Hi, this is Kate. I'm 17. My life motto is 'Live Laugh Love', I really think those are great words to live by and I'm planning to have it made into a tattoo. I'm not religious but I love learning about different religions. I write stories based on things that have happened to me because sometimes I have days where I just think 'wow that sounds like something out of a book'. I've finished 3 stories and I'm about to start my first horror story..very exciting. I believe in fairy tale love...the kissing in the rain, staring at the stars on the rooftop kind of love..Why? Because I'm in that kind of love and its been the greatest time of my life. And it didn't come easy.
I'd love to help you with whatever issues come your way. I've been in relationships where the guy was too old for me, the guy was my best friend, the guy just wanted to get some. I've been the other woman but I'm not proud of it. I've been the girl who waits years to be with the guy she wanted.
I come from the type of home where everyone seems okay and then when everyone leaves its chaos. My parents should have been divorced years ago and I can't stand to be around either of them so for now I'm going day by day, only coming home to sleep and counting down the days until I go to college in August.
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Why are boys so... i dont even know what word to use.. i mean they tell you they love you just to get in your pants! and they are sooo confusing, they bring so much pain but i still want them! ... grrr, am i making any sense? all i truley want is this...
i want a boy---
who can wrestle with me
and let me win.
who i can talk to about anything.
who laughs at my jokes.
a boy who puts my cold hands
in his warm hoodie pockets.
who lets me use his sweatshirt
for a pillow.
who buys me 25 cent rings,
and sticky hands.
who says i love you & means it.
who will kiss me in the rain,
in the sunshine, and in the snow.
who calls unexpectedly.
who will have many inside jokes
with me and remember each one.
a boy who notices girl's haircuts.
who realizes that girls say things
but dont always mean them.
who i can go swimming with
on hot days.
who can tell me his problems
and let me help.
who will listen to me talk--
about the new nail polish i got.
who will bring me seashells
from the beach.
who will let me beat him up
when i get angry.
who writes love letters to me,
but doesn't send them.
who draws pictures and slips them
gently into my locker slot.
who saves his genuine, big smiles for me.
a boy with deep eyes,
that can see through faces into depths.
who wears baseball hats and
lets me wear his too.
who gives me his t-shirt to change into
and not expect to get it back.
who knows my favorite color, song,
car, vegetable, perfume and
the color of my toothbrush.
a boy who will shake my dad's handand look my mother in the eye.
who will call me by my full name--
first, middle and last.
a boy who will kiss me and
tell me i'm beautiful.
a boy who will let me cry to him.
who will squeeze my hips just right.
who suprises me and compliments
my manicure and plays with my hair.
who knows when i have a math test
or when i fail one.
a boy who smells like
he just stepped out of the shower.
who tells me i have a nice laugh,
and a smile that lights up the room.
a boy who's simply mine to hold."
that is exactly what i want!
why cant i get that? (link)
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it may seem imposible but there has got to be a guy like that out there.
modelkate11
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All of a sudden this morning, my nokia 3205 cellphone screen went BLUE (eventually went black) and I can't see ANYTHING. I can still make and recieve calls, but the menu and display are gone. How can I fix this. (link)
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take it back to where you got it from maybe they'll get you a new one.
modelkate11
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ok so i have a boyfriend that i've been with for about 6 months now. im 16, my boyfriend is turning 19 in september And about four months into the relationship, i got raped by his older brother and now his family is blaming me and telling ppl it wasnt raped so now im questioning myself if it was rape or not. and then the cops got involved because my boyfriend called the cops since i told him what happened when i slept over. so when the cops were investigating, they found out that me and my boyfriend have been having sex as well. so now me & andrew arent even allowed to see each other legally and im just wondering if i should stay with him after all this happening, we want to have kids in the future and he even asked me to marry him...is this a good idea? (link)
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i think you should stay together because it sounds like you're really in love with each other. this might be hard but maybe stop having sex just for the leagal part of things. i don't have any suggestions about his brother though except to stay away from him.
