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BOYS VS GIRLS
ok so im 16 going on 17 in almost 2moths and althow this might be hard to belive i've never really had a boyfriend and i mean i wouldnt say its cause im really icolated cause i mean i basicly hang out with alot of dudes and they usaly try to get far i mean too far with me but yeah on saterday i went on my very frist date and it was cool i mean we werent really alone it was more of me being the only girl with a bunchof guys going everywhere acrost town well yeah i mean we did kinda get time alone like when we would drive up to places so yeah every time we would go in some where we would kinda hold has to you know show we are on a date or whatever but yeah i mean long story short when he drives me home we get off and he walks me to the door i was not thinking at all cause thats the part when we hug good bye and say well i'll call you later or whatever but i mean i just walked to the door and opend it w/ like my parints and grandparints right in the living room with him just standing there and yelled good bye i didnt reolize i did that till i was in bed!!!but yeah so dont know what to do i mean im really confuesd about that cause to top it all off i dont really like him i mean i do like him and i know he likes me too and all and i know that if we go out again which we are on friday that things might get close and well i havent even had my frist kiss this sounds soo lame or whatever but yeah it gets even worse the worst part is i think i have feelings for my best friend who is a GIRL!!! i mean everything is worse what do i do how do i know if what i feel for her is just some fase cause when i thing about haveing sex with a boy their "thing" kinda discusts me is that normal??? sorry its long but im really confuesd
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wow so am i ..lol i really dont no how to explain it but im guessing u like the gurl and the boy ..and there "thing" im sure he wont get closer to tha if you tell him not to so you dont have to see it and about your gurl well what can i say if you like her then theres no problem only its kinda up to you to decide which one you like more him or her ....there is nothing about the boy "thing" its natural and even if you do have sex ...its not bad ...and the gurl im guessing you'll get over her or you never know lol =] good luck
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It's natural to have feelings for people of the same gender as you. A lot of people have them, but it doesn't mean they're bi or gay or anything. It's also normal to find a guys "thing" gross. I'm the same way. Just go on another date with that guy, and see what happens. This time, remind yourself not to just walk in and say goodbye, that is, if you want your first kiss to be with him. And don't worry to much about the feelings for your friend thing, unless you really think you might be bisexual.
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First off, this question was really hard to read. Using some grammar rules would be really helpful to people trying to read this.
One concern of mine is that you're a little immature for your age. I don't know you, but that's just what it sounds like. Being disgusted by a boy's "thing"...yeah, you're almost 17, that's not exactly normal.
There's nothing wrong with having feelings for another girl. Sometimes straight girls get little crushes on their friends, but they never act on it. It's just a little innocent crush. But there is a possibility that you're a lesbian. And there's nothing wrong with that either.
Don't jump to conclusions. I would give myself a little more time to figure myself out if I were you. It's not weird to be 17 and not have your first kiss yet. I had my first kiss, boyfriend, AND date after I'd been 17 for a while. And I don't think there's anything wrong with me. I just wasn't on the hunt for a guy at the time.
It doesn't sound like you're READY for your first boyfriend or your first kiss. If you don't like this guy, don't lead him on. That's not fair to him if he likes you. Just tell him you don't want to date him and that you just want to hang out as friends. As for your girl friend, don't tell her you have feelings for her just yet. If the feelings are serious, you can explore that later, but from what I'm hearing it's just an issue of you growing up.
Good luck.
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