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I joined this site when I was very young (hence the ridiculous username) but now I feel I'mn old enough to give out advice.

Ask me anytime. I have had my fair shares of family issues, as well as good at solving relationship problems.

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ok so i wanna propose to my girlfriend of 3 years. but i have 2 questiosn.

1.what stores can you buy really good engagement rings? like i know theres kay and zales but what else?

2. what should i do to propose really cute. like i was thinkinon valentines day..or like if i did wait till next xmas eve..under amistletoe or something. something really cute or creative. thanks soooo much

I suggest this
http://www.swaguk.co.uk/site/index.php?page=about_care

It is a fabulous shop, but you should order it to your parents house or something just incase your gf wonders what it is if she signs for it at the door.

I think it will be a lovley idea to propose at valentines, cook her a meal, give her a rose, ask her to dance and then out of the blue propose!

Awww, I hope it goes fantastic - cally well

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to put it simple:

i do almost every thing with my right hand, except i type with them both. i write, catch things, throw things, etc.

if i practice all those things regularly on my left hand will i beable to write good and easier with my left, and cath and throw things as i do with my right?

If you practice with your left, it'll be better but it will never be as good as your right because it's taken your whole life to get your right hand steadier than it has ever been.
I'm amphidextrus, which means I can use both perfectly the same
I write with my left mainly, but can do with right
Play footie with the right but can do it just as good with left.

Just practice because you know what they say
Practice makes perfect.

It is in my opnion that you CANNOT MAKE yourself amphidextrus.
you never use your left, so it'll be very hard to get it like your right.
Bec (the first 1 to answer is wrong) you cannot actually make yourself amphidextrus

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hey guys..im going to a party 2morrow and this guy i kinda like is going too. I know hes going to want to sit beside me and put his arm around me. What do i do after he does that? Do i lean my head on his shoulder? Or what?!?! (13/f)
-Thanks alot

Be yourself (sounds cheesy) but please do.When he does this (puts his arm around you), look at him ,make sure you have eye contact, smile and then just lean on his shoulder.

If he'd like a little kiss, why not?Make sure its small, soft and sweet and nice lipbalm/chapstick is nice to.Just keep smilin', thats the way to do it.

Dont talk during the film (duh!) as it can annoy boys.Oh and makes sure you have mints (you'll never know what'll happen)

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Should you use hot or cold water to wash your face. I heard one of them was better than the other.

Use hot if you'd just like to have you're skin quite smooth and gentle

If you've woken up, splash cold for the refereshing and uplifiting face

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ok you know the movie 13 going on 30? ya well theres a song in it called "Love is a Battlefeild" and who sings that?





thx!

pat benatar - watch the vid here : http://youtube.com/watch?v=HuOhUa5GxA0

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The kid I like is a horny, horny boy. And who can blame him? He hit puberty. He probably just wants action.
But my idea is that if I gave him a blowjob, he'd like it. If i told him that I'd keep doing it if he asked me out, we'd be together.

What does everyone think of this plan?

-Jordan

I really don't like this plan.Not at all.Your telling me that you're gonna act like some sort of slut to get a boy - and this boy is only is interested in one thing.

If he might of not wanted to go out with you, and you gave him a b.j , then he might only be intersted in one thing, after all you said he is horny

And are you old enough?Would your 'rents freak?Is it right?Are you ready?Does he LOVE you not LUST you? - This are things you need to be thinking about
-what if it werent further
- you wernt prepared
-no protection
- not the nicest place

You need to think of consquences.he might not even no that you really like him, he'll take as a "one night stand".
I dont think its right.

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I get absolutely no respect from my younger sister. We are only one year apart (I am 16; she's 15). All she does is give me smartass comments when I try to be nice or give her reasonable advice on something (when she asks for it). She never mentions me to her friends. Her friends don't even know I exist. She doesn't mention me on Myspace. She is always claiming to everyone we are not even sisters and deletes all of my comments. I am always seeing sisters saying "I love my sister even though we get those fights". I wish my sister would do something like that, ya know? Like I want her to be proud I am her sister, but she is embarrassed of me. She also says rude remarks to me when she is around friends.

