actually come true and soem times I will cry for know reason and then some thing later that day or week some thing really really sad happend weather its on tv or at home and then I told my friend that my cat might die becuz she was really sick and I promise 5 minutes later the vet called to tell us she died I think I am becomeing a freak

yea. or maybe you have some sort of mental probelm, you should get that checked out, or get a shrink. who knows maybe im just thinkin inside the box here

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ok last night i cut myself in the leg. its not deep or anything just like scrathes and i did it with a really dull razor. i did it because i keep fighting with my friends and i can't help it. i had a dream about it that night and i can't stop thinking about it!! i definately don't want to do it again and i most probably won't. DON'T SAY "TALK TO A PSYCHIOTRIST, CAUSE I DON'T NEED TO!!" i just need to figure ot why i would do this and why i can't stop thinking about it, i mean like i know why. i just feel really screwed up in the head and shocked that i would do this. am i screwed???

your fighting with your friends, so your stressed out and your not thinking clear. you always hear about depressed kids, and people going through shit cutting themselves, and you probably thought that maybe itd help. it was new to you and it seemed like thats wat you were supposed to do, so you tried it. you said so yourself that you wont do it again, so as long as you dont, then your ok. your perfectly normal, not screwed up at all. its natural thatd youd try sumthing like that when your thoughts are unclear and your feeling stressed. especially since your a teen and your in school with all these groups. i dunno if what im saying is making sence, but to answer your question..your fine.

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hey...okay so i like this guy and eh likes me and were going to turnabout together this year...and im really into him and im getting kinda attached but hes changing schools next year...im a freshman by the way..i duno wht to do..how can i stop myself from liking him so i am not crushed when he changes schools?

you cant stop urself from liking him. you just need to realize and understand that hes going to leave. there isnt anything you can do about it, the only thing you can do is accept it. it will be sad, but him leaving doesnt mean youll never talk to him or see him again. youll still hang out and stuff.

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Is it normal to be best friends with a girl you've known for half-a year?? This girl and I met in eighth grade this year, and I've become very attached to her. We're both best friends and we tell each other everything. We're like sisters. Is that normal to be this close after a short time??

well yea, either ya click or ya dont. either they can be tursted or they cant. besides "normal" is overrated anyway. if its ok with you than its normal enough.

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my nameis antionette and my boyfriend called me a bitch.I want to break up with him because i'm such a bitch to him.I love him so much but he called me a bitch and he thinks its so funny.What should I should I break up with or try to make the relationship last.I need your help!

antoinette


you want to break up with him just because he called you a bitch? umm maybe you dont really love him as much as you think you do, cause if you cant deal with him calling you a little name, and you have to resort to asking us wether or not to break up with him. i dont think its meant to be hun. and you said it urself that your a bitch to him, so hes done nuthin bad here. you appear to be the problem, so watch out, he just may break up with you.

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okay, there is this kid named Tom, Tom is annoying beyond belief but hes my neighbor and our parents are real tight. moving on.. he was flirtin n touchin (he was like touchin her back n lookin at her thong) this girl named Sara. well Sara got extremely annoyed and asked her boyfriend to beat up Tom. whenever i stick up for tom, he jus blows it off nd whenever i tell him to stop being annoying, he denys it. ive tried calmy talking to him but HE DOESNT GET IT. so here is my question: do i stick up for Tom and have him totally ignore it, or do i let him get beaten up and learn his leason.

let him get his ass kicked. he'll never learn if ur always there takin up for him, he needs to learn a lesson

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is it normal to have little alive white worms in your ass?? im not trying to be sick but i have worms like little tiny white worms, that live in my ass. they make it itch and feel irritable. not to gross anyone out
-silvia

you need to take that shit to a doctor. is that normal? fuckin no its not normal..
yes we all have little white worms growing out of our asses. does it even sound normal?? AND YES ITS A BAD CASE YOUVE GOT WORMS LIVING IN UR ASS.

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