Yeah, but some people are just lazy and they dont want to take the 2 seconds that it takes to rate the advice. I always rate, just because I expect the same thing from everyone else. So it's just because people are lazy =)

Just bascially tell her your really happy that you two are together, and that you really want to be with her for a long time because you mean so much to her. Sweet talk her!! Just tell her what you feel in your heart...I have a lot of experience in long distance relationships so if you need help, ask me a question. Hope I helped !!

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He has a girlfriend now, and there is nothing you can do to change that. I think you should move on, find someone else..I think going out twice && breaking up should be enough to realize that it's not going to work out. You cant stick to the same guy forever, because you'll be missing out on relationships with other guys that can really mean something. Let it go, hope I helped!

I say go up to her and talk to her about it, privatley of course. Just be like "Did I do anything to make you mad at me?" It's that simple! Maybe she has a good reason, or maybe she doesnt...you'll never know until you ask. Good luck, update me if you can!!

I am in like the same boat as you! Except I'm 15, a junior, never been kissed, etc. etc. So your still in 8th grade, but in high school your going to be approached by guys left and right! I have been asked out by guys but I dont go out with them just because I need a boyfriend, I'm waiting for the perfect guy to be my first boyfriend. So, dont "look" for a boyfriend..he'll come to you! Your only 13 and will have a lot of boyfriends so just be patient. For now, have fun && flirt like crazy=) You'll get a boyfriend I promise, and as for the jealousy thing...we all feel that way but just think about when your going to have that with someone and that it'll be there soon. Dont focus on hoping to meet someone because it'll feel like your waiting even longer. Just live life and one day, he'll come into your life. Hope I helped. =)

Okay, I'm not into football...the only things I know are "Set, Hike" and "Blue 42". Ha...Your coach might think your better on offense and thats why he put you there, but it wont hurt to ask to be put on defense. Just tell your coach you were wondering if you could play defense next year. Tell him you think you have a good enough skill, and that he should watch you during practice or whatever. As long as you ask, he'll tell you a straight up answer or watch you more during practice to see that you've got what it takes to be on defense. Good luck =)

You need to seriously ask him if he's really going to do this, and if he answers yes I think you should ask him where is he going to go?, where is he going to live?, How is he gonna eat? Stuff like that! If his home life is really bad..can you help him move in with a friend for a while? Tell him if he ignores his problems, their not going to just go away. He'll just create even more problems if he leaves. Tell him he needs to work things out, and whatever his situation may be...that your with him and want to help him 100%! If nothing you say convinces him, tell an adult. He might be mad at you, but in the end he'll understand you were being a caring girlfriend. But personally, I dont think he'll run away if you bring up the fact that he'll have no place to sleep, nothing to eat, etc. I'm sorry if I didnt help as much as you wanted me to but if you can, can you update me on what happens? I would really like to know!

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Yeah so do I. It's not because of less sleep or anything its just because I have them SO! This is what I do: I put on concealer (Jane-No show works great for me. You can get it at Target) and then I apply my powder foundation under my eyes...and I use a blush--brush to apply it on. If you dont have foundation I suggest you get some because it works great for your face && under your eyes. Ohand you might still have to re-apply after like 3 hours...thats just how life is! makeup doesnt stay on forever..sucks I know. Good luck.

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Yes it's true. I got that and all I had to do was exit the program, uninstall it, then re-install it. I hate that virus! But yup, thats all you have to do. =) it worked so it should work for you too...

It all depends on level of ability, the gym, practice times, etc etc. I would first go to a gym and ask them there. But for private lessons they could be up to $30-35 for 30 minutes or one hour. And for regular classes, where there are other students...it could be like $15-$30 for once a week. Try to find a gym in your area and ask them there. If you need help finding a gym, leave me something in my inbox telling me your city, state and surrounding citys that you would be able to drive to. =) Good luck.

My sister is the same thing as you. Shes between 5'3 and 5'4 and 107 lbs. She has a fast metabolism and everything. As long as you eat normally your weight is fine. I dont think you should gain weight just so other people stop bugging you. If your too skinny, people complain..and if your fat, people complain. No one is ever satisfied you know? Your fine the way you are, even though your skinny..who cares? At least your not like 200 lbs.

A&F = Abercrombie & Fitch (you know the clothing?) Thats all I know.

If there is even a little doubt in your mind that you should not do this(And there is, since your asking us for advice) then you shouldent do it. You'll regret it later on , trust me! Personally I think your way too young. It's all up to you, but if apart of you says no...then your not ready yet. Hope I helped! good luck.

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If you joined in 2004, their used to be an editing section where you could do whatever you want to your column. Now, that feature is only available to the paid account members. So I was lucky and I still have the editing section and dont even have to pay. So if you want that stuff, just pay 10$ in PayPal money=)

I believe that its where you are so taken away by that person, that you use the term "fall" like falling in love, liking him/her more than you've ever liked another person, etc. It really is Just a term meaning you really like that person.

Detective, Cop, Security, etc. Look under " major in Criminal Justice Administration" on google and you'll find tons of jobs listed. I love criminal justice and hope to be a detective when I'm older=) Good luck!

Just because other teenagers do it, does not mean it is okay to follow the crowd. I think you should talk to your parents before you hide anything. Ask when is it okay to have a boyfriend, you might be surprised if they dont care at a certain age or something. When you ask your parents, you'll know their rules on dating..it's your choice to break them or not. =)

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