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so this guy.hes pretty much perfect for me, but theres one thing that stands in our way of being together. he doesn't want a girl friend. i mean i have hooked up with him before like make out hookup. but still and when we our making out he is like my boyfriend right?? i mean we hold hands we sleep together like in same bed no sex! and we can talk about everything. but when i ask him if he wanted to take it to the next step with me he said Rachel i really like you but im not ready for a long relationship. so should i keep trying or should i move on with my love life even though im in deep with him (but hes not really in deep with me)there is this other guy who i hold hands with and he picks me up and i sit on his lap but we haven't kissed or anything. but we have come close to it but i pull away and he respects that. he makes me happy to. just not as near as happy i am when im with the other guy:[ should i move on to the other guy or wait for him?
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i dont think you should wait because if this guy wants to make out with you but not date you something is wrong with him. hes just using you to have some free fun. you are worth waaay more and deserve a guy who can give you a relationship. def. go for the 2nd guy! the one you havent kissed yet-the one who cares about you and respects you. hes the one! :] hope i helped ad if you need more advice leave me a message! :] and rate!!!
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You're a hookup to this guy. When he says that he's not ready for a relationship, then he means it. Don't keep pushing, or you'll look desperate. And no, if he hooks up with you, that doesn't mean that he's your boyfriend unless he clearly states it. You should move on, really. If you keep trying, you're going to get hurt and it's not going to be pretty. If this guy likes you like he says, and if he realizes that he wants a relationship, he'll make the effort to do so.
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