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Hey...
just got a new laptop (dell) with windows vista and im wondering how to get all my songs onto itunes. i downloaded itunes off the internet but i cant get my songs to import. i tried doing the same process that i got info on for windows, but windows vista is different and the process doesnt seem to work.

help please? thankk you! i need my music.

If you don't already have the Windows Vista upgrade for itunes, you will definitely need to download it.

http://docs.info.apple.com/article.html?artnum=305042

It looks like itunes and Vista have some compatibility problems.

http://www.windows-vista-update.com/Windows_Vista_and_Apple_Itunes.html

Read that article for a lot of detailed information.

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ok
so this guy.hes pretty much perfect for me, but theres one thing that stands in our way of being together. he doesn't want a girl friend. i mean i have hooked up with him before like make out hookup. but still and when we our making out he is like my boyfriend right?? i mean we hold hands we sleep together like in same bed no sex! and we can talk about everything. but when i ask him if he wanted to take it to the next step with me he said Rachel i really like you but im not ready for a long relationship. so should i keep trying or should i move on with my love life even though im in deep with him (but hes not really in deep with me)there is this other guy who i hold hands with and he picks me up and i sit on his lap but we haven't kissed or anything. but we have come close to it but i pull away and he respects that. he makes me happy to. just not as near as happy i am when im with the other guy:[ should i move on to the other guy or wait for him?

You're a hookup to this guy. When he says that he's not ready for a relationship, then he means it. Don't keep pushing, or you'll look desperate. And no, if he hooks up with you, that doesn't mean that he's your boyfriend unless he clearly states it. You should move on, really. If you keep trying, you're going to get hurt and it's not going to be pretty. If this guy likes you like he says, and if he realizes that he wants a relationship, he'll make the effort to do so.

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i love masterbating.
i do it everynight with the shower head in between my legs.
but are there other techniques that are AMAZING?
please share!
like other ways to stand or massage with the shower head or
with anything else around the house?

I agree with SA4T.

Please be aware that there are many younger users on this website.

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17 years old/female.
i last had sex when i was on the pill in early september, i came off the pill at the end of the packet month wich was in october.
since then i have had my period twice, but i havent had my period for two months now, i get bloated every now and then, but no sign of my period.
why is this? am i pregnant?

Using the pill and even being off of it can cause irregularity with periods. You might be, and you might not be. The only way to really make sure is to take a pregnancy test.

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We have to present a song with political meaning for my political science class and i was wondering if anyone had any ideas for a song to use. So far the only ideas i have are:

Like Toy Soldiers -- Eminem
Dear mr. president -- Pink

I can't do Bruce Springstein because thats the example we were given.

Thank you for your suggestions!

"Mosh" - Eminem [they say f*ck Bush, so try to look for a clean version; criticizes Bush]
"We As Americans" - Eminem
"Where Have All The Flowers Gone?" - Pete Seeger

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Music_and_politics

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17/f

so when me and my boyfriend mess around he just masturbates me but he hasn't "fingered" me yet but after about 30 minutes or longer my legs start shaking and I start breathing harder. is this an orgasm?? if not then what is it??

Yes, it's an orgasm. You're getting like a total shock.. it should feel good as well.

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ok so i am getting a new phone from alltel but they dont cary it any more so i have to get it from ebay. how do i do that, like does my mom put in her credit card or w/e...and if there if more than 1 bid does the auctioner like just pick the highest bid??? I just don't understand any of it

Yes, if your Mom doesn't have an eBay account already, she will most likely have to create one [for free], and enter her credit card/PayPal information so that the transactions can go through.

The auctioneer will pick the highest bid out of all of total bids.

So let's say that I'm auctioning off an... iPod, for example.

Bidder 1: $150
Bidder 2: $155
Bidder 1: $159
** AUCTION ENDED **

Bidder 1 would win the auction. If an item is really popular, most likely it will start at 99 cents and work it's way up..

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when me and my boyfriend have sex this farty sound comes when he goes in and out...even though were not farting lol. i know it is me and it is really embarasing. what is it? how do you stop it? thanks

It's totally normal. You can't really stop it.. it's just the sound of the liquid and lubrication colliding against each other. You know how when guys lick their palm and put it under their armpit and then move their arm up and down? It's practically the same thing.

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okay when i have a tampon in should i be able to feel it if i stick my finger up my vagina?like of course you can feel it but should it be like right therE?

Yes, when you stick your finger in, you can feel the texture of the fabric [of the tampon].

