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Should I Stay friends or NOT?
Well, My friend and i were just in a fight and recently we just made up. I still feel I don't trust him and that I kinda don't want to be friends anymore. He ALWAYS hurts the one he loves the most and then regrets it. He has done it to me way to many time and it has gone to far. Should I end the friendship because I don't want to get hurt again or should i keep with the frienship. I kinda feel like I am being used for advice, Help, support, and love and I know that is the meaning of the friendship but he expresses it in a different way... I know I said to him that I never wanted anything to come between us and never to have brake a relationship and I have always been the one keeping the friends together.. Should I stay friends or Not??
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If you don't want to be relied on by him for emotional support then stay friends, but tone it down. That way you don't get into a fight (because it might start a fight to tell him you don't want to be friends anymore) and you aren't being taken advantage of either.
-Farren
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My best friend is the exact same way. She takes her friends for granted, but there are times where she is great to be around. I have been her friend for a while and we have had some major up's and down's. She has been horrible lately and I would advise you that, if you have not been friends for long or are really close, to slowly quit the friendship. But give it time.
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yes you should stay friends because getting hurt is so much fun.
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Doesn't sound like much of a real friendship anymore to me, at least not a 2-way one anyway. Since he has broken your trust in him so many times, it might be time to step back and take a break from the closeness of your relationship. Depending on how long the friendship has been and how deep it has been, I'm not sure ending it would be a good idea until you have a chance to look at from a more objective point of view. You might write the pros and cons of your friendship. What does he bring to it? What do you bring to it? What is good about it? What is not so good about it? Then weigh it. It wouldn't be a bad idea for both of you to do it individually and then together, that is, if you are really interested in saving this friendship. If he doesn't see anything wrong with it, then it's up to you. It's tough, but it may be the best in the long run. Good luck.
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just maybe tell him you need a break or dont be best friends any more just be friends not to close.. maybe that will work but i wouldnt end the friendship over that id just take a break from each other for a while xOx jiLl
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well if i were in your spot i would just tell him straight out and say that u r sick of getting hurt and if he keeps it up then your guys relationship is over! it all depends if u love or like him! but if your heart says yes then be friends but if your heart says no then dont be friends! i am going threw the same thing right now and i decided to not be her friend because we were best friends and now she wants to kick my friends butt and i wont let that happen!! so yea i wouldn't but some people would!!! but i hope that helped you!! sincerly *sami*
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