about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

My girl friend keeps lieing to me about the same thing!Im goin to kill mi self i hate my lyfe i think im gonne break up wit her

Dont say you will kill yourself!! Every1 hates their life at some point.. well are you sure she is lieng. If you are and if its the same thing then maybe you should. Thats just rude of her to lie to you about it all the time! X0`

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k i kan bench alot an di need mor weights so shoo di jus ask my parents or beg liek a muder fuker and jus so u no imbuff as fuk

Uhm.. I think that its the same thing. Ask them first and if they say no beg like a muder fuker! Ur buff huh? Impressive! Haha Edvin! Ur a dork!

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Me n my ex boyfriend went out for like ever and then he dumped me for s0mething really gay, today he asked me back out but he always acts liek he likes me but then sometimes he acts like he likes my one friend.........i said no did i make the wright chose? but i do like him and it sux!

Sometimes when a guy breaks up with you.. later on they tend to change because they really like the girl. He didnt know back then what he was doing and he thought he could get you when ever he wanted and he sure thought wrong. Who ever this guy is.. well I for sure know that he likes you so much!! I really dont think you realize how much he knows that he messed up before and he really wants to try to be a better boyfriend. I know that he doesnt like your friend because he just really likes you. I know that you dont want to go out with him because of the past but this time I acually think that it would be different. I really do think you should give him.. this LAST chance and if it doesnt work out (which I think it will) then just move on! X0`

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hey everyone,
i'm getting a new puppy this year. she is going to be a schnoodle (miniature schnauzer + toy poodle) and i am trying to think of names for her. i'm pretty sure that it will be Chloe, Elle, or Ella, i'm just not sure which to choose...help! also if u have any suggestions for other names tell me!

Out of the 3 names .. I like Elle the best! X0`

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how old is eminem and wats ur favorite song by him?

Dont know and Superman!

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whats the type of boyfriend you would want and what kind of guys are you interested in? what i mean is like punk skater prep or w/e?

Uhm.. someone who wont act different around me when his friends are there, respect, not too shy. I like preppy guys but some skaters are okay. I guess.. X0`

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Culinary Question =D

I had this salt at a restaurant, and it wasn't sea salt and it wasn't regular table salt. The salt particles were kind of big for salt, and some were in tiny thin chunks. Is there a name for this salt - it has an excellent taste and I'd like to track it down.

I know what you are talking about. It looks like hail? Im not really sure whats it called but if I find out I'll let you know! X0`

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I need a cute bikini this summer. Does anyone know websiters or certain brands that have nice bikinis for a low price? (around 40 dollars) I really like the bathing suits that are hooked in the middle of your chest by a heart. No floral designs though. Thanks a bunch! I'll rate 5's!

Hollister has really cute ones and its around 40! Jc Penny also has some adorable ones and American Eagle. X0`

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this guy has liked me for practically two years now, but hes so shy and he never did anything except tell me he liked me. well now we've got this big dance coming up and i think hes gonna ask me. the only thing is that he is kinda weird and listens to all those really sick songs by sublime..no offense to the fans out there..but he is still really cute and mysterious..and really nice..do you think i should give him a chance? i rate...

Defenetly give him a chance!! He seems really nice and stuff so why not! Just because he listens to different music doesnt mean anything exept he has different taste. Most guys who dont date are shy so if he asks you.. make him feel more comftrable! Have fun at the dance! X0`

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yesterday i was working on a project for chool outside adn a bug bit/stung teh bottom of my foot. i thought it was just a bee, but when i saw it, it looked like a big yellow fly. i know its not a horsefly. WHAT IS IT?!?! im allergic to bees, so i wasnt worried when it got swollen, but now its red and swollena dn i cant walk on it. what should i do. i already took some benadryl(sp?) thanks in advance!

It was probablly a wasp and you need to go to the doctor for that because if you are allergic to them you could end up going to the hospital. Make sure you keep ice on your foot and the swelling will go down a little. X0`

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Okay, so there's this guy that's been my really good friend for a long time. Last October, I got a crush on him. Then in December, he had a girlfriend, but he told me that he'd liked me since October too, and a week later, he broke up with his girlfriend. But he didn't ask me out until a month later, because he 'didn't want people to think he liked me when he liked his other girlfriend'. So we were 'sort of' going out for about a month, but we never actually went on a date. He asked me out to a carnival, but then he ditched me. Then...worst of all...the school dance. He danced with me once, and then went back to his ex girlfriend and was dancing with HER for the rest of the time. I talked to him and he told me he didn't like me anymore, but we decided to stay friends anyways.
Now, about 3 months later...I think I still like him, but I'm not sure. We're still very good friends. I want him to be happy with whatever girl he goes out with, but I'm jealous at the same time. My heart jumps when I had to kiss him on the cheek for this school performance..and when I fell asleep on his shoulder in the movie theater (with other friends there)...and I feel crap when I see the girl he likes sleeping on his other shoulder, or sitting super close to him. What should I do? How do I get over him? Please help!

