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choosing between a friend and a girlfriend
okay so since day one [ literally ]i`ve liked this girl named [ a ] .. i really started feeling this chick like A LOT .. then i decided to date my best friend [ b ] .. who not to mention lives in a different state .. once i went on vacation up there for a week &half .. we connected really good & we both fell quick and hard. you can say we were headed to the LOVE part. well days before i had to come back, [ b ] told me that she didnt feel comfortable w. me coming back & being friends w. [ a ] due to the fact that she's scared that i might fall for her again. so basically she made me choose between being w. her [ b ] or being friend w. [ a ] .. well i never was the person to choose between two ppl .. i just couldnt so i told [ b ] that i couldnt choose .. so w. that said, she broke up w. me. [ b ] tried to fix things after a while but i just was too hard headed to change. now im reminising on the times we had & missing the fact that i could call her mine. she seems to be moving on but there are days where it seems like she feels the same way. idk what to do to get her back. idek if i should or just let her go. i really need help a.s.a.p before its too late =/
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first things first i dont think that it was right for [b] to tell you to choose she should have trusted you to be hers ya no, i think maybe telling her how your feeling would make things better. . . i think she only broke things off with you because she hasnt had the best of luck when it comes to boys, and was scared of getting hurt. . . maybe telling her how much you care about her and how much you want her back. . . that might help alot. . . but if things dont work for you there are so many other girls out there how arent as far away :)
hope things work out
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wow your in a pretty messed up place rite now it seems u only like a get her back she mite be the one your looking for! tell her you wont talk to a tell a that too shell understand!
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