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Dreadful parents
15/f
my mom makes me crazy!!! we used to be bestfriends and now we fight over everything! she screamed at me for about 45 min today cause i took a shower in her bathroom and she always tells me to get out of her face and stuff. and she loves my bf more than me. she sides with him on everything.
my dad is just a jerk. he works so much hes barely home but he always yells at me when he is. he tells me im stupid and worthless... im an only child so it doesnt help. concrete angel by martina mcbride is my theme song.
someone please help me... i hate this
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Well if you know that they might yell at you for something the best thing youcould do is to just stay away from it. Even though they always yell at you they still love you. If they ever get so mad just sit there and try to listen and dont fight back at all because all you would be doing is digging a hole. I was fighting with my parents one day in front of my gardians and one of them said you're just digging a hole and that means that you're just going to far in something that you know you wont win in the fight. So just try to be friends with your parents again.
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well some times parents yell at you but only because they love you. just tell them how you feel. thanks and good luck.
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It sounds as though they are both really stressed out at the moment, possibly about money as your dad is working all the time? People do tend to lose their tempers more when they are worried about something.
Was your mum expecting to use her bathroom and didn't know you were in there? Did you take longer than you were supposed to? Did you tidy up after yourself? All possibilities that could add further stress to a relationship.
It could be that hormones are causing problems here as well. They make tempers shorter and everything can appear to be a lot more difficult to deal with.
I'm sure she can't love your boyfriend more but he may be able to throw some light on what's happening if they're that close. Talk to him first and see what he has to say, then talk to your mum. Wait until she has some time, make notes if you have to so that you get out everything you need to say. Maybe sit her down with a tea or coffee and tell her you don't want to fight anymore and ask if there are any family problems you're not aware of. If there are, you'd like to help.
If they see that you are approaching this in a mature way, they may open up to you and discuss any issues they are having to deal with.
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possibly your mom is going through something she doesnt want to tell you. go up to her one on one and say mom we are nothing like we used to be what happend. and for your dad hes a jerk and if i were you i would call him a stupid ass i wouldnt care what would happen i mean the worst he can do is yell at you and ground you but hes never there so do what ever you want. tell me how it works out. o and maybe cuz your dad is gone so much your mom is stressed!! just poped in my head!
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Wow,this sounds just like my situation.What you have to do is,tell them how you feel but dont start a big screaming,crying,emotional scene.Its not fun.Just walk up to them calmly and say "I understand that your my parents,and yea, i screw up but everyone does soemtimes and im sick of you disrespecting me and treating me like dirt"
Make sure its known that it hurts your feelings and brings your self esteem down.You dont deserve that kind of treatment.As for your boyfriend,tell him that you have enough problems at home and the fact that he sides with your mother doesnt help the situation,it creates more of a problem.He should be there for you when your feelings are hurt, not sit there and make you feel worse.Stand up for yourself and keep your dignity intact.
Good luck,hope it helped
- Cassie
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ok i totally know what it feels like to be treated like crap from your mom, but it is hard for them to deal with our teenage 'hormones.'
and she is probably really busy and stressful,
And i bet your mom dosent like your boyfriend better it just looks like that, because sometimes if feels like everyone hates you and the whole world sucks.
And as for your dad my dad is the same way he had a abusive father though, and hes come along way from his dad, and would he happen to say these things when youve been sitting on the couch for a half hour after he told you to do the dishes, or he yells at you because youve been bickering at him for the last hour about the party you wanted to go until midnight with no parent supervision.
And when they really bother you remember the kids who never had any parents sucky or not
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