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I'm a vegan. I like glam rock and androgynous males. I have two cats. they're mystical beings. I'm going to college in less than a month.
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I have the hiccups. How do I get rid of them?
ever see Jim Carey's The Majestic?
yeah... that's one way.
have question.
Is it wrong to expect a B-day party?
I am not someone that is selfish or anything of the sort but I dont know. on tuesday i will be turning 14 and i won't even be getting a cake let alone gifts. now my mother is poor and we don't have alot of money so this is the reason im feeling selfish thinking this. i have a cousin that turned 8 today and the had this HUGE bash infact they have had a big bash everyyear of her life but its like im to "OLD" now and no one thinks of me. i feel like im being selfish but yet i really would like to have something to look back on. turning 14 is something big for me cause turning 14 means being "more" of an adult now. another thing that is this i big to me is because i have never had a b=day party in my life. yeah if you count my aunt, grandmother, and 1 of my 2 sisters. my mom says oh, just wait till your sweet sixteen. yeah well she told me that when i turned 12 that i could have a big party when i turn 13 or 14, well i just feel like a big baby that wants gifts. i don't even care about the gifts its just that i feel as if no one even thinks about me. i just would like to have one day to myself for me instead always being the one everyone turns to. i have had 1 person send me a b-day card. i know i sound like a big selfish baby but i guess i need some advice.
sincerely
B-day party blues
I understand completely. Last year I had two "parties". The first I spent with my two best friends, just playing Clue and eating mostaciolli. The second (about 2 days after) I spent in my basement, listening to Deja Vu by CSNY and crying for the loss of something great because of the first party. I don't really count these. That same summer my brother had two parties, one a birthday, one a graduation. And me being top of my class last year in middle school and holding down my first job went unrecognized in the ferver. I never ask for anything, yet people tend to throw how "self-centered" I am at me. Though I spend my weekends in church teaching pre-schoolers and I sacrifice my after school time to conduct a children's bell choir. I understand what one day to yourself means if you don't have it. Ask your mom if you could invite over one or two friends, maybe make a pie and watch some movies. It's small but it's a start. And it's way more fun than any big bash.
Ever since I was little I couldn't talk to people I didn't know. When I became older, I started having the same problem with girls. I had a few girlfriends early in high school, but they asked me. They weren't really my type either. They always wanted to party and do drugs. I didn't. I guess that I am the last of a dying breed. My freshman dance was 2 years ago and I didn't even think about going because I was to shy to ask anyone. I always use the excuse that I have a rejection phobia. I am the person that you see at a party that is hanging out with with his friends because no one likes talks either. I can't just go up to a girl and say, hey do you want to go and see a movie this weekend or something. I used to be fat through elementary school and 7 and 8 grade. Then I went to the gym and I went from 250lbs to 180lbs. I am 6'1 so this weight is better. Even though I look better I still don't have the courage to talk to girls. I always think that if I ask them, after they turn me down that they will go off and blab to their friends and make fun of me. I have asked a couple of girls out and they say that they like me as a friend or that they don't have time for a boyfriend and then a couple days later someone else asks them out and they say yes. This year the prom is fast approaching and I didn't ask anyone. Someone tell me how to get over this. I am 17. I don't play sports, maybe thats why. Girls want sports guys. And I don't hang out with the popular crowd because they are too fake. Help.
be yourself. Someone has to like you. There are far too many in this world not to. I, though I am a female, went through this same thing as you. Heck, I've dated and I'm still going through it. I asked 3 different people to the turnaround dance and no one would go. I try not to let it get to me, I know someone likes me for who I am. If you really want to go to prom you go. Who cares if you have a date. If you're like me and can't do things alone then go with a good friend who's female. Or someone you've liked for years but never had the courage to ask. Then there's always asking the one who, like you, is shy. She could be for you. And she probably doesn't want someone in sports. Ask the nerd, the dork, the one scoffed at. Ask the one who did Juliet freshman year using an english accent. Ask the one who no one wants. I know for a fact that she will go.
If all else fails, become a monk. You get to live for free! And you can rise up to become abbot. Also, Gregor Mendel was a monk and the father of modern genetics. It's a great career and there's no pressure to talk to females because you can't!
I'm gay, is that bad?
absolutely not. Power to ya!
yes they do let you wear bikinis in middle school at my school they do iv been going here for 2 years and all the girls wear bikinis you wouldnt know ok!
they shouldn't if it's within the US. and you can't say they all do because it's probably not the majority.Furthermore that's stupid and puts pressure on people who don't want to wear bikinis. In most states you can't wear bikinis for any swimming class. They must be one-piece suits.
ok im 128lbs im 5'6 and in 8th grade. at our school we do swimming and i want to look good in my stomach area when i wear a bikini PLEASE PLEASE HOW DO I LOSE WEIGHT IN THAT AREA IN 3 WEEKS?????????IV TRIED NOT EATING AS MUCH AND IV TRIED DIETS BUTI NEED TO LOOK GOOD IN 3 WEEKSPLEASE HELP NOW!
dude, they don't even let you wear bikinis in middle school PE, not ever in any PE for that matter. And you don't need to lose weight? That said, who really cares?
what does kinky mean
it is anything out of the norm. NOT just in sexual content. It can be used to describe patterns in history or someone's behavior. Such as Caligula. He was a kinky guy.
my son will start secondary school in a year and already he`s been told how the year 11 pupils put the year6 head down the toilet and push them around, hes panicking over this, ive explained that its all just a myth but hes worried, can anyone reassure him that this doesnt happen
there are a few simple rules of upper ed. that I got before entrance. (These apply to all countries)
1) if you need to use your map, duck into an empty classroom or else you are a marked freshman.
