Member Since: July 3, 2007
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Last Update: July 5, 2007
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alright well theres this guy that i really like: but in his past he did some "stuff" with this other girl: i dated him for awhile&the most we did was makeout &then we broke up cuz we couldnt hang out: well he could i couldnt :( now were back to me liking him again: and my parents wont let me even come close to him!!
what do i do???
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Well since you dont want to do anything to emotionaly wreck you and your parents relationship then i would have to say the honest answer, dont go out with him. If he is the kind of guy that only wants you know, then you dont want anything to do with him, or if you want you parents trust thendont be with him, say that you want to go on a trip with your friends but your parents wont let you because you got back together with him and they didnt want you to, remember parents remember EVERYTHING!!
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My mom is kind of weird in my opinion. First of all she judges my friends a lot and I dont like it at all! Second she si always giving me advice on my period. Im 13 and I never had it. Shes always telling me "oh its going happen soon i can feel it!" and she asks "do your breasts get tender?" and stuff and I dont like it! If I tell her to stop, she will ground me and say that I was trying to boss her around. Can someone PLEASE help me?! Thank you so much! (link)
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Just say mom i do think that they are getting tender and i can feel it too. Even though you might not, just play along. So no one gets mad or even hurt in the process.
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ok so like about a week ago my boyfriend broke up with me and i have been haging out with my friends alot latley and some are boys and my mom thinks im boy crazy because i have a couple guys friends? what can i do to get her to stop acting like that. cause im not boy crazy i just have guy friends that i hang out with and i would never like that way. (link)
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well, if you had the guy friends for a while just go to your mom and say," i am not boy crazy, if you want to believe that i am then go ahead, but if i have done anything to emotionaly wreck your trust with me so you dont believe that i am not boy crazy, then i am sorry but believe me when i do say i am not boy crazy." If that doesnt work just say " its fine , i dont need you to believe me"
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Ok i need help convincing my parents (mainly dad) to let me go 2 hours away to go camping with my friend and her grandma. I recently got grounded for riding in a car with someone they didnt know, and ive been grounded for 3 weeks. My dad said I could have friends over and stuff, I just couldnt go places. They go camping next Monday so I have 5 days to convince them. What do I say? Also, they don't really like my friend that I want to go with, so yah, gosh I really NEED to go. How do I convince them? (link)
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well just say, dad did i ever do anything to COMPLETLEY wreck our trust? If i go we would be with a responsible trustworthy been through a lot adult, i think u can trust me. Anyway the adult will be driving dad , also watching us with a close eye the whole time. just say that , that might break the ice.
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my mom makes me crazy!!! we used to be bestfriends and now we fight over everything! she screamed at me for about 45 min today cause i took a shower in her bathroom and she always tells me to get out of her face and stuff. and she loves my bf more than me. she sides with him on everything.
my dad is just a jerk. he works so much hes barely home but he always yells at me when he is. he tells me im stupid and worthless... im an only child so it doesnt help. concrete angel by martina mcbride is my theme song.
someone please help me... i hate this (link)
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Well if you know that they might yell at you for something the best thing youcould do is to just stay away from it. Even though they always yell at you they still love you. If they ever get so mad just sit there and try to listen and dont fight back at all because all you would be doing is digging a hole. I was fighting with my parents one day in front of my gardians and one of them said you're just digging a hole and that means that you're just going to far in something that you know you wont win in the fight. So just try to be friends with your parents again.
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My dad and me uste to spend time with each other 24/7 since I was until I was about 12 or 13, when he started cheating on my mom. Then they got divorced, and now I never see him at all. We pretty much have had a fallen out ever since then. I would go see him but I don't like his family he has now. All they talk about when I'm around is how her kid gets drunk the night before and how her other kid whose younger than me cusses and smokes. So I pretty much don't like it so I don't tend on going down there, only time I go is when he makes me(court orders). All I wanted was for him to go fourwheeler riding just like we uste to just me and him but no he has to make sure awhole buncha werid people come to. So I tell him I don't want to go now and he gets mad and hangs up on me and all this. Should I just go anyways? I mean I'd rather not cause I'm pretty shy around strangers and I hate how they start talking to and go so your (dads name) kid right? you look alot like him yadda yadda yadda. What would you do? I really don't want to go around them people and I can't talk to him about it cause we'll end up arguing and we'll both end up crying and all this. (link)
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Well even though it might be hard to talk to him on the phone just say " dad i really miss you and ever since you and mom got that divorce i truley feel that i cant see you at all and i just want you and me time, we cant spend as munch time we could together, i know that you have another family but you see them all of the time and if i feel like this than that must have to mean SOMETHING that i am missing out a part in your life. So maybe just you and i can go to spend a day together.
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Hey. Well, I'm 13/female. I always fight with my mom. Sometimes, we just get in little fights, but sometimes huge ones.
She always seems to be in a stressed out, angry,bad mood, and she is always snapping at me and making a big deal out of nothing.
It never fails, that every single night we argue. And to me, it always seems like it's her.
It IS her. I wouldn't have an issue if she would just leave me alone, and let me actually have a life.
I'M 13 YEARS OLD, AND SHE STILL FIGHTS WITH ME ABOUT GOING PLACES WITHOUT ADULTS.
She doesn't let me go TO THE CENTER OF TOWN WITH MY FRIENDS, becuase i'm 'too young'. We don't live in a bad area. It's a quiet place, and nothing ever happens here. I've never even gotten into trouble where she can't trust me anymore.
I want to live with my dad, and go to school in his town. He let's me have a life, without doubting me for a second.
I'm not a bad kid, I've never done anything wrong. Well, atleast not like majorly wrong like drugs or fighting or anything. I've told my mom i wanna live with my dad. She doesn't listen, and neither does he.
What can I do?! I can't even deal with this anymore.
I'm home alone for the ENTIRE SUMMER, and she won't let ANYONE come over for even like an hour while she's not here.
IM NOT A BAD KID, SHE HAS NO REASON FOR THIS DISTRUST.
She thinks just becuase I dress semi -"emo" in her oppinion, that i'm some horrible child that can't be trusted. This is SO GAY, what do i do!? (link)
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Well my mom always does that to me. I kno i hate it too. But i always ask why dont you let me do the things i want to do . Have i ever done anything to emotionaly wreck our trust. But the thing she always says. You know i love you dearly and even tho the town is really safe it doesnt mean that no one from out of town or any body can be bad. No one is always nice in front of you. My friends mo had a b/f that was so so so nice but one day when she left her alon with her he raped her. So your mom knows the real world and even tho ur old enough she still wants to protect you from what could ever happen.well if you ever want to tell wrong from wat i wrote my screen name is : xotinabina995, and my email is:tsilagyi@comcast.net, u can tell me good things if you would like too.
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