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If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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I have 2 questions...
1) How can I decide what college I want to go to? I know I have to apply to a few, but, you know how everyone has there heart set on one, how can I pick one for me?
2) And, is there any kind of quiz online I can take to give me some good results on a career I could go into? I'm dumbfound when it comes to what I want to be and go to college for. (link)
Question 1: Find out what you're remotely interested in at the time. If you have nothing,then go to college and major in undecided. Plenty of people do it. Few have their heart set on any college and you just kind of wing it ya know.

Question 2: You can build a bomb online. I'm sure you can take a test online about interests and colleges and stuff. Everybody who goes into college doesn't know immediately what they want to be. Don't lose sleep over it. I have a 25 year old cousin who still doesn't know what she wants. It's kool. I don't know either.


Hey guys =D here's my question.. there's this girl @ my school, we're pretty good friends. A couple of days ago, she told me she liked me in a more then friends type of way. Problem is i'm a girl & i don't swing that way. I want to tell her that i'm not attracted to her in that way, but i don't know how to do that without hurting her feelings... any ideas would be great! thanks! (link)
Tell her you're just not interested. Nothing personal. And it doesn't affect the friendship. And mean it by the way.


ok well i dont eat anything really... i would say im becoming anerexiox. i know its not good for you but does it mmake you lose weight? (link)
Nope it slows down your metabolism and makes you sick.


ok...i broke up with my boyfriend (16) and im 15. hes a sophmore im a freshman. hes telling every one at school that he dumped me because i was cheating on him...he also told everyone i was a slutty hore! Which is totally not true! I garentee that if you looked at me..you wouldn't think im slutty. I mean i went out with him for a little over a month and ALL we did was kiss,...twice no longer than three seconds! that doesn't seem very slutty to me! So anyways... he keeps calling me at night saying that he still loves me and cares about me and still wants to be with me! But I no what he is saying is a bunch of bull because he couldn't feel that way about me and then make up all that crap at school! But he swears hes not lying. Hes getting really annoying...but im the type of girl that hates not being friends after a breakup...when i dumped him i told him that we would still be friends and i keep my promises unlike him! But its really hard! Im trying to be the mature one about this! But i can't be friends with someone who could make up horrible lies like that but...i want him to no that im better than that, that i didn't let it get to me! what do i do? how do i tell him t cool off otherwise i can't be his friend? (and i can't just say it like that because i think thats too mean! :/)

~*~ Me ~*~ (link)
It's not mean at all. You tell the prick "Look(insert name here) I'm tired of you making up these stories of lies and bullshit about me. You know that's not how it went and cut it the hell out. I don't lie about you,you little bastard and I've had it up to here with your crap. Tell everyone that it's a lie." And mean it. Don't say please anywhere in your demands and act pissed off. It's not mean to say I don't want a friend who's gunna lie and tell bullshit about me. Besides after me and a girl break up,I hate the bitch and usually never want to speak to her again. But that's apparently not you. In the future,never be friends with an ex.


Can a person be in love in 8th grade? Or is it just bogus? I do believe I'm in love and I wondering if it really is love. All of my friends alkways say I'm in love with this boy and I have been for a while. Thanks! (link)
Probably not. Someone is 13 or 14 isn't thinking about long term,kids,financial problems,etcs. Besides love sux anyway kid,don't worry about it. You're not even in high school. 5 years ago you believed in santa claus. Take it slow,you're not in love.


I give up. I dont deserve gods love. I am not worthy enough for it. He gives me a gift and i dont use it. I fail one class, i am a porn addict. I give up i dont deserve god anymore. I dont even deserve to live, i, i really dont care. i am not good enough. I am not as loyal to him as i should be. i dont deserve him at all. im done. Please give advice or a way to end it all (link)
Look,bottom line,do you believe in God? Sounds like yes. Do you believe JC died for you? If you do,don't worry about all that other shit. You're not good enough? For what? If you mean to live,that's simply not true. God is very forgiving. He has to be with all the crap he sees down here. Don't worry about it kid and just pray.


i shave my vagina almost every other day..i was wondering if its bad for me to shave so often.. but i like to be completely clean..ppl say that i shouldnt ( im 22yrs old ) shave there so often but i dont mind if alot of hair grows back coz life is short and i dont want my bf seeing me hairy there. please help.. (link)
It's not bad to shave down there that often. Do what you gotta do,as far as I know it's healthy.


