ok so i just found out im pregnant. and im only 15. DONT JUDGE ME I JUST NEED ADVICE.
i have to tell my parents. but i dunno how. any help on that?
also, the father doesnt know im pregnant, either. how can i tell him and my parents?
and please please please dont tell me to get an abortion cause im so against that.
so yeah just gimme advice on how to tell my parents and the father.
I'd say tell the father flat-out. There's no need to sugar-coat it. If he was willing to take the risk he should be willing to accept responsibility.
Then, MAYBE, if your parents like him and everything, maybe you two could sit down with them together and tell them, so they'll know he won't just run away and not help you with it.
There's really no easy way to do it unless your parents wouldn't be mad about it. Just say it. Tell them you didn't do it on purpose and you just want them to be supportive.
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would it be weird to wear casual dresses alot to school? cause i love them and i would wear them nearly everyday but.. idk stores where i can get casual dresses for cheap that look cute. i already shop at forever21 and wet seal so where else can i go for stuff like that for cheap? thanks! 14/f
Why not? Just because no one else is doing it doesn't mean you shouldn't do it.
If it's what you like, then I say go for it.
You could even start a new casual dress trend at your school or something.
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like, i know this is very random and uncalled for but i cant talk to anyone without them totally freaking out and stuff? but i am getting this huge feeling/ vibe or whatever that im going to be a teenage mom. like, i keep having all these dreams and stuff. oh, by the way im 15. and i know this is weird and all but i honestly wouldnt mind having a baby. i might not be able to afford it, but i'll cross that bridge when i come to it. my parents might murder me and try to make me give it up or kill it or something but im sure i could convince them to think otherwise. "Hello? this is your GRANDCHILD!!!!" yeah, lol. told you it was random. but give me your opinions. what do you think about all this?
It's probably nothing. But if you do believe in getting signs and everything, then maybe you should start being more careful if you're sexually active. Use birth control and condoms unless you're 100% sure you're ready for a baby. I know a lot of teens who think they're ready, but they end up regretting getting pregnant because they can't go out and have fun as much anymore.
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lol. the headline says it all. i go to a church and my crush plays drums in the big church, and my dad plays lead guitar. i have spoken to him twice and last year his mom was real nice. and now in the middle of service i keep looking over and seeing these really evil looks from his mom and older sister. and she ignores me when i try to say hi. his dad is cool, but thats just cause he has to be nice to everyone, i guess. but yeah. WTH do you think is going on?!?!
Can you think of anything you might have done to make her dislike you? Even if it didn't have anything to do with her, gossip spreads fast.
Maybe ask your crush why she's doing it, or just ignore her. You shouldn't worry yourself trying to figure it out. Some people are just mean like that.
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15/f
okay,so way before i even knew what it was i was attracted to girls.ive been attracted to guys,but a lot more girls.So i was pretty sure i was bi-sexual.But i had sex and done everything with a guy,and didn't get any enjoyment whatsoever.not because it was my first time,because even after that.i just am not attracted to a penis.touching it grosses me out unless im drunk or something.but i still think a lot of guys are hott and thought i was like in love with one.but its just so wierd now,cause when i did everything with a girl it just seemed right and everything(of ocurse the first time was kinda awkward tho)
but yeah so now im really confused
A lot of people go through a stage where they get a little confused about their sexuality. It's normal, especially when you're a teenager. I would say not even half of teens who think they're bisexual really are, or still say they're on when they grow up.
And as for the penis thing: I'm 100% straight, and penis' gross me out. I'll have sex and everything, but I think penis' are so ugly and nasty looking, so I guess that's normal, too.
Don't try to rush into deciding what your sexuality is. Experiment if you have to, but don't claim you're something until you're positive it's what you are.
And skylalou_1, that's kind of rude to call it gross. You may not agree with it, but you shouldn't start being rude to someone who's asking for advice.
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ok let me tell you a story about me and this guy
ok im 14/f and hes like 12/mor13/m idk but we have pe together and hes perfect
ok hes just how perfect he is!
1.perfect smile
2.perfect body(not that i have seen it lol)
3.sadly perfectly taken!
4.perfect hair
5.perfect flirter
6.perfect friends
7.perfectly kissable
8.perfectly hot
9.perfectly amazing at sports
10.perfectly easy to talk to!
ok lets get to the story
ok well form the first day i saw him last year i thought he was cute. ok so this year i just happen to be in his pe class and wow!its amazing!he sits there and will smile at me and one time he winked im not one to brag or be so head over heels about a guy but ahh i like him so much!and i think he likes me too but at the time when he was single i was taken but an asshole :] but he was going to ask me out but i didnt know it at the time so . i didnt do any thing but know im not taken and he is and i want ot ask him out his friend says he still likes me but he likes his gf too and his gf is kinda mean to me and she makes him do all kinda a stuff for her:\ and its not fair for him
so should i wait for mr.perfect or should i juts steal her or should i just get over him?
