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Q: Okay so I am sixteen years old and my boobs are still really small! all my friends have big boobs and i dont and its really frustrating! im kind of curvy just without boobs! does anybody know anyways to make my boobs grow? or look bigger?
HELP!

Unless your about to get breast implants then no. There is no way. The only thing that will make them look a little bigger is a padded or a water bra. Both sold at walmart.
But hey what can i say? most girls got them and most girls dont.

Q: My boyfriend family is always nagging him, and his sister always gets her way, no matter what. I feel really bad for him but i don't know what to do or say to make him feel better. and sometimes when he gets mad, he really scares me, he might start punching his truck or just really getting mad. And lately its just annoying me really bad, because not only the fact that i have no idea how to calm him down, but he gets mad at the smallest stupidest things that i just don't under stand why he can't ingore. So can anyone help me by telling me ways to calm him down?

Give him space when he gets mad. He doesnt need another person putting things in his head. That just frustrates him more. Also Just listen if he is telling you about it. He just needs to get it off his mind. He doesnt need a response.

Q: Okay I just found out my ex is in Cali. going to the army and what not.It finially kind of hit me just now, that he could, in fact go to Iraj and die.And my friend asked me what would I do if he went to Iraj and die.And I didn't know what to say.It almost made me cry.Even if he put me through hell.And I tried calling him a few days ago , But he didn't answer.Basically, because I was curious how he was doing and what he was planning on doing in the future because I haven't talked to him in months.I don't want anything to do with him as in try to tell him I love him and miss him and what not.I have a boyfriend at the moment anyways.It's hard not to think about him and if he ever thinks about me.He does have a girlfriend that he left me for,But whatever.Back to what I was sayingg.He just called me just now and told me to be ready to pick up the phone tomorrow.And said he had to go because he had to go back to drills or something like that.And said bye.So I'm wondering tomorrow.. what I should say and what I shouldn't.I mean like.. would I miss you and love you be inappropiate considering I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend.I don't know, I'm confused.I just don't want to ruin anything with my current boyfriend,But I know deep down I miss him and I don't want to show it.I'm just trying to move on that's all.What do you think I should do?

Best thing for you to do is to tell him you still care for him as a friend, and you wish him the best and to keep you updated.
Yea it would be pretty wrong of you to tell this guy you loved him and you have a boyfriend. Think about it like this. If your current boyfriend told his ec he loved her and you found out about it how would you feel?

Q: Is it true that wearing sports bras most of the time makes your boobs saggy after awhile? Because I wear sports bras whenever I can because I think they're more comfortable. Thanks for answering!

Your right they are more comfortable but they dont support you like a real bra does. So this is most likely true.
Try a bra with padded wire.
You know the bras that has a little of cotton around the wires. And cotton bras are the most comfortable.. You can also try them on in the store to see which one is more comfortable to you.

Q: earlier today some friends, my boyfriend, and i met up at someones house to hang out, and when we left, me and my boyfriend walked down the street because we live pretty close. on the way he had his arm around me and he was like stroking my shoulder and the sleeve of my shirt fell down like 2 inches, i hardly even noticed. he apologized and i could tell he felt like it was a big deal and felt awkward but it was nothing. on the phone just now he said it was awkward and i told him it was fine no big deal and he doesnt have to worry about it, but i could tell he still was uncomfortable. hes always been kind of shy but i mean we hug and hold hands and such all the time so hes not THAT shy. does anyone know what he means in thinking its awkward?

You just said it. Hes shy. He was prepared for that. He didnt want you to think that he did it on purpose, or he was trying to make a move.
Just dont worry about it anymore. Because if you keep bringing it up he will feel worse about it.

Q: 19 f

ive been going out with my boyfriend for six months now. and im just curious about something. is it a bad sign if the guy doesnt want to have sex as much like he still holds me and kisses me says i love and everything but for some reason i find myself always having to initate it and usually when i ask it feels like im asking for to much. ive asked if he thinks im still attractive and hes like yeah your beautiful. i dont know what to do. how can i get him more in the mood. maybe im just a horny girl haha. any advice would be appreciated thanks!

Your right. Your probably just an overly horny girl.
He could have lost interest because you want it so much. He also might think that thats all you want him for. You should apprecaite this though. Because some men are obessed.
Have you confronted him about this? You should bring it up. He could have a reason and he just dont know how to tell you.

Q: Hi everyone, i have the verizon chocolate phone, and i was wondering if anyone knew how to work bluetooth on it, like i can connect and find other people but after that like how can i send and receieve things? or is it not possible?!
thanks!

If its not letting you send and receive stuff that means your phone is most likely not compatible with theirs.
Search the phone on the internet and see what it says.

Q: Okay, my parents work 9-5 pretty much every day, me and my to brothers go to school but were getting out on summer vacation. I have a part-time job for the summer and my brothers are going away for the summer...My dog is home all the time by her self and we can't put her on her leash because all she does is bark, my mom has been hounding my for a year pretty much the entire time that we've had her. she always says that she's going to get rid of her but this time she is serious she had people over to look at the dog and everything, she gave me the a choice whether to get rid over her or not. I know it would be the best thing to get rid of her but I honestly don't think I can. I have no idea what i should do please help

Sorry
Im with everyone else on this one.
Looks like you are going to have to give her up.
You love her, but you cant give her the attention she needs, but there is someone out there who can.

