im always here to help im really good at giving advice mostly about teenage problems not like my computer software crap! look im not supa smart, ask me questions that i'll know. but other than that im great! that doesnt mean i wont have questions of my own im still learning too so if i dont answer a question of yours than dont get mad b.c i havnt been through it. im very honost to people so if u ask i will certainly tell thats my motto! Just one more thing people if you dont like the way i type then get over it. thats how i am and its not like im typing to some important person. well you are but not that important!
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so, my best friend, can treat me like DIRT.
i mean horrible. she's just sooo rude! what do i do? i mean i love her so much, and shes amazing. but when shes rude i dont know what to do! i just take it. beucase i NEVER want to loose her. i NEED HELP!
15fem. (link)
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well i friend like that to. if your not looking so great that day she tells you to never wear that again or you look horrible change! fix your hair like that. or she will look at someone up and down and give them a nasty look and tell them that they look bad! to thier face. i hate it when she does that i usually tell her idc what you think or ill tell her that really hurts my feelings. she understands after but she hasnt yet stopped fully! just tell your friend that she cant be rude like that. nicly and she mite make it to a big deal but obviously its hurrting you so you need to tell her whats been bothering you and if you loose a friend like that then she isnt a friend at all!
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my friend uses a vibrators EVERY DAY. can this make it so she can't have children? (link)
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unless shes jamming it so far up thats its destryoing her uterus! i doubt it. its healthy what shes doing but if she makes it a ritual like she cant hang with you b.c she hasnt done her vibrator yet then you should start getting worried. and when that happends then tell her that its not so important to do everyday and start ditching your friends. cuz thats not healthy!!!
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I NEED TIPS! how do you do it right? like just lean in? sorry this sounds so silly. I NEED HELP though :)
15 fem (link)
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well when both of you are looking at eatchothers eyes just get closer and closer and then tilt your head a little and connect first times are akward. you have no idea what to do but you get the hang of it.
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you see i just created a new myspace. btw, im 13/f. last year i made one but deleted it before the school year so i wouldnt get distracted. theres this girl, i've known her since like.. 4th grade, and we've been friends since then. this year (well it just ended for summer) i was in 7th. so yeah, like 3 years. when i wasnt in her pod for 5th and 6th grade, she was more friendlier with me. it was like we were still good friends though we didnt see each other often. she even invited me to her sleepover bday party in 5th grade though i couldnt go, cause my parents wouldnt let me. but in 7th grade it was different. in the beginning of the year it was the same like the other years but it progressed and it was like she was less interested in really being my friend, as i saw it. she'd share secrets with other friends and stuff, and wouldnt hang around me as much. i'd hang around her, but it was like.. she was half-interested in me. when i made my myspace before we were on each other's Top friends list. but this year, at the end of the year she had another sleepover party but she didnt invite me! i asked her if i was invited and she said it was for close friends only. i didnt show her how i felt, but i felt hurt cause i've been a good friend to her and i've known her longer than some of the people she considered as "close friends". and in my new myspace, i asked to be on her top and shes like "ummm.. no your not going on my top" and idk if its just me, but it sounded really snotty and that kinda ruined my mood for the rest of the day. cause i put her on my top... and yeah. and my other friend, we all knew each other in 4th grade too, shes not even in our pod but she got invited to the sleepover party and is 3rd on her top friends list. i dunno what i did wrong.. or is she just a friend i should drop? cause im not sure.. i dont like losing friends but i dont like being friends with people who dont act like friends should. or am i overreacting? also, i havent replied to her "umm no your not going on my top" comment yet.. i dunno what to reply! should i just be like "thanks, but no thanks" or "okay.." or "are you mad at me or something?" cause this is really hard to do. =( (link)
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ask her if shes mad at you. then you can figure things out. no one just acts that way for no reason unless they think you have done something to them. or shes in a stage where she thinks shes better than everyone else. but if i were u i wold ask whats her problem b.c u didnt do ne thing as far as im concerned!
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Ok well I've started talking to this kid that I've had the biggest crush on for like ever. But he dropped out of school and he smokes...a lot. But he still is the most sweetest and quietest kid ever and I am a hundred percent sure he would never hurt me. Heres the problem. I'm a straight A student and have always been drug free. I know my parents would NEVER approve. So what do i do? Stick with him or find someone else who doesn't do that stuff? PLEASE HELP! (link)
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looks like your trying to find a guy thats wikid rebelious go for it you know it will piss your parents off and thats what makes even more exciting. try it out but dont ruin your life ova it. get that adventure out of your system!!!!