2) don't tell people your age.
3) you won't really see upper classmen unless you take higher classes.
4) get a peer group to hang around with.
also, do not follow the advice of someone older than you. I learned this the day I missed my bus because someone told me the west stairs would take me to my locker on the east wing.
I like to have sex with my dog. Is that normal? This is really not a joke. I'm serious.
Doggie-Lover
ummm... no... that's more of a bizarre form of torture for the dog... I suggest you tell someone you know and uh.... take that doggie to the vet...
do you have any other sugjestions for sex?
I say don't have it until marraige...
Has anybody ever met a famous person...and if so, who?
Just wondering (hehe)
Jackie Chan.
Im so scared because I just had my period a few months ago and Im 12 yrs old. thats not what im worried about though. i fingred myself and I dont know how deep i went but it wasnt that deep i dont think, but then I went to the bathroom and i saw that i was bleeding from my vagina but i don know if its from my period or not...its almost around the time when i usually have it but im scared because did anything bad happen when i fingred myself? or is it just my period?
DO NOT go by what anyone says when they tell you masturbation is wrong. I am glad you are "fingering yourself" as opposed to having sex. Sex only causes bad things while masturbation, I've heard, brings one closer to themself.
OK, yesterday, I was in my bedroom and I was getting my journal out to write in it and i couldn't find my pencil, then i saw it on the table and it was too far for me to reach it and when I was stretching my arm to get it, it moved into my hand. My window wasn't open so that rules out wind. Am I telekenisis?
could the table have been on a slant?
Chingy's hot!
Whose with me...and those of you who say no he isnt or whatever..don't bother answering this question because why would you waste your time???
Mwah chingy! lol
who is Chingy?
My ex fiencee, Tim, left me two days before my birthday. He left me at the worst time of my life. Since then we haven't talked much...and now he suddenly shows up and tries to apologize. I am so angry with him, but I still love him very very much. I want to hate him...I really do...but I can't. When he left, I started getting my life back into order, although it'd fall apart right after. I have a boyfriend now, but he means next to nothing to me. I don't want to let Tim hurt me again. He'd been my best friend for three years before we started a relationship.
*Alone by nature*
Abby
DO NOT under ANY circumstances get back together with Tim. It sounds like you know what he did was wrong, so I don't have to say that. If you get back together it'll be only a string of breaking-up and getting-back-together. End the cycle BEFORE it starts.
i went to camp with this guy and i slowely fell in love with him. i liked him for three years and now we rarely talk anymore. im not sure if i like him in a crush way, i like him more as a brother. i miss us talking. i dont want to go up to him and start randomly talking, i'd look like an idiot.what should i do???
if you miss talking to him then by all means talk to him.
I'm not incredibly popular at school but I do have a best friend who I've known all my life even though she just moved to my school. Now she's making new friends and she even has a boyfriend. I was supposed to go to a pizza place with her and some of the kids in my class but my mom wanted me to come over to her house for the weekend so I didn't go with them. Now I'm worried that since she's made so many new friends, she'll just drop me. Do you think that'll happen?,
CMS
not if she's a good friend. and if she does you know she isn't a good friend and you can become a better person because of it. Think of this situation as a learning experience. You are a soldier, you can fight your way up from the bottom.
ok i want truth ive writen a few poems and i want your feedback please
A Dad's Bad Day!!!
It was late saturday night,
when you turned on the light,
you sat by my bed,
and all I felt was dread,
I knew something had happened,
but wut I did not know what,
then you started to speak,
and then I knew,
I didnt want to believe I thought you lied,
but then you showed me where she layed,
on the ground in her home,
to what her dad had done,
She was so cold with pure love in her eyes,
I should of done more,
but she said "No its alright he didnt do it" as she stared at the sky,
this wasnt the first time she had marks to bare,
But she would say "Ooh that was Bear",
but how could a dog brusie her that bad,
The thought of this accident it seemed so sad,
As we stand above her body,
We now start looking for Mr. Nobody,
We found out he skipped town,
Now where do we look now?,
Its such a shame,
for a girl to pay,
for what her dad did because he had a bad day.
it seems chain-lettery to me... Also, we, the readers, don't have enough of the story. It's like watching a movie without the sound and half the screen. I have found in my poems it's best to include the most important points without rhyming and not using rhymes with raw emotion. The rhymes are all a little off and it's missing some key beats in places that could be more dramatic with emphasis and strict rythym. You either put in rythym of you don't. There is no half-creativity half-linear anything to me. You either do or don't. If you're going to dance, by all means dance, don't just tap your fingers around.
I'm not very popular at school and kids pick on me. I don't really know why they do it, it's been that way since 1st grade. I'm in 8th grade now and I'm sick of it. I don't know what I did to deserve this. They hurt me emotionally and physically, should I stand up to them?
Respond please, I'm desperate,
Hurt and confused
DO NOT RESORT TO VIOLENCE! switch schools. become a new person. give people reason to like you.
i am really good friends with this guy. i never really thought about it, but he comes up to me one day and tells me that he likes me. now, dont get me wrong, but hes a really nice guy and i will feel really bad about saying no when he asks me out. worst of all, my neighbors are his aunt, uncle, and cousins. im basically in a loose-loose situation. what do i do?
say no. it's better not to be in a relationship with someone you don't like then be in one with someone you don't like. no matter how sweet or nice he is.