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good for meee.?
well there is this one guy i'm starting to like. just call him joe. okay so joe dated one of my x-friends, shes mad at me for something that happened a long time ago, but anywaysss... he likes me and everything and i like him too. but i heard from some people that he is "odd" and "a player" he told me that if we dated he wouldnt talk to any other girls but his best friends cause i said i still wanted to talk to him. oh yeah, hes 16 and im 14. :]
what should i dooo, give it a try.?
[ he doesnt seem like a player to me ]
kaythanks.<3
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depends....if there are like girls saying they Hooked up with him and stuff like that i would believe it but if you think not just hope that you dont get your heart broken
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It all comes down to you. You are the one who is going to be dating this kid not your friends or these "people". While I agree that it's definitely important to listen to other people you also need to put your own opinions first. Just listen and nod your head but don't go to deep into what they say. There's a saying " Don't listen to what others say" and this is one of those situations where it's best to do that.
Casual communication and hanging out are key in finding out about a person on your own terms. Pay close attention to what he likes and what he doesn't. Listen to what he says. Example: If he makes fun of a kid on TV for being overweight you could associate him with having a sense of humor or he is kind of a jerk. These will help you form your opinions.
And so what if you start dating and he's odd and a player? You took a chance, you've attempted something but it just didn't work out. Take that experience and learn from it. Life works that way. You learn from your mistakes. Oh, and it's wise to not get attached to easily. Start out slow and gradual. :)
-Shannon
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You shouldn't listen to what others have to say about this guy.
Try it out and see where it takes you. If you notice signs of infidelity/cheating, then you should immediately break it off.
You'll never know until you try.
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