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So all of his friends think that we spend way too much time together. They think that I like to make him mad and shit. I dont understand what Im doing wrong. They say that I dont let him spend time with no one else. but I dont care if he does. Why does this have to be my fault. Should I just break up with him. I really truly love this boy...I just want him to be happy. We've been together 8 months. He got me a promise ring. He loves me and I love him. We have our lil fights but we always make up afterwards. HELP!!!!!!! (link)
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so lil pickle here huh?! so ya dont like break up fur that its dumb 8 months flushed down the toilet! haha
so like just tell him to hang with his friends for a week and call him that week! tell him you need to hang with the girls any way! that way its a win win situation b.c ur having fun and he is too and his friends like you more!
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how do yuo do ur hair like any of these:
1.http://msnbcmedia1.msn.com/j/msnbc/Components/Photos/040729/040729_ambrosio_vmed.widec.jpg
2.http://stylescenes.latimes.com/photos/uncategorized/selitaeban_degui_11403211_600.jpg
3.http://i87.photobucket.com/albums/k154/araelle/adriana_lima_241432g.jpg (link)
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a curling iron and some hair spray!!! just twist the hair when ur trying this out!
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15/f. For 7 months I was with my girlfriend. About 2 months ago we broke up & I was heartbroken, it's taken me a while to get over this, but I am finally ready to move on.
My best guy friend has always been there for me, and now he tells me that he likes me a lot. Now I am a lesbian, but I have feelings for him. I'm willing to try it out, but he is really experienced as in sexually. I've done pretty much nothing but make out with guys.
Do you think it's a good idea for me to be with him? Could I still be a lesbian and be attracted to a guy? (link)
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well then ur just not a lesbian ur bisexual! which is perfectly normal! and if you like him then by all means go out with him just tell him if hes trying something otha then making out that your not so experienced! and he will so understand!
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thats the thing .. im not the type of person to choose between 2 ppl .. i think its fucked up & i just cant do it (link)
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sometimes in life your going to have to choose between two people! or between two things. its not fucked up really its just confusion you want to be with the girl who makes you feel like the greatest guy!! what i want you to do is close your eyes find out what girl makes you want whoever more. meaning thier personality. if one is just not cutting it for u becuse you know sometime during the future your going to break up then dont go out with them! or if you find neither make you happy then dont choose any of them! its totally up to your heart!!!! feel free to ask me any thing else thats confusing you!!!
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OK I think I have mono. 2 weeks ago I got really sick. These were my symptoms:
-reallyyy bad sore throat, like the worst ever :[
-head ache
-chills
-nausea
-muscle and joint pains
-high fever that ranged from 101-104 degrees
-sometimes I'd get really hot and sometimes really cold
-swollen lymph node on my neck, just on the right side though
-swollen right tonsil
I went to the doctor, but at the time, I didn't know what was wrong, and he just gave me some antibiotics. He said he thought it was a throat infection. He did ask me if I had muscle pains, but I said I didn't because I didn't think it was important. I feel better now, but a lot of the time I'm tired. It's not every day, but it's most of the time. I even took a nap yesterday, and that's like, really unusual for me, because I NEVER take naps, because I don't need to, since I'm usually never tired during the day.
So do you think I have mono?? And I read somewhere that there are 3 stages to mono. What are they? And I'm going to the doctor July 2 for a follow-up visit, should I say something? And what should I say?
Thank you if you can help. :] (link)
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if u feel sick then go to a doctor this could be very harmful to you and and if you dont go to a doctor it could get very bad. my sister had it and she was terrible.
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ok last night at my 13th birthday party i made out for the first time
and after i did it, for some reason i thought it was gross. but i didnt know if i did it right, and i know this guy has a lot of experience. and now im like paranoid this he thinks im terrible. but he knew he was my first.
how do i keep myself from not worrying about it and does anyone have like detailed pointers on the process of making out? haha
thanks in advanceee!
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you cant really have tips to making out its really simple just do what he does its not so hard!. and its not gross trust me if he was sticking his tougne down your throat your first time trust me my ex did that to me and well i thought it was find a bf that treats you rite.!! and you find it so gross ne more!
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im a varsity cheerleader and we just got back from camp and it was pretty tough. we stunted alot and im a base so my wrists hurt really bad. is there any way i can protect them? or do i just need to get used to it? also what can i do for my sore arms? (link)
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nothing you can do about sore arms you worked hard and thats a good sign of getting back into shape!!! about your rists you should be careful b.c obviously they are not ues to you working them like that so what i would do is relax for a couple of days put some ice on them!!! o and IMPORTANT stretch!!!!!!!!
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hey i'm a guy hust wondering what kind of hair girls might like- long, short, spiky, whatever. Just say what you would like thanx! (link)
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depends what kind of guy you are i personally like it spiked! always thought it was hott and still do!!!!