Also when we get into fights my parents tend to take her side over mine (ironic because I am older than her) and I will admit I can start it and make up ways to aggravate her (but who doesn't do that?) however she does the same thing but it's always her word over mine. There are times my parents either stay neutral or take my side but it just always seems that my sister is "better" than me.

She also shows no expression of love for me (as sisters, of course). I will say "I love you!" and she will just say "OK, so?" And it hurts me so much. I can't even answer to myself that she even really does love me deep down because she gives out no emotion towards me except such hatred and angst. She is a tomboy so I guess that explains some of it, but I wish she would be more open and more respestful towards me. I am not asking for total worship or anything, but I am asking that she would be more respective and nice.

I need advice on how I can deal with this! Thanks.

It's obvious your slightly maturer than your sister.But she's just like a "teenager" , like those "typical ones" if you know what I mean
-stroppy
-no compassion
-moody
-dont care Am I right??

Just leave her alone and get on with YOUR life.She will miss you aggrovating her or whatever and it will make her think "she's so mature".Also, giving her space gives her time to be herself and relfect.She needs space.I have a sister, and I know what it's like.She already knows you're there for her, but she just dosnt want to let you know she actually cares.It is normal but she probarbly feels itimidated or something as your older and being mean to you around your friends in natural too, even though it is mean.


Your always letting her know how much you love her but you never tell her when you're feeling low.Next time an arguement appears, tell exactly what you want to say.Don't hold back.Saying whats on your mind may hurt her, but will make her see what shes been doing.Or just tell you're mother how you are feeling.Mums do the trick.

Please tell me how everything goes

Sadie
xxx

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do you think its weird to dedicated a song to my friend who is a girl? im just asking cause i want to dedicate a cheer up song to her because shes pretty much upset about her parents divorced and all
which is Keep on Keepin' by jojo and use my shoulder-jojo if u dont know the song please just look at the lyrics here:
http://www.cravelyrics.com/artist.php/jo...
and
http://www.cravelyrics.com/artist.php/jo...

which one do u think its better? please be serious thank you =]

I have her album ha!!Use my shoulder is better but use both if you want they're both perfect!!
Real sorry about your mate

xx

ps: It'ss totally FINE to do this for your friend, deinatly NOT weird

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Hey, I really need Ideas for dance. I have to make up a 16-8 count dance between four people for a choreography grade in my class. Our theme is Hip-hop and I am an alright dancer. I really dont know any good dance moves and music to dance to. We also want to add a step dance to our performance. We need music where it glides smoothly into another song, like - walk it out, snap yo fingers, this is why im hot, ya know some good songs that are popular. If ANYONE has any GOOD ideas on what I can do that would be great! This dance is due in the begining of Feburary.
Thanks, Keosha (Columnist)

Wow I'm doing a dance too in feb!
We are thinking of dancing to "breath in breath out"

or so lonely (one and only) part 2 mariah carey - thats a really good hip/hop and I'm NOT JUST SAYING IT BECAUSE SHE'S MY IDOL IT IS ACTUALLY REALLY GOOD - you can get it on track number18 of the emnacipation of mimi or you can just brun it on to a cd

Heres some videos to help you do some dance moves

http://youtube.com/watch?v=YbA0PmQsDpk

http://youtube.com/watch?v=qImQ7p1MNMo

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14/f
There's this guy in school that I like that I dont're really talk to that often. I want to ask him to the Sadie Hawkins dance, but I'm not sure how to, thinking it might be kind of awkward because we don't talk that often. What would be a good way to ask him...and is it appropriate that I ask him? thanks.

It's a dance!Just go up to him and say hey do you wanna go to dance with me - I'd just thought It'll be fun, get to know eachother.
Just ask him.There is nothing to lose.A dance is the perfect way to meet new people.And if your to shy when he is there you can always ask him if he'd like to dance hey?






this is quite funny my names sadie and my cousins sirname is hawkins - I could change my name to sadie hawkins couldnt I?

