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ok so im on birth control and have been for a while and i have never had any problems, every month my period comes 3 days late then 3 days early, it alternates every month and never lasts more than 6 days. Well this month it came 4 or 5 days early and has lasted a week and a half and i dont know why or what it could be from, and certainly dont know what it could mean?? please help me im so confused and kinda nervous about this. (link)
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dont worry its nothing to worry about.this could be triggered because you have been exposed to really bad stress or been eating spicy foods but usually its most likely to happen when you really stressed maybe been arguing with parents alot or exams etc etc nothing to worry about its natural
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Hello.
If your hymen gets broken, the next time you get your period, is it normal if it hurts to put in and take out a tampon? Thanks for the help : ) (link)
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yeah it would be sore because the hymen is a muscle and its like youve just ripped a muscle so it needs time to heal what id advise you to do is use pads then the next month go back to the tampons give it time to heal
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Well I have these guys who are like my brothers and they go to my school I'm just a grade lower than them. Well this week was just typical with them we'd joke around and hang out, but today they all of a sudden don't wanna talk to me. I text one of them and asked why are you mad at me and he replied quote "Im not mad im juz done wit u" what is that suppose to mean? and I replied wut u mean. (He never replied)But I haven't done or said anything to or about them and I mean NOTHING if I did I have no clue what it was, but I know how they joke around even on serious occasions and I thought 15 year olds would've grown up by now and that maybe they're playing about the whole situation. How should I react to this because deep down inside i'm kinda sad about this but I don't show my true feelings to others unless they're really close to me. Anyway should I payback my way or something just PLEASE tell me what to do because i'm utterly confused!!
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what id do is first leave them alone for awhile give them space and see if they come back if they dont go to them face to face and talk to them done let them walk away from you without them giving you an answer
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I'm a 15 year old male living in Australia and attending junior high school.
I've noticed that I don't feel emotions properly. Sure, stuff happens to me that should provoke things like sadness or hysteria, but it doesn't. I don't feel anything. The strange thing is, I can feel anger to its fullest. I can be furious at whomever I want at any given time, whatever the situation, and when I get too angry, I use violence to get things the way I want them to be.
But other things, like happiness, I can't feel - and if I'd felt it before, I don't remember. All I ever feel is anger, even when it's about small things.
I have no idea when this came about, but I first realised when my grandmother died around six years ago. She was real important to me once, but when I heard she'd passed on, I didn't feel anything.
Day after day I find myself lying and acting to feign emotions when they aren't there. I learn to fake them by watching people in everyday life and their reactions. This bores me from time to time but I know I need to do it since it's the only way for me to appear normal and fit in with society.
I just want to know if there's any way I could actually feel something real for once, rather than baseless anger. I feel awfully uncomfortable talking to psychologists face to face, so I'm not sure counseling would be a good idea. Will I be empty of anything but anger forever? (link)
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iv read the other reply to this and i dont think you need to go to a phsyciatrist to make this go away..and its not a good idea for a phsyciatrist to give you medications for anything because once you stop taking those medications youll be worse off than before and youll be addicted to those medications and scuicidal etc etc.right now im going through the samething. i had a boyfriend that would beat me and i couldnt get away from him when i did manage to get away from him i started to see the world differently i became sour and stopped feeling any sympathy or happyness or anything id br angry and never feel the pain or sadness i was just this tough solid rock from inside. usually this happens when something really bad happens to you and youv bottled it inside you you use different way of expressing it.you oviously not over your granmother but you dont want to show it subconciously. even though you dont wanna go to a counsellor it will help you to just let out whats bottled inside or you can write it on a peice of paper,like everything you feel write about your grandmother and how you loved her and miss her and want her back how you felt when you found out she was gone let it all out on that peice of paper and then when your done rip it up, burry it or even burn it youll feel loads better after..hope this helped
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15/f