Hey! I was reading some of your responses and you seem like a cool guy to get advice from so here goes... Ive liked this guy for about 2 1/2 years. Were not good friends, but we hang out with the same crew. Hes the "most popular" guy in our grade. You know the type... great athlete, QB in football and basketball star, funny and popular and really fun to be around... and so lots of girls like him. Anyways him and his gf broke up this year cuz he dumped her cuz she was sorta fooling around with a senior. He didnt really care, hes sorta passive about her. Anyways. He flirts with me a lot, and a lot of his friends like me. I know im pretty and im one of the most popular girls. But hes just really aloof and hasnt shown a lot of romantic intrest. Do you have any ideas of how i can get him to like me? Hes really hard to talk to about stuff so i cant just tell him i like him... what are some good ways to become closer though? thanks! (link)
You can't ever make anyone like you,but if you wanna invite him to watch a movie at your house,or go to the movies,or w/e,just ask him. Don't be scared to do it. If you're hott,hes interested. Trust me. I bet he isn't that hard to talk to about stuff like that,just talk to him. But don't tell him you like him until you go on a few dates. You may find you don't like him as much as you thought.


okay well im 13/f and i accedeltally masterbated with out knowing it, at first i didnt know what i did but then i really started to enjoy it and do it to myself on porpose and i dont want to do it anymore but i dont no how to stop any help i rate high (link)
Accidently masturbated? How the hell did you do that? Why don't you wanna do it anymore? It's healthy and yeah it's a sin,but so is everything else.Don't stop just keep doing it.


This might be a stupid question, but does it hurt to have sex? Do you bleed?

just wondering (link)
Hurts you,doesn't hurt me. It won't after a few times.


Whats a vibrator? and how do u work one? (link)
A vibrator is something that helps girls with masturbation. Vibrating dildos is usually how they come. I really don't know how to work one,I'm a guy. Ask a girl.


How do you give someone a hickey? How come it really is that color? Also.. What do you do when a guy is giving you a hickey.. is it normal if a girl were to give a guy a hickey? (link)
Question one: you suck their neck like a vampire would. I have no clue why it's that color. A guy has never given me a hickey and yes.


I am 14/f and don't tell me i`ve made the biggest mistake of my life...i know i've made a mistake and i`m gonna follow my responsibilities. My boyfriend, who I have been with for 11 months, has been in jail for 6... he just got out and we really like each other you know? Well, while he was in jail-i had a little side thing...with a 16 year old black male...lets call him mike..me and mike really liked each other and did it a lot..but when we did it on the first day of my period-something happened. Last night, my stomach was hurting sooo bad while talking to my boyfriend. So bad that my mom took me to the emergency room. She decided to give me a pregnancy test..and it`s positive. I`m nervous and all and 6 weeks pregnate in the 9th grade... I have the money and skills to support it..but MIKE doesn`t want anything to do with it. My dad wants it aborted but I want it...my mom does too. What would you do in my situation? And how do i explain to my boyfriend who is trying to get his life back on track? (link)
You do what you want with your kid. Your father can't make you get an abortion. And your boyfriend is a loser anyway,you don't need a jailbird. You'll prolly rate me a one but I don't care about that shit. Mike also has no admirable qualities,he wants nothing to do with his kid. Then keep your dick in your pants next time,man. Hope he likes paying child support.


How long can sperm live outside of the body? (link)
5 hours. Haven't you ever seen CSI?


hi kevin, im 13 years old. alrite heres the story... i was going out with this guy, he's 14, and we were together for about 5 months. we he dumped me because he was 'too busy to have a girlfriend' but the gay thing was he calls me that same night and is all like oh lets get back together, and blahh. so im like no that was ur fuck up ur gonna have to deal with it. well since then he's been trying to get back together. but the fucked up thing is now he thinks that i like this boy and that same boy likes me, so he goes and threatens the boy that hes gonna beat his ass. so i tried to tell him to back down off of him because there is nothing going on bewteen us or whatever. and he tells me he wont touch him, but then he goes up to him and says hes gonna beat him up or whatever.... i've tried, and i jus wanna give up but im not having someone fight over me or whatever the hell is going on. what should i do about the whole thing? please help, thanks, and sry its so long. xoxo (link)
Fuck him. He sounds like an immature asshole. You can do better.


hey yah the guy i liked said i was ugly so should i confront him? (link)
Go down on him and bite his dick. Be the last fuckin time THAT happens.