modelkate11
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Hi,
I'm 15/f. I was wondering if any of you girls knew of any stores where I would be able to get a French Manicure kit. I don't get my nails done anymore, so I wanted to give myself a French Manicure on my real nails. I looked for a certain French manicure kit on the Walgreens website, but I don't think they have it. The one I was looking for was called Nailene Hard & Healthy French Manicure Kit. It's $5.00. If any of you can, please let me know where I would be able to buy a simple French Manicure kit, and what brand would be best to get. Also, let me know whether any of you have ever bought a French Manicure kit, if it worked well or not, and what Brand it was. Thank you so much! I'm so sorry this question is so long. (link)
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if you have a Rite Aid near you or an Eckerd (both drug stores) i think they sell then for about $2.
modelkate11
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Does anyone know where I can get a Kodak digital camera with a low price? (link)
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online is your best bet because i don't think you have to pay tax and with some websites shipping is free too. i got mine from buy.com
modelkate11
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ok so im going to be a freshman and i want to dress really good this yr but i dont want peole to think im al self absorbed bc im not! i just want to look nice but not snobby bc i want to meet some new people
thanks! (link)
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i was in high school last year(8th grade). i tried to be all preppy with the Abercrombie and all that stuff but if you be yourself you will probably meet more people than if you're not.
modelkate11
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i just got a new lap top, and i want to have internet connection in my room, so i plugged it in to the phone jack. it didnt work, am i doing something wrong? i saw some thing called an ethernet cable, does that have ne thing to do with it? (link)
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you have to "install" internet onto your laptop even if you have it on another computer. i'm sorry i have no idea how to do that.
modelkate11
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My parents won't let me remove the hair from my legs, but I do anyway because I use my dad's razor. I want to get my own razor or hair removal device but my parents won't let me buy them or else they will kick me out of the house. My friend gave me a disposable razor but it ran out and she is out of town until September. How do I get a hair removal device and how do I hide it from my parents when I have it? If it helps I am 13/f. I will rate high for good advice or a good try. (link)
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first i would find out why your parents are against shaving your legs. if they're afraid you'll get cut well it's really hard to cut yourself unless you're digging into your skin with the razor. then explain to them that it's not peer pressure or what your friends think that makes you want to shave even if it is. it's tough not being able to drive(im 13 2) so i don't know how you'll be able to get a razor. try another friend and ask them if they have disposables
modelkate11
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Hullo
Just wondering, is it true that phones/cell phones can deepen the tone of your voice, especially a female one? Thanks. (link)
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i think it does. when i call home and leave a message and then my parents don't delete it and i listen to it, it sounds really weird and deep. i don't know if it's a fact but i notice a diffrence when i'm talking with my friends too.
modelkate11
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Ok well, I`m on my period and I have to go on a boat Sat. Tampons are def. outta the question because I`ve tried them and they DO NOT work! Is there anything I can do? (link)
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if you don't go in the water you should be ok with a pad but just so it's not obvious with a bathingsuit just wear some shorts.
modelkate11
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Other than Jansport, what are some good brands of backpacks? I'm going to have a lot of big books and binders this year and I need a bookbag that will last me all year without tearing or the zippers breaking. Thanks. (link)
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L.L.Bean is a little expensive but they have bookbags that will last forever. i don't know what their secret is but you could have your bag so stuffed with books so that the zipper barely closes but when it's on your back it only feels like half the weight.
llbean.com
modelkate11
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I will be freshman this year. And I'm so scared and nervous. My curent friends are like family, but I can't really be myserlf around them. They are too much into guys. But I've been through alot with them in middle school. And I don't really have any other close friends. So what should I do? Should I find new friends, or stick with the ones I got? (link)
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i'll be a freshman too this year but i've already been in high school one year. let me tell you it's tough. i would deffinatly say to stick with your friends because you're really going to need them. if your school is like mine then you eat lunch with every grade and you will not want to be the only one without people to hang out with.
modelkate11
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well 13 months ago my doctor said i was gonna get my period in 6 months to a year.. but then a year passed and i still hadn't gotten it.. and then i went to my physical 13 months later and the doctor said another 6 months to a year.. but ive gotten like everything such as my growth spurt pubic hair.. vaginal discharge.. etc. but im active.. cauz im a runner... but i haven't ran since the end of may cauz i have an injury.. so i know like you shouldn't want your period or w/e.. but i just wanna get it over with because all of my friends have it except me and i feel so left out.. and my best friend just hers and she says she won't feel comfortable talking about it with me until i got mine.. so i feel so bad.. when do you think i'll get mine??.. do you think i'll have to wait another year?? (link)
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i feel like i wrote your question because the EXACT same thing is happening to me. the only thing different is that all my frinds talk about it to me. i still haven't figured out why i haven't gotten mine yet. i'm thirteen and have hit every puberty sign except getting my period. everybody is different and so is when they get their period. some of my friends got it when they were only 11 and others got it when they were 14. i just wanted to let you know that you're not alone and it is frustrating when all your friends are telling you that you don't want to get it but they don't seem to get that you only want it so you know that you're normal.