My dad lives in florida. He moved down there a few months ago and took my brother with him. Me and him have been trying to get my mom to let me move down there with him but my mom's stubborn and selfish and would rather I stay here and be completly unhappy. I've tried talking to her face to face but she always breaks down in tears which I can't stand because it makes me feel guilty for wanting to be happy. So, I was talking to my dad over face book. I told him how mad I was at my stepdad for turning my brothers old room (I had fixed it up into a play room for my little sisters and put a lot of time into it) into his office. Well, my stepdad has a face book account too and he has added me to his "friends" list. My dad just called me and told me he got onto my account and read that message. Well, my stepdad told my mom and my mom emailed my dad and accused him of "brainwashing me" and "trying to turn me against her". I am seriously po'd. He had no reason to even suspect I was planning on moving down there due to my plan on acting fine and sucking up to my mom until I turn 16 and then breaking the news to her. I already didn't like the guy due to other things he's done, such as telling my dad that he could make sure us kids never got to see their dad again. I hate him. I don't hate anyone ever, but I really hate him. My mom ditches us kids at home ALL THE TIME to go on his motorcycle and they're always gone for hours. My dad is SUCH a better parent...and person for that matter. Plus the fact that my mom never even comes to ME whenever something like this happens and the subject of moving comes up. She always goes straight to my dad and yells at him, accusing him of "manipulating my young mind". WTF? I have a mind of my own... I just don't know what to do now. She hasn't brought it up to me and I don't think she will. Please help :( (link)
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your stepdad seemes threatned by your dad because well i guess it could b because he was married to ur mum and had children with her thats something he doesnt have with her so he may feel jealous. your step dad mayb manipulating your mum aswell brainwashing her.just remember love is blind and that your mum will always defend her new husband.i think you should build up a case a strong one think hard about how you can make your mum agree with you moving in with your dad. justbe fair stern but also calm because we dont want tears. if she cries youl just have to be strong and look past the tears because ofcourse shes going to cry when her only grown daughter wants to leave her.she may feel like you love your dad more than her which will be hurtful for her.just tell her how unhappy you are and how you want a turn at bein g happy now how its not fair that shes happy and has what she wants why cant you for once have it your way?why cant you be happy with your dad like she is with her husband just tell her that youll miss her to death and that youll visit and keep intouch, that the distance between you two will even make your relationship stronger.tell her that you understand how shes feeling and why she wouldnt want you to leave but tll her that our bond will never change.you just miss your dad.beg her to stop keeping you away from your father because all you deserve to be happy as much as shes happy with that guy.just stay calm be sympathetic and have a puppy face on youll be ok she cant keep you forever.
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Kira Palestinian is aparently the youngest designer at 15. What is a website where i can look at some of her work. (link)
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lol just so you no her names kira plastinina i tried to find some stuff but couldnt find much but try again with that name it may work for you when you have some free time
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Okay, prom is in two weeks at my school, and this is my dress.
http://www.cbslimited.com/prom-dresses/detail_prom_tiffany_designs-1691073
However, my dress is red, not wine, olive, or coffee.
My question is, how should I do my eye makeup?
I thought about the smokey eye, black, silver, and white, but I have NO idea on how to even begin.
So any links on some eye make up that I could possibly wear would be wonderful.
I'm definately not sure how to do it.
Thanks in advance! (link)
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your dress is gorgeous!!! this is a good link for that smokey look if you dont like that look you can always search other colours hope it helps
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BqXAJreJU-g
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is it dangerous to use nair around your vagina? like your bikini line and stuff? (link)
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what id do is test it on a patch of skin first and check if it swells or blisters or if you have any reaction to it..if no then it should b ok to use on your bikini line
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I'm stuck in between two different friends. I've been best friends with one of them for about 2 years and best friends with the other for a little less than a year. My best friend of two years doesn't exactly approve of me having another best friend. I don't know what to do! Should I leave my best friend of two years for a friend that I trust less, or should I stop being best friends with my best friend of two years because she is trying to limit me? (link)
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maybe your best friend of two years is looking out for you?i think you need to talk to her just ask her why she doesnt approve let her know that shes always going to be on your top list and one of your number one people and that she doesnt need to worry about loosing you.shes prolly feeling threatened that the other person will steal you away just try and reassure her..but its not worth leaving her
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So my best friend goes to a different school than me, but she doesnt have a date to prom and shes soo distraught about it :/ like she basically hates life just because of this. i do have a date so im afraid of saying something that will make her mad at me or somewhat resentful.
What can i say to her to make her feel better? Or what can i do for her? like bring her ben & jerry's with a note or something haha.
i dont know, i just feel bad because shes so miserable and i feel like i cant help her :( (link)
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sounds like a dramam queeen tell her its not the end of the world!let her no that Just because shes going to the prom dateless doesnt mean shes going to leave dateless wink wink:P she needs to toughen up you cant do anything about it if no ones asked her..