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I'm still not over my ex after seven months. It still gets me down. So does anyone have any sad/heartbreaking/makes you want to scream/that type of love songs? Anything EXCEPT rap and r&b. Thanks!

Unbreak my heart - Toni Braxton

The video dosnt relate to what you want but the lyrics do http://youtube.com/watch?v=pVjTVsjEw6Q

We belong together - mariah carey

http://youtube.com/watch?v=WWuC-s1hAkU

I will always love you - whitney huston
http://youtube.com/watch?v=92DZyqs2rto

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WARNING: THIS IS GOING TO BE LONG BUT I SERIOUSLY NEED ADVICE ON THIS. PLEASE DONT LEAVE BECAUSE ITS TOO LONG. YOU MIGHT BE ABLE TO MAKE IT ALL BETTER FOR ME. PLEASE READ.

ok. so me and my mom fight non-stop. screaming yelling crying. the usual. its weird because we used to be really close and would always go shopping and crap and i would tell her everything yatta yatta. well i really want to be her "friend" er w/e. i mean not like besties but id like to at least have a positive relationship. seriously. usually, like as of right now, i hate her guts. with a strong passion. she ruins my life.

does anyone know anything i can say to her that lets her know i need her? this sound really cheesey i know. but its like ruining my life not to have a positive relationship. i mean. i get grounded for the f-ing retaredest things (if thats even a word..) and because of her i wont be able to spend this coming weekend with my boyfirend. (its our anniversary) and im superrr pissed.

anything.. please. this is serious. i hate my life. and its all because of her. i honestly wish my parents would divorce just so i wouldnt see her as much. but the only thing is she says that if my parents were to divorce (for the like 3rd time) she wouldnt let me live with my dad. yeah right. i would refuse to live with my mom.

ughhhh. please help..


oh and by the way;
if it makes a difference, she has cronic depression and doesnt always take her medications (which pisses me off). so shes always bitchy. my dad agrees with me that sometimes she goes over the top.

I KNOW THIS WAS LONG BUT PLEASE HELP!

xoxo
14/f

If you know she dosn't take her meds sometimes and she dosnt have partner, why are you making it more difficult - you are at fault here

BUTTTT, she is at fault too, as far as I can tell, she needs you.Grounding you, knowing that you wanted to celebrate your anniversary which is about "love" is a cry for help, she wants you to love her care for her.

When you have an arguement , just leave it and apologize.I know you need her, but she needs you.
And you have to make the first move.
Buy her some choccies and a thankyou card ..you can write thanks for being the best mum ever or whatever.If she asks her why you did this..you tell her its because YOU LOVE HER.Make sure each night you say goodnight, and hug her and tell her that you love her.It'll make you closer and bring out the best in both of you.

If you're every angry , have a journal /diary/ or an online blog, just google it.

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i really wanna learn how to dance, like you would at a party to a hip hop song or something. does anyone have any tips on how to do it? i've tried dancing in the mirror, it really does not help for me. are there are any good videos or ANYTHING? i just seem to have no rhythm and no idea as to how to move my body. please don't say anything like just listen to the music, because that's not working.

A brilliant video is my love by justin timberlake

or just check out any pussycat doll vid.

To keep in time count
1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8 and reapeat until you got it,
shake your hips whilst you count (shake from side to side)

To view vids go to

musicjesus.com
otr
youtube.com

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dear reader,
i am 14 old boy. there is this girl that i asked to be my gf and its already been about 2 weeks and i still didnt get my answer. every time i call her up she says shes busy and cant talk. i think shes trying to avoid me also. what should i do?

rafol boy

If you love her.Repect it.A girl needs time, it might hurt, but it'd be worth the wait wouldn't it?

You need to understand when a girl does this theres a side where she wants to say yes and another side pulling her down saying no.She's just thinking the bad and good possibilites.

