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His Friends hate me...
So all of his friends think that we spend way too much time together. They think that I like to make him mad and shit. I dont understand what Im doing wrong. They say that I dont let him spend time with no one else. but I dont care if he does. Why does this have to be my fault. Should I just break up with him. I really truly love this boy...I just want him to be happy. We've been together 8 months. He got me a promise ring. He loves me and I love him. We have our lil fights but we always make up afterwards. HELP!!!!!!!
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If you really love him then of course you shouldn't break up with him. His friends probably feel as if you're taking him away from them, so encourage your boyfriend to spend a little more time with them. And don't try to hard to win them over, just be yourself and maybe in time they'll come to accept you and your relationship.
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Encourage him to spend more time with his friends. Take a few days to spend with your girlfriends. Don't be too controlling over him, becasue that seems to be his friends issue. Also, plan a group thing where he invites some of his friends and you invite some of yours. Don't spend all your time with him, try to socialize with his friends too. As the saying goes, kill them with kindness. If you are super sweet to them, and you don't keep your boyfriend from spending time with them, they have no reason not to like you. "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer" ;-)
...in other words, make his friends your friends.
Good Luck!
Sarah
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plan a day with just your friends and tell him to do the same with his...that shows his friends that he can still spend time with them...if something comes up with his friends tell him to go...be like "hey that sounds like fun...you should go and spend time with your friends." while he's with his friends spend time with yours because for all you know your friends might think the exact same thing. if it still continues call a meeting and let everyone talk and say what they want work out something that works for everyone and keeps everyone happy
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so lil pickle here huh?! so ya dont like break up fur that its dumb 8 months flushed down the toilet! haha
so like just tell him to hang with his friends for a week and call him that week! tell him you need to hang with the girls any way! that way its a win win situation b.c ur having fun and he is too and his friends like you more!
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