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Sorry for the length :(
So.. there's not much to say... There's this girl... (let's call her R) whom I've been best friends with forever...since, like, 3rd grade (and we're in 8th now) and we live right next to each other, and she's almost exactly a year younger than me. I've never thought much of the way she acted or looked or who she hung out with besides me... until now... A lot of people think she's weird and stuff.
Just a minute ago, I was looking at some random people's pictures on Facebook, and I came across this one popular girl's picture with R in the background looking like a totally freak (very very bad picture of her...she had this freak haircut--which she HATED btw--and was wearing a weird tanktop). The worst part was the tag for her was HAHAHAHAAAHAHA. I just stared at that picture for awhile, and then I just closed the entire window.
I really do love my best friend, but I'm beginning to question her a lot. Like the way she's always being so quirky. And not in a good way. Like when she wears the same slip-on Vans everyday with misfitting Aeropostale shirts and bellbottoms with huge tears at the knees. And how she duct-taped her shirt once because it said WTF in tiny letters (I tore it off before anyone could see that...). Or maybe how she stands with her feet wide apart and her braces sticking out of her mouth. Or how she's never been asked out in her whole life. Or how it seems she hangs out with some of the weirdest people.
As I'm writing this, I'm getting this horrible knot in my stomach... I feel like a jerk and a backstabber and a horrible friend. But I just feel like I've sort of...outgrown her. We used to be really weird little kids while we were in elementary... haha... we used to go around asking people for their hair and wearing matching Fairly Odd Parents t-shirts and sit beneath a tree all day and make fairyhouses. But that was... 3 and a half years a go. I'm done with that stuff. But I feel that maybe she's stuck being a little kid?
Look, I know I'm probably not making a ton of sense. But my ultimate question is: what should I do? Should I ditch her? Still be friends with her? Talk it out? I'm so confused. Any help would be appreciated.
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its good that you have concerns about her and that your asking for advice before you do anything. you just need to take into considerations her culture, backgrounds, class status,where she comes from, she may not be weird she may just be different.people are really cruel sometimes just because someone dresses differently or acts alittle different doesnt mean theyr losers and dont deserve friends.sounds like to me you dont want to be her friend because shes not cool enough and could make you look bad infron of everyone else.thats ok to feel like that.you cant help the way you feel and both of you seem like your going in different directions..sounds like shes one of those kinda punk rock ppl that dress differently and your classy.mayb be her friend but just hang out with different people.dont make it a big deal just slowly drift away from her.just make sure thats what you want to do though.
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So there's this girl I like. Problem is I move an hour away in a couple months :(. Anyway, I don't have a lot of relationship experience. I see this girl in person a couple times a week (our group of friends hang out) and recently we've been texting more often and it's always a little flirty. Anyway, I would totally love it if she called me, so I'm thinking she might like it just as much if I called her. First question, if there was a guy you liked or were just getting to know, would you like it if they called you? Second, what should I talk about? Third, should I keep it short or what? Finally, would it be goofy to get a call from a guy and not have them ask you out or anything (I want to, just not sure its the best time yet)? (link)
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every girl is different depends how old you are and if her parents are ok with you two talkign on the phone. maybe you should ask her if shed like you to call her for a chat.i wouldnt mind if the guy called me but id give it around aweek before calling just so she knows you and its not so awkward on the phone.Second thing is dont be shy and talk about anything you like ask her the questions like how she is and hows the family and what she did today and what things shes into then start asking her questions about what her most embarasing moment just things that will end up with a laugh dont over do it so remeber dont talk to much..talk but not talk the whole time girls like to get in as much as they can:Pyou be the listner and the replier:P ...it wouldnt be goofy its always up to you..your ganna be awesome dont worry just be yourself and dont panic!