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ok so i like this guy and we've been a thing for about 7months. im not sure why but we never went out. we were always content just being what we were. ok so i've given him a hj but i can't kiss him. i want to, i really really want to but everytime we get close to it i find some excuse and back away. i've kissed other guys before but i don't know why i can't kiss him. we've been together, unofficially for longer than any other relationsip i've ever had in my life so i don't understand why this is a problem. help me, what is wrong? we like each other and i dont think that it's because we're unofficial because i've kissed other guys that i wasn't going out with which i hope that doesn't make me sound like a whore but it's just the facts. please help me get over this problem, i really want to do this. (link)
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ok well you probally like him more and dont want to ruin the relationship! but really you cant live in fear for the rest of your life just think i live once see if you really like LOVE him ! kiss him and find out make that ur motavation!
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15/f
my mom makes me crazy!!! we used to be bestfriends and now we fight over everything! she screamed at me for about 45 min today cause i took a shower in her bathroom and she always tells me to get out of her face and stuff. and she loves my bf more than me. she sides with him on everything.
my dad is just a jerk. he works so much hes barely home but he always yells at me when he is. he tells me im stupid and worthless... im an only child so it doesnt help. concrete angel by martina mcbride is my theme song.
someone please help me... i hate this (link)
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possibly your mom is going through something she doesnt want to tell you. go up to her one on one and say mom we are nothing like we used to be what happend. and for your dad hes a jerk and if i were you i would call him a stupid ass i wouldnt care what would happen i mean the worst he can do is yell at you and ground you but hes never there so do what ever you want. tell me how it works out. o and maybe cuz your dad is gone so much your mom is stressed!! just poped in my head!
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okay so tuesday is my bf and my one year anniversary. its the day of the fireworks so we'll be going to watch those around 9 pm, but i don't know what to do before then. im not into some fancy shmancy dinner or anything because we're only still in high school. does anyone have any ideas? we're pretty much up for anything. thanks!! (link)
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what you should do is just hang out untill the fireworks i love to just hang out! cuddle, stuff like that. you dont have to do ne thing special trust me i wouldnt want some Blow out party for that.
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I am rather skinny, and I have a tiny bit in the way of a paunchy stomach (Just because I don't really look after myself, I eat what i want.)
The weird thing is though, I love when people touch my stomach (rub it, jiggle it, just like play with it), it really gets me off, (which is weird I know),so I'm not quite sure how to ask my boyfriend to it for me. I don't wanna weird him out.
Any suggestions? (link)
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ughh ok. do it to him i guess and be like does that feel good to u and then tell him when ppl do it to moe it feels good! something like that
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okay so since day one [ literally ]i`ve liked this girl named [ a ] .. i really started feeling this chick like A LOT .. then i decided to date my best friend [ b ] .. who not to mention lives in a different state .. once i went on vacation up there for a week &half .. we connected really good & we both fell quick and hard. you can say we were headed to the LOVE part. well days before i had to come back, [ b ] told me that she didnt feel comfortable w. me coming back & being friends w. [ a ] due to the fact that she's scared that i might fall for her again. so basically she made me choose between being w. her [ b ] or being friend w. [ a ] .. well i never was the person to choose between two ppl .. i just couldnt so i told [ b ] that i couldnt choose .. so w. that said, she broke up w. me. [ b ] tried to fix things after a while but i just was too hard headed to change. now im reminising on the times we had & missing the fact that i could call her mine. she seems to be moving on but there are days where it seems like she feels the same way. idk what to do to get her back. idek if i should or just let her go. i really need help a.s.a.p before its too late =/ (link)
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wow your in a pretty messed up place rite now it seems u only like a get her back she mite be the one your looking for! tell her you wont talk to a tell a that too shell understand!
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Hey,
Does anyone have Zeno and really like it? I use proactive but still have problems with acne. I was wondering is Zeno is worth the money, if I would still need to use proactive with Zeno, and if it clears smaller breakouts as well as large ones.
Thankss :) (link)
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o.k i dont have an acne problem but i still get the ocasional planet on my face and i feack out! so last nite i tried going to zeno.com but my computer just was being gay so i went to walgreens.com and clikced on beauty and face and then acne treatments then i clicked on zeno. and it shows all the ppl who have used it and whhat they think about the product i only read one who wasnt completly satisfied with the product but many others did so go there and see if it is worth it. if i had the money i so would!
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hi, i am 14 and haven't started my period is this a problem and i want to start it all my friends have except me (link)
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its perfectly normaL! everyone is different so u will get it soon i sware!
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