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Do you think...
Do you think if A guy had sex with you [and used you]
must have liked you at one point?
Or thought you were pretty at least??
this didnt happen to me, i was wondering because it happend to my friend.
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If you would have asked this question without the [and used you part] I may have said yes, he could have liked you at one point. However if he used you; he was just another guy who wanted a piece of ass and score. I'm sorry if this is a little to upfront of an anwer for you, but it's the truth. Could he have thought you were pretty? Sure. Who would be attracted to someone enough to have sex with them if they didn't find them pretty? But does this mean anything at all? No. It doesn't.
You're friend was used, and I don't think he liked her. Maybe as a friend, but not enough to start a relationship. Which is mainly what sex is about. Sorry.
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Both guys AND girls can have sex without liking someone. It's a sad fact, but it's true. Sometimes people are so focused on themselves they don't mind hurting other people. It's hard to know the true intentions of people sometimes and in most cases there's no way to truly tell. It's honestly best to just wait until you're married to engage in such an act as having sex. This way you know the person truly cares about you, your feelings, and what's best for you.
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he could have liked you,
and he could have just used you for sex,
it depends on how he treated you.
think of thiss.
"how did he treat me?"
did he PRESSURE you into it,
or did he give you time.
and of course he thought you were goregous,
no guy is gunna get wit an ugly girl.
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this sounds alitttle like my friend well one night my friend had no where to stay so she went to my other friends house to stay there (my mom wouldn't let her stay with me) anyways the other fridends mom wouldn't let her stay there either so she just cried because her mom would kill her if she went home at 2:00 a.m. well then my other friends brother came out (who she had a big crush on) well he was like come to this abanded trailor and i will stay with you there until morning so she went with him and when they got there he was like what are we going to do for 5 hours then he started to talk about when he lost his virginty she didn't have a story because she was still a virgin then he was like do you want to still be a virgin then she was like no not really then he was like i don't leave the girls i have sex with so then he said when you are ready to have sex just tap my shoulder 2 times and i will have sex with you well she thought about it for about 10 minutes then she finally tapped his shoulder 2 times and he took all of his clothes off and he began so they did it she said she about blacked out when he finally got it in because it hurt so bad but anyways then he said after they had already had sex lets wait until we have proper equitment a condom so then she said ok they got dressed and he said he will be right back he was going to check the time but guess what he never came back and then the next day she asked him why he never showed up and she started crying he denied the whole thing
he did like her once
she liked him once
but he used her i guess sex was more important then feelings
I hoped i helped
jessica
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as a dude i'll start this off with a quote a friend of mine once said: "pussy don't have a face" now it sounds pretty strainge at first. but the fact of the matter is take the most ugly, unattractive, fat, nasty girl. and i can guarantee you she will not be a virgin her whole life. not only that but she will have had some guy who just picked her up, slept with her, and never called her again. because the fact is for every good guy out there who's honest, true, and wouldn't touch a girl that looks like that with a 20 foot pole. there's a guy out there who just doesn't care and just wants some ass. he'll fuck her, forget her, and never think anything of it the rest of his life. now is it wrong? i'd say so, but is it how things happen.
now on that same note take the nastiest looking, fattest, smelliest man alive. and he will grow up and die a virgin. he will spend his life playing dungeons and dragons, buying videogames, and working a crappy job, and never getting any. why is there such a double standard to the situation? a gross, nasty, girl ends up with five kids. but a gross, nasty, guy ends up alone with a cat and dirty dishes. there are never any women going about who are desperate and just want a big, fat, nerdy guy's dick. i think the dividing factor is that men just don't care. men just give up on trying and will take what they can get. women try too hard i guess, or maybe they still care what they sleep with. and most men do care about who they sleep with, and who they're with. but there are many men out there who have just given up. so to answer the questions: no a man doesn't have to like you, or even think you're attractive to sleep with you. there are many men out there who just don't care and will sleep with women regardless of how they look, smell, act, or any of that. like i said some men just don't care and will sleep with anything, and anyone.
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If he liked her at some point, he wouldn't of used her in the first place. He might of thought that she was attractive but since he did that to her, he didn't have feelings towards her.
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He probably thought she was pretty, but I'm not too sure if he had feelings for her like that, because whenever guy's usually like a girl they don't care about her or her feelings, they just want to get laid. He could've possibly liked her at one point, but I highly doubt it cause whenever a guy does like a girl he does realize she has feelings and wouldn't be such a jerk towards her. I hope I helped.
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He might have liked her. But since he USED her, I'm guessing he didn't have any type of feelings towards her. Some guys don't care how the girl looks, they're just in to get some skin and then they're done with her. Of course that is really wrong of him, because he is hurting her. But some guys don't care about how they're making the other person feel when they find out they have been used. Some guys are jerks and they'll do anything to get laid.
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Hmmm, he might have liked the person. Though if he used her I tend towards that he didnt. It is more likely he though she was pretty, although that by no means is a given either. The guy could have just been really horny, and let me tell you, some guys will go to ANY lengths (i can emphasize "any" enough) to get off.
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