Just give her space,
it's all she needs.
Space.

So just wait.
But if its more that three months - then maybe thats when you should really give up.

DONT listen to the fools below me ha.
I'm a girl with experience.I observe these things.Don't give up on her, you'll never know what she will say.But if you can't wait confront her and tell her everything thats going through your mind.

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WASSUP??!?!?


Ok, this is a stupid question since I already know the answer...at least I think I do...I guess I'm just paranoid...w/e thats what this site is for

does diet cola....if drank in high quantities...I drink like 12 cans a day....

well if you do that...will it make you gain weight???

Well yes - its all sugar really
Why dont you try coco cola zero : zero calories, zero sugar.

Also , (if youre a female) test have shown drinking more that 4 cans a week, makes your hips,pelvis bones shrink and leave you with more of a chance of having brittle bones disease in your pelvis.

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I'm re-doing my bedroom, with the colors of light blue and brown.
Anyone know where I can get good stuff to match?
Thanks!

Well, I don't know particular places, (execpet argos and next, uk) but I have searched some stuff for you though!


Buy one get one free normal blue lamp, they are gorgeous and soo modern -
http://www.argos.co.uk/static/Product/partNumber/4321390.htm

Brown Duvet Set
http://www.argos.co.uk/static/Product/partNumber/1054990/Trail/C%24cip%3D41700.Furniture%2Band%2Bfurnishings%3EC%24cip%3D41740.Bedding%3EC%24cip%3D41749.Single%2Bduvet%2Bcover%2Bsets%3EFC%24Colour%3DBrown.Brown.htm

blue alarm clock

http://images.google.co.uk/imgres?imgurl=http://www.realtruck.com/images/products/1332/200x200_rpms-2030.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.realtruck.com/productline/1332/1029/1/roadpro_12_volt_blue_glow_bell_alarm_clock.html&h=200&w=152&sz=13&hl=en&start=28&tbnid=z6zCuwoDgOiE_M:&tbnh=104&tbnw=79&prev=/images%3Fq%3D%2Bblue%2Balarm%2Bclock%26start%3D20%26ndsp%3D20%26svnum%3D10%26hl%3Den%26lr%3D%26sa%3DN

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There's a talent show at my school coming up really soon and I'd like to play piano and sing. :-) Does anyone know any really nice piano songs that I could play piano and sing to? They could be easy to play or hard, it doesn't matter. Maybe some alternative/rock songs that are somewhat lesser know? Any suggestions would be great. Thanksss! :-)

Ok, it's a actually a love song - if you could get someone to sing it, it would BLOW EVERYONE AWAY.I sang it a my talent show twice and WON!

The music is beautiful and it is desgined for mainly a piano to play the music it is called
"What I did for love" from the show A Chorus Line

Listen to it: http://youtube.com/watch?v=VXW480B4ENs




Lyrics:

http://home.hetnet.nl/~musicals/LYRICS/ChorusLine.html#10

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ok, I was just wondering, does ANYBODY understand french on this site? Cause I am french and it somtimes takes me forever to translate my questions into inglish. Hope that this sounds well.

I've been doing french for 5yrs.I understand it more and can write it more than say it.Give me something anytime, I'm sure I'd understand

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how do u grind with 13 year old catholic girls when ure 13

Hey feel the music and just grind, there isnt exactly a right or wrong way and just becauser there catholic dosnt mean you have to do differetly!Why treat them any different?Im a christain!And boys don't treat me different because of it.

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what is a best friend? is it a person who stabs you in the back? secretly talks about you? or even hookup with your crush behind your back? hm i dont think so. I thought i had a best friend....what do i do?

Hey that was a best friend gone bad.Dump her.Find some better friends.If I was you, I'd get it out in the open, even in public and humiliate her!

A best friend is
-loyal
-kind
-sticks up for you
-supports you
- makes you feel comfortable
-dont stab you in the back - noones perfect though

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