Ok heres the problem.. my friend got her peroid in 5th grade.. so she gets it normally now.. but when she was supposed to get it this month she didnt.. She never had sex.. what could be the problem? (link)
When you're young,your period is irregular.


hello. i'm 13 and my parents are divorced. they have been ever sice i was 6 years old. and my dad just remarried a really AWFUL woman! they just had there 1st anniversary. her son is CONSTNTLY making fun of me and my dad just says "deal with it" its taunting a bull at school would do. well to cut to the chase, my mom still had my dads last name and just changed it today. i feel so different now it really makes me sad. i feel like i'm closer to my stepmom than i am her. please help. all answers will be rated a 5 for effort! :`( (link)
It's your mom's choice to go back to her name if she'd like. But you need to pick the name you want to keep,I think you're old enough to make a choice like that. Your mom loves you and always will,no matter what YOUR last name is. If you're close to your stepmom,talk to her about her kid teasing you.


Ok - I recently got a petsitting job about 3 weeks ago. It's great and I love it!!! But my boss is hitting on me. He's a older guy around his late 40 - 50`s (I am not good with age) And his wife owns it. She is the sweetest lady. Well me and him went on a client interview and somehow he brushed aganist my butt with his hand, I was thinking hmm ok whatever. Then just at different times it seem ackward, he was like after you and wanted me to go first and different things like that. Well when I first meet him I sorta did have this weird feeling in my stomach, but just thought it was nervousness. Well then I had to go over his house to pick up invoices for the clients. And I walked up and he was on the pourch and before we went in the house we were talking and he reached towards my lips and I backed away I am like what what he's like you had a hair .. and reached again well I took my hand and like rubed it across my face I am like oh ok. And that was weird. Well I told my mom about it and she said that that is very weird and everything and it's up to me if I want to quit my job or not. I mean I love it so much, it's just that freaks me out. My mom said whenever I was going someplace and we knew he would be there, she would go with me. But I'm just afraid since he knows my schedule what if I go to a clients house and go inside and he's in there .. or what if he's stalking me watching me walk around the dogs. Whats really weird too is that he always wears sunglasses and smokes cigars. I don`t know what to do tho. Also their was a misunderstanding about one day I was suppose to work and he like curked out on me. Then when I had to go to his house (my mom came with me) he was like calm. It's really weird. What would you do?? :-/ (link)
If you feel you are in any danger,quit now. Women have a sixth sense about this kind of shit. This guy sounds like a headtrip. It's great you like the job and everything,but you like your life more. You get the fuck outta there.


All right, so, I'm 14/f, and this is basically about my guy friend, Jarrod. He really likes one of my best friends, Cora. He has liked her a really long time, and I was the first person he told after almost a year of liking her. He knows he can trust me not to tell anyone because I am an excellent secret-keeper, and so far I have told no one.
Although I did tell him that he should just tell her. Because I had to do that with this guy I liked, and everything turned out fine. But Jarrod and I both know that Cora doesn't really like him that way, although she really cherishes their friendship, I can tell. I told him that if he didn't do it by the end of this school year, I would tell her. (It's also sort of hard to keep this kind of thing from a best friend of yours for this long, even if Jarrod is a good friend too.)
And now, almost completely out of the blue, Jarrod told me that he's not sure why he told me in the first place, that there are other people he should have told before me, and that he doesn't want me privy to his love life anymore, and that I can't, under ANY circumstances, tell Cora. He also said that there is a personal reason that he doesn't want to tell Cora, and that he could not and WOULD not tell me.
What do I do? Why has Jarrod all of a sudden turned on me? Should I tell Cora and risk Jarrod's trust? HELP!!

Sorry about the long question...I rate! (link)
Jarrod is being stupid. Even,if the girl doesn't like him,he needs to get this off his chest. He'll feel a lot better. He's a pussy if he doesn't tell her. He's afraid to get laughed at and embarrassed if you tell Cora,but so what? It's not your place to tell the girl,he's gotta do that. He told you because he felt he had to get it off his chest to somebody and he picked you. He's really scared now you're gunna say something,but you're not gunna do that. He's acting like a big jackass,you're gunna get rejected in life kid,get used to it. I've been there,you're gunna be there,he's gunna be there and even the almight Cora will be there. That's life.




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