Question Posted Saturday November 24 2007, 11:32 am
How do you know if a guy truly respects you? or how can you tell if he just wants you for your body, or to make himself look good in front of his friends?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LagunaBabe answered Saturday November 24 2007, 6:27 pm: This is a toughie, because different guys act different ways, when they're in a particular situation. But I can tell you the main thing to watch is how a guy treats you - say he opens doors for you, takes you out to dinner or may even cook you dinner and sweet things like that. It would mean he respects you, but just because he doesn't do the exact things I named, doesn't mean he's a jerk - I'm sure you get my point.
If he talks to you about sexual things all the time and always wants to do sexual things, then he doesn't respect you. I'm not saying that a guy can't respect you if he wants to kiss you, etc. Because that's not true, but if that's ALL he wants to do, then I would say he doesn't respect you. [ LagunaBabe's advice column | Ask LagunaBabe A Question ]
ashleeeynicole answered Saturday November 24 2007, 6:19 pm: You can tell by the way he treats you. If he talks about sex all the time and how he wants to do things (sexual things) to you, then you know he has no respect for you and its all about sex.
But if he talks about how much you mean to him, then I think you know.
Trauma answered Saturday November 24 2007, 6:16 pm: That can be pretty tricky, since some guys are great at acting like they care, when all they want is to get in your pants.
First of all, don't do anything sexual with him until you're sure he truly respects you (wait until you're ready, too).
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