modelkate11
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I want a new look for my room on a LOOWWWW budget. I'm 14/f and My walls are white. My carpet is like pink dots and blue dots and white dots... and I have a pegboard border around my room. I just want a new look! (link)
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the first thing for a new look is paint. (take down the border first) next you can change your sheets to a new design or color and maybe get a matching throw rug. if you have some extra money after that then you might like a cool storage container to keep control of klutter. please rate me. i want to be an interior designer.
modelkate11
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My family wants to get another dog. We already have a Bichon Frise and we would like to get another small dog, maybe smaller that a Bichon Frise. Does any body know of any good dogs, that work well with children, are cute, arent that expensive, and would work well with another small dog? My Bichon Frise is very sweet if that matters for anything. Thanks! (link)
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my aunt has a dog that's a mix from a peekanese and a poodle. they're non alergenic and really sweet dogs. her dog only gets along with small dogs but i'm not sure if that's the same for all of them. they're called Peekapoo's. the name kinda suits their personality. they're cute and spunky and have a lot of energy but can also be a great lap dog.
modelkate11
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ok, I am 14/M I am about 5'1"-5'3" & I weight like 120 lbs.
Over the past few weeks I have been under ALOT of stress, & all my stress seemed to go to my stomach & my chest
how do I get into shape, like what I want is like a 6-back & a better looking chest, so I was wondering if you could tell me a work out routine & a diet that would help me with this & how long it would take?
thank you so much, I REALLY appreciate this (I am trying to get my life fixed & start over) (link)
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in my school 120lbs. is the normal weight for 14 guys but if you want to change it that's o.k too. you could lay on the floor with a kitchen chair in front of you and do sit-ups. if you did like 25-35 at one time for about two weeks it will help.
modelkate11
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Ok, this might sound really stupid, but this bugs me so much. My mom normally lets me get my hair cut before each school year starts but this year she won't. She told me she doesn't feel like I really need one cuz she gave me a trim a couple months ago and she also said she wasn't gonna let me get it done for a whole year! I thought that was pretty harsh. My hair bugs me cuz it gets in my face when I play basketball and I told her I'm not gonna tryout unless I get it cut. How do I convinve her to let me cut it, or ways for me to like my hair. (link)
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it's healthier for you to get your hair at least trimmed because it prevents split ends.
modelkate11
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okay I have a dog and she is so nasty she always eats her poop and I seriously do not know what to do like today she went outside and took a crap then came inside and had a whole bunch of dog crap on her butt my friend had to give her a bath and right after that she went back outside and took another crap and got it stuck to her fur again but not just her butt she had it like all over her fur like her sides and had streaks coming down from her butt it was so nasty and how can I get her to stop and i have already tooken her to the vet and they gave her some medicine but it didn't work and i seriously need some help so please help me i will really appreciate it if yall would answer my question and I will give you a five if you give a serious answer and not weird
Luv BrItTaNy (link)
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my dog used to eat sh!t too but he was a puppy and he grew out of it. well he still does it sometimes but when we say"no" he stops. if ur dog is a puppy then he will probably grow out of it
modelkate11
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what is spooning? (link)
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spooning is a sex posistion where both people lay on their sides
modelkate11
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This is going to sound so stupid. But I've been noticing some hair under my arms and its getting really dark so I want to shave it. The only problem is that my mom and sister shave their underarms but it leaves bumps and little black stubs/dots. Is there anyway that I can shave and not get any stubble? Like if you shave with a certain razoe, is it possible to have NO stubble? Any tips on shaving would be great! Sorry so long. Thanks! (link)
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my mom gets the same thing but i don't. iit might be the razor. i use a really good one by Noxema. make sure your blade isn't dull and use soap and i don't think you'll get bumps or stubs
modelkate11
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