Aw! That must of sucked. I think that pretty much every girl has been in that situation and its really not that easy just to forget or get over a guy. It just takes time tho. What he did was really rude and stupid! He seems a little immature! I really think that you shouldnt even worry about this guy. You can do sooo much better and you dont need to put up with him! I know how it feels to just look back at everyhing you both went through before but you will find yourself another boyfriend who will treat you with respect and better then this guy!! Try your best to get over him. Make yourself belive that you have no feelings for him other then friends. Go out and meet new guys! It will keep your mind off of him.. do the things you love to do. Sometimes it will be okay if you just cry about it or something there is nothing wrong with that and every girl does. You just really liked this guy tho so it still might hurt you to see him with other girls! X0`

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i have liked this guy for a while(abouthalf of the school year) and we went out once already.but only for a couple of weeks because someone told me that he was cheating on me with another girl who i didnt know. and so i broke up with him. and then about a week later i called him and apologized and asked him why he didnt tell me that he didnt really cheat on me. and he said he thought it wouldnt matter and i told him it would have. and then we became friends again. and he asked my friend what i would say if he asked me back out.and she told him i would say yes. and so i figures he would ask me nack out again. but he didnt and he started going out with my friend. which made me mad. so then i wanted to tell him i like him but i just couldnt get the courage. so i had my friend do it but when she told him he didnt react like i thought he would but my friend told me that it was probly because his g/f was there but i dont know. and then i was really sad one day for a weird reason and i was standing right in front of the lunch doors and a bunch of my friends came up to me to try to cheer me up. then he walked up to me and pulled me towards him and gave me a hug and asked me what was wrong and i told him nothing and he said he aint letting go until i tell him. and he kept pressuing me to tell him and when i didnt he got mad kinda. do you think that he still likes me and if so should i tell him myself that i like him and if so should i tell him by going to the movies and saying it or at school. cuz i dont want to say it in front of alot of people.

He might still like you or just really care about you. You need to call him or meet somewhere and just tell him how you really feel about him. He probablly thought you got over him so he went out with your friend. It seems like he still likes you so just ask him about it! He cares about you and he doesnt want to see you hurt or anything. If you tell him you still like him he might say it back. He is probablly just really confused and he needs some time to think it all through. X0`

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hey all how will i know if my finger is broken likes what kind of signs should i chceck for.

It would be swollen. It will be a purplish blue color and it would hurt and hard to bend. X0`

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14/f-Okay, well there is this guy I like, and this other guy,Joe, that likes me. Both guys are kind of friends and the one I like knows I like him but I don't know why he won't go out with me. My friends say he likes me, but I don't think he does. Well, the real thing is that I don't want to hurt Joe's feelings if I do end up going out with this guy. I am really confused and need mucho help. thanks-

Well.. eather way you are going to end up hurting Joe's feelings. The guy you like might like you back and Im not sure why he wont go out with you eather. He probablly will just dont rush into things. Why dont you like this other guy? If you gave him a chance then you might end up liking him. Im not saying you should go out with him but still. Just wait and see what happens. There is nothing you can do tho.. you will hurt his feelings even tho you wont mean to. Its seriously not your fault! X0`

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ok my friend wants to know and i just have no idea how to answer...is it normal for a girl to get really turned on by doing legslifts? it hurts but feels good. is that an orgasm?

HAHA! Yea if she likes it its normal!

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OK my friend is really pissed at me. In homeroom, I was sitting in her seat talking to my neighbor about his dog and she got really mad at me. Then i took her tape out of her bag without asking and she got mad at but i didn't know. The next couple days I did the same thing and then on Friday she totally lost it. Now she won't talk to me and says I was ignoring her feelings. I tried to apologizes and I wrote her many letters but she ripped them up. Now she is really pissed that I wo't stop saying sorry. But I really wan't to be her friend. She is better than all my other friends. I would give anything to fix our friendship. All my other frineds say i should talk to her from my heart but I don't know what to say. I think she is just trying to prove how long she can hold a grudge. Also, we have to do a project together and that will be hard if we can't get along. Please help!

Your friend is being kind of ignorant lately. Shes probablly PMS`ing tho! She got mad at you for the stupedest little things ever! You should stop saying you are sorry because you seriously didnt do anything wrong!! You need to talk to her weather she likes it or not. Tell her that its really childish if shes getting mad at you for that stuff and she needs to grow up! She wants attention tho! I know when things like this happen and thats what shes doing. Just tell her that you dont want to argue with her over stupid things and she needs to learn how to control her anger. She should of told you nicely not to look through her purse but just say sorry for not asking her. Hope I helped!! Anything else just leave it in my inbox!! X0`

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hey All! I am turning 15 in one week, yes in one week! And I haven't a clue as to what i want! I am leaving soon to go to my g-maws for mothers day, and everyone will want to know what i want! lol, and i dont know what to say! What are some good movies? ect? i always know stuff, but now like now, when i need to know to type it up. I have on my list:
etnies, converse, raise your voice(movie) a cinderella story (movie), ANd some stores i like.

any other ideaS? or anything that you liked that you got for your birthday!

I am a girl!!!

Thanks so Much in advance!

and if it means anything, I rate, and leave feedback!

thanks-
Kelsa ;)

Hm.. Cell phone ( if you dont already have one ) money, clothes, shoes, The Notebook (movie) iPOD, MP3 player uhm..

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Yesterday, I was skipping inside of my house and I passed the restrooms and my dad was in there peeing. He forgot to close the doors! He saw me and stopped peeing and i guess was kinda nervous. I didn't see anything because I was skipping and my face was turned the other way. It's kinda weird between us now. What can i do?

You'll get over it. Just talk to him like nothing happened!

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This is SO random..but how much champagne does it take a small 13 year old female to get drunk? Like number of glasses

Probablly 1-2 glasses! Dont get drunk tho! Its bad! Hehe!!!

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hey all i hurt my finger it is all black and blue and it hurts to bend it up and down and side to side and where it's black and blue there is this little bump it just hurts what should i do should i go to the hospital or the doctor.
what did i do to it break it or sprin

You probablly just broke your finger. Go to the doctor first.

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