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i want to have a job where i get to pick people who audition for a certain job. i'm just wondering if someone can tell me some jobs that are like that. thanks!

http://www.jobprofiles.org/arttalentagent.htm

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could i take biotin for hair growth even though im not pregnant?

Yes.

I take prenatal pills for making my hair soft, shiny, and to improve growth. It works, and I've seen no side effects. [I've been using it for 5 months].

http://cgi.ebay.com/Vitamin-B-12-B12-250-mcg-250-Tablets-Spring-Valley_W0QQitemZ230214535597QQihZ013QQcategoryZ140108QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem

The packaging on the bottle is similar to what I have, but mine has a picture of a baby on it.

You can find it at Walmart/CVS/Walgreens/Rite-Aid.

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http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=3H-206107&page=1&cgname=OSBDYLOIZZZ&rfnbr=2552&pn=false
i love the way that smells.
if any of you know how it smells and you like it, what other lotions or perfumes (from any where, a price under $50)do you like?
thanks oxox

My favorite from VS is the Dream Angels Heavenly spray. It smells amazing.. I believe it's $30 for a huge clear plastic bottle thing, but that stuff lasts long and I've gotten tons of compliments when I wore it.

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is it possible to get an abortion in london when you are under 16 without a parent present...if so where? does it cost a lot of money?
thanx...really urgent

http://www.womenshealthlondon.org.uk/leaflets/pregab/pregabresources.html

In the US, we have Planned Parenthood, where we can get abortions without parental consent, under 16, condoms, stuff like that. I'm not too sure if they have PP in London, but that website gives you some places with phone numbers and addresses included. You can call them and ask if you can get an abortion if you are under 16 and without parental consent.

Best of luck.

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yeahhh, how can i get the v cut that abercrombie models have? i just think it looks sexy, and it would encourage blow jobs ^_^, or felacio~~

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070703012729AA1KIRa

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so i play football and every time i twist my knee wrong it feels like somthing pulls or tears. its like a sharp pain for a few minutes and my knees also pop whenever i bend my leg. thanks in advance

Aside from what the others have said, I had a minor incident where my knee would pop and crack every time I stretched my leg. The doctor said that I had bursitis [inflammation of the knee], and that I would have to lay off of physical activities for two weeks and take ibuprofen. Obviously, I don't play football or squat that many pounds, but it could help to maybe cut down on the physical activity that you take in [which is quite a lot].

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hi can anyone tell me the legal age at Cabo??? i mean like old enough to drink and go to bars and things like this???? thanks in advance :])

Its not 21, its 18.

http://www.loscabosguide.com/faq_1.htm#drinkingage

'What is the legal drinking age in Mexico?

The legal drinking age in Mexico is 18 years of age. Please be careful, as over indulging is quite common and generally leads to trouble. Drinking Alcohol in Public - while this is tolerated to an extent, it is illegal to drink alcoholic beverages on the street, in vehicles, at the beach and other public places. It is an offense to drive under the influence of drugs or alcohol.'

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I really need a job and I am only 14 years old but I am really dedicated.

When I was 13, I got a job as a babysitter at my local church.

I know how hard it is to find babysitting jobs, but at my church, I go every Sunday, and work during morning and night services.

You'll only make about $80 a month, but it's a start. Start checking out your local churches and ask what their minimum hiring age is.

Best of luck!

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I'm getting pretty bored with my haircolor as it is now, so I was wanting to color my hair.
But I'm wondering what you guys would think would be a nice hair color for myself?

Here's a picture, so you can decide from it:
http://i152.photobucket.com/albums/s165/xx_tickle_me_emo_xx/Picture315.jpg

Thank youu. :]

A light chestnut brown, I know it will be a little drastic from what you have now, but it will be nice for your skin tone. Do not, ever, think about dying your hair blonde. Your skin will look extremely pale and washed out. Maybe consider adding a few highlights too to emphasis your new hair color. Also ask the salon stylist what she thinks will be a good color, after all, they are professionals.

Good luck.

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i LOVE the band hollywood undead. however, they don't have a cd out yet, and i can't find any website that will let me download their songs. the only one i've been able to get is "i must be emo." i would like to get all their songs but the one i want the most is "my black dahlia." cann anyone help?

I found this really great site.

http://www.jimmyr.com/mp3_search.php

Go there, replace Nirvana with 'Hollywood Undead'. I'm sure you'd find TONS of their songs. It's basically a search engine for music.

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