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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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Do you think if A guy had sex with you [and used you]
must have liked you at one point?
Or thought you were pretty at least??
this didnt happen to me, i was wondering because it happend to my friend.
He might have liked her. But since he USED her, I'm guessing he didn't have any type of feelings towards her. Some guys don't care how the girl looks, they're just in to get some skin and then they're done with her. Of course that is really wrong of him, because he is hurting her. But some guys don't care about how they're making the other person feel when they find out they have been used. Some guys are jerks and they'll do anything to get laid.
clear teeth!
so my teeth are not yellow... they are clear.
it is so wierd but my teeth are clearish, especially at the end of my teeth. i know why my teeth are clear [i used to be bullimic, but i have been cured for 2 years now] what i don't know is how to fix it.
im 15, so hardcore dentistry is out of the question. is there anything i can do that i can do myself?
i rate generously.
You know what does wonders? Banking soda and salt! All you do is you get a little bottle and fill it with 1/2 banking soda and 1/2 salt. Then, shake it so everything is mixed together. After you're done brushing your teeth (with regular toothpaste), just put a little of banking soda/salt on your tooth brush and finish up with that. It works great and it REALLY does make your teeth whiter. You should see a difference.
I'm getting my hair done on Saturday. Cut and color. I'm pretty much keeping my haircut, but i want to drastically change the color. Here is a picture of me. http://myspace-972.vo.llnwd.net/01184/27/92/1184492972_l.jpg
ideas would be great. :]
I think your hair would look good in a darker color. You have really pretty blue eyes. People with light eyes and dark hair look so beautiful. And I'm sure that would look amazing on you. Either a blackish color (but not TOO black) or a dark brown color would look amazing. You don't want to go too dark, if you do it might drown out your face since you have such fair skin. If you do dye your hair a darker color, I suggest putting in a few light streaks/highlights. Maybe blonde? Or a lighter color of brown? You would want to get a little highlights going on that is lighter then your hair, just to brighten up your face, since you do have fair skin. Let's say you dyed it dark brown, a copper/blonde kind of highlights would look super. Either way, I think whichever color you choose, you'll look gorgeous.
I cum in about 10 minutes after I start masturbating, but sex can take more than 20 minutes right? Does this mean the sex I'm going to have is going to be 10 minutes? or longer?
The time that people have sex for verys from partner to partner. It just depends on how long he can go without climaxing. Some people can go from 10 mins, to 30 mins, to an hour, or 2 hours. It just depends on that person and yourself.
When you masturbate, you're obviously going to cum faster since you know what you like and you know how to do it.
16/F
So.. I havent ever had a boyfriend.
Ever, never been kissed.
I just really want a boyfriend.
I know everyone says, eventually I will find someone, and that I'm young.
Because there are a TON of people that have boyfriends and girlfriends at my age.
I've just been thinking, what is wrong with me?
I look decent, I care about people, I'm creative and artsy. Why cant I find someone?
Is it because my standards are too high?
I dont want to make them too low.
Has anyone ever felt like this?
And - I am quite happy.
I dont need a guy to make me happy,
its never healthy to need,
but to want is another thing.
So whats up?
[thoughtful answers please,
not stubborn arrogant cocky ones.]
There's nothing wrong with YOU. A lot of people think when they don't have a boyfriend, or haven't had their first kiss yet that there is something wrong with them. And sweetie, that is not the case at all. I'm sure you're a wonderful and beautiful girl, inside and out. Sometimes it just takes longer for some people to get their first boyfriend/first kiss. It has nothing to do with you. It's just how everything is planned out.
Lots of people your age haven't had their first boyfriend/first kiss yet, either. Don't think you're the only one, because you aren't. Everyone takes time for something like this to happen. Some get their first boyfriend when they're 12; others when they're 16 and some even only have their first boyfriend when they're 18-30. It just depends on the person and if they're ready or not. It doesn't really matter if you didn't have your first boyfriend, yet. You're only 16, hun. You have tons of time for boyfriends, believe me. But, I promise you in time, you'll find that special guy. You just have to give it some time. For now, enjoy being a teenage girl and having fun with your friends; you only live once.
Alrite so I'm 15/f.
Theres this boy that really likes me and I sort of like him. He has the pretiest blue eyes ever and everyone is saying that I should give him a chance.
Then thers this other boy (of cours). He's cute and does says/does sweet stuff to me IN PERSON. Only one of my best friends knows about him though. Who should I go with, boy1 or boy2?