The worst thing you could do in this situation is try anything when he has a girlfriend. You wouldn't like it if you had a boyfriend and another girl tryed to break you two up, would you?
Second, if he is winking at you and everything, then I highly doubt his relationship with this girl will last much longer. Wait it out, and when they break up, make your move.
But you might need to worry about him being unfaithful to you. If he's almost flirting with you right now when he has a girlfriend, how do you know he won't do the same thing to you if you two get together?
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How do you know if a guy truly respects you? or how can you tell if he just wants you for your body, or to make himself look good in front of his friends?
That can be pretty tricky, since some guys are great at acting like they care, when all they want is to get in your pants.
First of all, don't do anything sexual with him until you're sure he truly respects you (wait until you're ready, too).
Second, make sure he doesn't lie to you, calls when he says he will, and all that other stuff guys should do.
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Hey guys I would really appreciate it if you guys would help me. Ok we'll I got a new laptop and it had internet and it was fast since I have DSL. So I tried to download ares which is a music program and after I downloaded it the internet is going so slow. It probably takes now like 10 minutes to go into a website I'm not kidding! So what could be wrong with my internet.? Its not my connection becuase its fine its something to do with my laptop please help! Thanks so muchh!
It could be a virus. Do a virus check first. If there are no virus', call your Internet Service Provider or the company who made your laptop.
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I work in a restaurant that is a mixture between fast food and sit down. You place your order at a register and we bring the food to your table when you're ready. It is a kid-friendly enviornment, we even have a kids eat free night. Does this warrant parents to allow their children to misbehave, make a mess on purpose, run around screaming and yelling at the top of their lungs, etc? There are some kids who will sit in their seats throwing food on the floor and the parents, rather than disciplining, will laugh at their children and make comments such as "Oh Johnny, how adorable", etc. It's ridiculous.
My job is to take orders, make food, and keep the dining room clean. Yes, I know it's inevitable for people to make messes, but it's ridiculous for parents to condone it, and LAUGH while it's being done.
Are there any polite things I can say to these people or is it one of those grin and bear it, vent to co-workers when they're gone types of situations? It's just really bugs me to have more food on the floor than what they ate (no exaggeration either).
If you're a parent who has allowed this, why? Why do you feel it's okay? I understand that it's my job, but there are so many other "behind-the-scene" things I do, that being forced to clean up a mess that could have been easily prevented by a parent saying "susie, please don't throw that on the floor". If you're a parent who will discipline their child rather than play along - Thanks!
I also don't mind when a child accidentally spills something - kids will be kids. I'm not here to complain (although I apologize because it probably sounds as if I am). I just want to know if there's anything I can do and WHY parents allow this misbehavior?
As crappy as that may be, it happens, and there's really nothing much you can do about it.
If it's really bothering you, maybe you can ask a manager what they think you should do in those situations. Unless they allow you to say something to the child's parents (most managers won't), then you'll just have to ignore it.
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Well this isn't really personal finance but it's about money. I need to make 600 dollars or close by next Friday so I can go see my fiance before he deploys to Iraq, and I don't know how to do this. Can you guys give me some ideas?
That's going to be pretty hard to do. You get get a job or something, but I doubt you'd get anywhere near $600 dollars that soon. What about trying to get a loan?
Edit: Or what about trying to get a charge/credit card and then paying it off later?
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Okay so i have 2 friends who i love so much. Well one is a guy the other a girl. I have known this guy for a very long time and this girl i have known for quite a while. Him and her dont like eachother and they fight whenever they are together. i love both of them and people say i need to drop him as a friend, but i cant do that, i also like him more than a friend, and he knowss and we are still friends. I just dont know what to do. like none of my friends like him. they tell me to let it go because he's not worth it as a friend and i dont want to.
I guess my question is what do i do knowing that 2 of my greastest friends hate eachother, and my other friends hate him as well? i dont know anymore. I dont want to give up, but people are telling me i should.
16/f. if that helps any.
Just because your friends don't like him doesn't mean you shouldn't like him, either. You should remain friends with both of them. If they really fight as much as you say they do, then don't hang around both of them at the same time, or try to get them to work out their differences and be friends, too.
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hi,i wana get a pack of condoms and the sex clinic is just down the road but its shame of asking for a pack..do sex clinics give them out?..what can i say to get a pack?..thank you
I would assume they'd give them out. The health department here gives them out, so a sex clinic should. Just go in and ask if they have any condoms they can give you. Don't be shy, people do it all the time.
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okay first off, if you have sex, do you have to have your period during it to get pregnent?
AND...
do guys like it ALL shaved down there? if so, like how do you shave it all? i get like shave bumps.
Do you have to be on your period to get pregnant?
*If that's what you're asking, then no. Most people usually think that you can't get pregnant when you're on your period. The truth is, you can get pregnant whether you're on it or not.