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16/f i will keep it short. whenever i eat or drink anything hot or cold i get a stabbing pain in my gums and teeth on the bottom right side. anything room temperature doesnt seem to bother me. what could be the problem and how would i fix it? thankyou (link)
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yu could either have sensitive teeth or a filling that needs to be fixed..i would prefer you to go to the dentist to get it check:)
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my boyfriend of almost five months has been kinda standoffish towards me lately. it's really starting to bother me. i really miss him. and now, to add to that problem, my best friend kinda flirts with him. she like goes out of her way to talk to him and make him laugh and write on his facebook and so on and i feel like he pays more attention to her than me. it drives me insane. i don't know what to do, it's breaking my heart. how can i bring this up to both of them without making them upset with me? what can i do to solve this problem? thanks in advance. (link)
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be careful fo that!even though shes your bestfriend girls are horrible when they want something they cant have..ages ago i had a bf and my best friend use to do the samething next minute he dumps me for her and she goes off with him.i think you should talk to the best friend not the boy friend and just tell her that your feeling alittle threatened by the way shes bonding with your bf and if she can just step back abit.just before you tell her just say that you love her to bits and you dont mean it in a bad and hurtful way.if shes a true friend she will stand back but if she keeps going then something is wrong and you should be worried and next step would b to talk to your boyfriend
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Im almost 19, and saturday my boyfriend broke up with me. He's 20 and honestly he was my first love. I dont know what to do, we were both crying so much, and he kept saying how much he still cares about me, and how he just does'nt want to be in a relationship, at all right now, and that he could be making a huge mistake, but he just does'nt know. but that he just needs time, that he wants to still talk to me, and hang out with me. I am so lost. it hurts so bad, but im just going to wait it out and see what happens.
but can you guys help me out, what can i do to make him want to work this out again? to make him miss me so much??? please help out with any advice.
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omg im soo sorry i could really feel your pain while readint hat!well i rekon is just keep spending time with him..dont over do it dont spend to much time with him just leave some distance and dont txt him as much as you use to but still b there for him..thatll give him a chance to miss you and realise that he needs you.Give him his space like he asked and just when your with him do abitta flirting..dont worry if he loves you hell come back..he will im sure of it!
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Okay so,
I was really curious about this...
How close can you get to your root when you shave?
Can you actually kill the root with the razor?
Or will your skin not let you go that far?
This question is haunting me!
PLEASEEEE HELPPP! :) (link)
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you can only kill the root if you wax im afarid lol that a good question though but sadly no you cant shaving will only shave half of the hair because the roots are soo deep down in your skin.
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Ok so.. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months. We're in love and stuff, so far everything is going good.. sometimes we fight because i get jealous or mad. because of girls.. (im kinda insecure) and have little trust, even though he tells me that he only wants me etc.
But yeaaa i love him to death, i would do anything for him. I literally wanna be with him forver :]
I need to know how to trust him & not be jealous.. And how to make this last forver!
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thats a really hard question your asking..but i guess you just have to stop over analysing.your like me always thinking of what COULD happen.He hasnt cheated and loves you you have to believe that until hes doen soemthing wrong.just ignore it or dont show your jealous. hes yours remember so just cherish the fact that the other girls dont have him and you do.surprising him now and then would b good.taking him to a nice place just you 2 and just watching the sunrise. taking him out to dinner and just b yourself you cant change the future if your ment to be with him for ever you will be.just dont argue as much unless its worth arguing about. so just think is this worth the arguement?is it worth loosing him?if not then let it go and dont argue.hope it helped xoxox
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ok i went to the doctor and they think i might have thyroid problems.
i have all the symptoms but i want to know whats a good diet to follow. thank you (link)
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yeah i agree with the girl who commented before and also just remember iodine doesnt work..they use to say it does but it doesnt..theres nothing mucch but the doctor will give you a pill to take every morning..your lucky you didnt have cancer there like i did
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So has anyone else noticed that on all of the relationship questions on here everyone makes it sound like their relationship is perfect??? I do it to but i wonder if everyone feels the same or if they are just lying so everything sounds like its great when its really not if that makes any sense... (link)
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trust me mine isnt either..bf use to b an abuser cheater and everything thank god im not with him now..and i just think that ppl see their relationship as perfect in their own eyes.once you love soemone its hard to notice the bad things in them get me?:)
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Okay, so I turn in all my assignments and I pay attention in class and ask questions.
The lowest grade in my school is an E, the highest is an A.
I have an E in Algebra, even after I've tried! It seems after every time I try, I fail! Any ideas on what to do?
I gave up on this last year and the year before, but I don't want to do it again. I need help.
P.S I really don't want to sit alone in a room with my teacher either. o-o; I get super nervous a lot. (link)
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lol hey haha im a teacher myself so dont worry and i use to hate geometry lol but dont worry the only reason i passed algebra when i was in school was because of my dad.what you need to do is just practice practice practice.doo all the questions and if you dont understand ask the teacher to help you and explain it to you then go home and do all the questions in your book especially the hard ones its the only way yyou can understand it is by practice..trust me i was the slowest kid in maths that i ever met it was horrible but dont worry you will turn out fine!just pass it for the year get it outta the way and dont worry bout it..good luck!
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