Boy2 sounds like a total sweet heart, especially since he does/says sweet stuff to you in person. Since this other guy doesn't seem to be doing this, you should give boy2 a chance. It seems like he likes you a lot, because he shows how he is feeling towards you. So I suggest giving him a chance and seeing how it goes from there.
i want to start babysitting for money bc i need money haha but my parents said i need to take a class to learn how to do cpr and all that before i babysit. is this true?
You don't HAVE to take it, but it would probably be a good idea to take that class. A lot of parents will pay you more money if you did take that course. Also, a lot of parents would know their children were in good hands if you took this course. Because you never know what could happen if you're babysitting younger kids. They may choke on something and it'll be better to know what to do, than to not know what to do. It's also a good thing to have under your belt in every day life. I know I took a babysitting course and a CPR course; my mom made me take it when I was younger. But now, I realize that it's a great thing to know how to do, especially if anything every happens. So I suggest to just take the course, it would be good to have.
hi!well my question is.....I like this boy.He is really cute and hes nice.Every time I get out of school he always looks at my friend.And he even asked her out like 5 times.What should i do?
-Confused
There's not too much you can do about this, really. You can't make someone like you as more than friends. You can't change someones feelings about someone. If he likes your friend, you're going to have to try and move on and find someone else. It sounds like he's not going to get over her anytime soon, especially since he asked her out 5 times. Just try moving on. There's a guy out there for everyone. You'll find him, I promise.
Why wont myspace let me change my age?
I mean i change it,
but it wont show up?
Sometimes it takes awhile for it to change, just like it takes awhile for your picture to change when you change your main picture.
Hi
I masturbate on porn at least once a day and I just want to ask you if masturbation and sex feels the same.
Masturbation feels 'kind of' like sex, but not really.
How long have you & your boyfriend been together?
We've been together for 8 months, on the 26th. :]
one more question
Do you have oral sex and Sexual intercourse? or just one of them
We usually have oral sex and sexual intercourse. Sometimes we just have one or the other. But most of the times it is both.
hi
it's me again
why do you have sex?
For the orgasm and fun?
I have sex, mostly because me and my boyfriend are really open with one another and love eachother. Having sex is our way of expressing our love for one another. I know, you can do this other ways. But sex is so much different when you're in LOVE with the person. Mind you, the orgasms' and such are a plus.
i have a cell phone but the texting cost 10 cents each message and i was wonderin if anybody has a phone that has free texting and wat company u have and how much it cost u a month
There's no such thing as FREE texting. However, you are able to get unlimited texting and it only cost $5 a month. The company I am with is Alient.
how do i get two pictures into one picture slot on Myspace???
i rate generously.
You just upload your picture(s) onto http://www.tinypic.com and then take the URL that says 'Embed HTML: for MySpace, eBay, blogs.' Then, just copy and paste that into your picture caption.
How much every day should a boyfriend and girlfriend talk on the phone? We go to different schools but live 10 minutes away. We're 16.
Thank you. =)
There's no real limit on how long you guys should talk for. It just depends on if you have stuff to talk about on that day, or not. You could talk for 10 mins, or 15 hours, it doesn't really matter. But, you should be calling one another everyday, even if it's for 5 mins. You guys should try to communicate a lot, since you and him both go to different schools. My boyfriend and I live about 10 mins away from one another, too. Although we see one another mostly everyday, we talk on the phone at night for at least 3-4 hours. So you can talk to him as much as you'd like to, really.
How do you cancel some of your email accounts if you have more than one email account?
It depends on the kind of address you're signed up to. If you're on Hotmail, you can't delete your old e-mail accounts. If you don't check it for 30 days, it'll inactivate itself.
I'm not sure what category this should be in, but here goes anyway!
I was reading about that guy who killed those five Amish girls then killed himself and it said he may have planned to "truss" them. What does "truss" mean exactly?! Thanks!
~Eden
He has planned to tie them up; truss means to tie up.
what was the name of the boy band that sang that song that went like "new kids on the block had a bunch of hits , chinease food makes me sick"
I used to be obsessed with that song when it first came out. The boy band is L.F.O and the song is called 'Summer Girls.'
okay, on your pictures for myspace, how do you put like another picture or an icon or something for a caption ?
You just upload your picture(s) onto http://www.tinypic.com and then take the URL that says 'Embed HTML: for MySpace, eBay, blogs.' Then, just copy and paste that into your picture caption.