Some guys like girls being shaved down there, some don't. If you really feel the need to shave down there, be really gentle and use shaving gel. Or get waxed so you won't get as many bumps.
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how do i get people to want to talk to me? and be loved (as friends) and be interesting? ahh, any help! i'm desparate! thanks
Be nice, not annoying (not saying you are annoying or anything). Be friendly and funny, if possible. Start conversations with people. Don't wait for them to talk to you.
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what's this about
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It's just a pose. There's really nothing to it. It's not like there's anything wrong with her hand or anything (that I can see, anyway). It's just the way she's bending her fingers and everything.
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Before my period comes on I get really really really bad cramps. I can't even go to school because it hurts so bad. Please tell me what I need to do because if this happens every month I'm going to be over in my school days. Thank YOU!
If midol or any other pills like that don't help, maybe you should try birth control. I've heard it helps ease cramps. You'll need to talk to your doctor to be sure, though, since he/she will have to prescribe you birth control.
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15/f
okay me and my bestfriend Kristy have been friends for about 2 and a half years. i date her ex now, Alex and i really liked him and we dated for over 3 years and then my other "friend" Casey hooked them up so they dated for about a year and a half and i still really really like him.
but he likes Casey and Kristy so i have no idea how to get over him or if i should be his friend
it doesnt help i see him everyday and flirt with him, but if you have anything that would help that'd be great!
I don't mean anything rude by this, but if you all keep passing around a guy there's a good chance it's going to cause some tension between you and your friends. And if you do date him, you're still probably going to worry about what he's thinking when he's around your friends, and what your friends are thinking, since they dated him, and he still likes him. It's going to be hard, but you'll be over him eventually.
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ok so im 16 going on 17 in almost 2moths and althow this might be hard to belive i've never really had a boyfriend and i mean i wouldnt say its cause im really icolated cause i mean i basicly hang out with alot of dudes and they usaly try to get far i mean too far with me but yeah on saterday i went on my very frist date and it was cool i mean we werent really alone it was more of me being the only girl with a bunchof guys going everywhere acrost town well yeah i mean we did kinda get time alone like when we would drive up to places so yeah every time we would go in some where we would kinda hold has to you know show we are on a date or whatever but yeah i mean long story short when he drives me home we get off and he walks me to the door i was not thinking at all cause thats the part when we hug good bye and say well i'll call you later or whatever but i mean i just walked to the door and opend it w/ like my parints and grandparints right in the living room with him just standing there and yelled good bye i didnt reolize i did that till i was in bed!!!but yeah so dont know what to do i mean im really confuesd about that cause to top it all off i dont really like him i mean i do like him and i know he likes me too and all and i know that if we go out again which we are on friday that things might get close and well i havent even had my frist kiss this sounds soo lame or whatever but yeah it gets even worse the worst part is i think i have feelings for my best friend who is a GIRL!!! i mean everything is worse what do i do how do i know if what i feel for her is just some fase cause when i thing about haveing sex with a boy their "thing" kinda discusts me is that normal??? sorry its long but im really confuesd
It's natural to have feelings for people of the same gender as you. A lot of people have them, but it doesn't mean they're bi or gay or anything. It's also normal to find a guys "thing" gross. I'm the same way. Just go on another date with that guy, and see what happens. This time, remind yourself not to just walk in and say goodbye, that is, if you want your first kiss to be with him. And don't worry to much about the feelings for your friend thing, unless you really think you might be bisexual.
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ok so the other night at a party i was sitting behind the house and it was dark out and i was with 2 of my best guy friends. well they kept going up my shorts and down my shirt but no matter how much i told them to stop the one kept touching me down there and down the back of my shorts... they kept following me and even did it secretly when ppl were around!! and then i was laying on the grown and the one guy put his thing right in my face and begged me to suck it and kept pushing it at my mouth but i locked my lips.. so im basically asking was i molested? i hate this feeling i have now
Yes, as far as I know, that's considered being molested. Also, I would almost consider it attempted rape when one of them tried to force you to perform oral sex.
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16/m
So i met this girl at summer school about a month back bc i had to take a required course and had no time in my schedule. Her name is Laura and we had to do this project on the first day and she was my partner. I found out that she had a bf for a little more than a year but we became really good friends. When we were talking one day she put her number in my phone and we started to text eachother constantly and we started talking on the phone. At school we would always sit next to eachother and hold hands but nothing more. We finally got to the point where i told her that i had feelings for her and she told me that she had feelings for me too. I really do like her and shes absolutly amazing but i have no idea what to do. I dont want to break her and her bf up but on the other hand i really want to be with her! So what should i do?
If I were you, I wouldn't try to interfere with someone else's relationship. It's just going to look bad on you. Just give her time. She knows how you feel, so if she wants to be with you, she will.
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