Q: you know when a guy says you smell like fish? yeah, well I know it's because your vagina, but how do you get rid of that smell& what starts it?

It could be a yeast infection. It could be an std. It could be a hormonal imbalance. Im going to go with hormonal imbalance on this one. So what you need to do is douche. A hormonal imbalance is cause when the ph levels in your body rise. douching brings these levels back to normal. You can douche during your period, after, anytime you feel like you smell fishy. Just dont over do it. Its not an everday/every week/every other day thing. It can dry the mucus in your vagina up causing you to be dry and uncomfortable.

Q: hello

i'm 14/f. I am really mad now because whenever i talk to my mom about boys, she says i can't date for another 3 more years, (so that's when i would be 17) but i REALLY don't want to wait that long. All of my friends already have boyfriends and I really don't want to wait until 17 when i get my first kiss. that would be so akward. I've already had my 1st boyfriend (only lasted for a week) and I really liked having a guy around me saying that he cares about me and having someone hold hands with me... etc.

is there anyway i can change my mom's mind? How am i supposed to act if a guy asks me out and my mom doesn't approve? aghh i really need help

I cant believe im telling you this, but Dont tell her. As far as she knows that is just your friend. Someone your hanging out with you know?
The only reason your mom wants you to wait is because its a lot of girls your age with babies, struggling to support themselves and the kid. Cant get a job because they aint old enough.
You got to show your mom that she can trust you around boys first before she even thinks about letting you date one. She is just scared for you. And Im not taking her side, I just ander stand. When my child turns 14, I will be 32. You do the math. I wish i woulda listened to my mom.

Q: Ok so me and this guy were together for about 2 months but it was a kinda weird open relationship. i loved him alot...and he said he felt the same.We had never met and we had this function to go to and then when we meet it's for about 1 minute and I'm not really good with new people (shy) and i like him, to make matters seem worst. Well that week we didn't talk and now we're not together or anything. We're barely friends and it's puzzling cause i really still like him.

what should i do, if anything? should i ask him why he 'broke' up with me? how do i become friends again?

Move on. Even if he is shy like you, he would at least still call. Dont waste your time lingering on him. The best thing to do is turn the page.
As far as being his friend, all thats gona do is just attach you to him even more. BUT if you feel the need to be his friend give him a call. Tell him you were just calling to check on him cuz you havent heard from him in a while. Ask him how he's doing, and when he tells you whatever he has to say, ask him can he call you back in a couple of hours. If he calls back then thats a good sign, but if he doesnt dont stress over it.

Q: 14/f

I've pretty much had it with overnight camps, but this summer I'm going to go back to one that i've never been to before because i'll just be at home and completely bored the whole time if I don't. And, plus, i'm older now, so I think i can handle it better than i used to.

I'd appreciate any tips on how to prevent homesickness and to be able to talk to people (i can be really introverted) and have fun. like how to get the most out of this. it's two weeks.

I've heard some really bad things about the camp directors there, and now i'm worried about that.

Also could someone reccomend a musical theater camp that starts and ends in the month of august? It doesn't matter what state it's in, and i'd prefer for it to be at a university. (other than Long Lake and Stagedoor Manor, please)

thanks.

Bring something from home that makes you feel comfortable.
I wish I went to camp when I was younger!!
Here is something to think about, Go up to someone you have never seen before and just say hey, how are you my name is____. Thats an instant convo starter. They will automatically ask you questions just because you said hi. If they dont seem interested move on. Chances are, you might not see these people again after two weeks so dont worry about them.
And the camp directors, kill them with kindness. You show them attitude, they will show you some. So just botlle it up and smile.

Q: Hi to every body.I am from Kuwait
really i m in trouble thats y now a days i m searching internet for my solution. Problem is that i have hairs on my whole pennis. i started using Hair removal cream but after 2 or 3 days my hairs get hard and after two months i will be a married person. if i will shave my whole pennis then it may cause injury in my wife's vagina. Plz can any body help me that how can i get rid of those hairs completely.

Hair removal cream isnt supposed to be used down there!!
If they are really soft hairs dont worry about that. But if it really bothers u, go to a regular md, and he can tell you what you need to do.
more info:
Hairs on the penis are normal and quite common. They can be painful during intercourse or masturbation. They will not harm your partner during intercourse. If you are concerned about these hairs and wish to remove them
Removing hair from your penis may be painful. You can attempt to remove them through plucking them with tweezers. I suggest that you make sure the area is warm and that your skin and hair are soft (to accomplish this, take a long soaking hot bath and try tweezing right after). However, you will have to tweeze regularly if you want to maintain a hair-free penis.

Q: Has anyone ever been truely used by a boy/girl? I feel like my boyfriend is using me and i want to know what are some signs of being used/what should i look for?..this is so upseting =[..id die for this boy and i dont deserve being treated like thiss..

Thats a sign. If you feel it then it is most likely true.
My baby's father used me for sex. And when he got me pregnant...yea you pretty much can figure that out.
More signs are if he constantly asks you for certain things. Money, Sex, etc. If your a "nice girl" and have a hard time saying no to him them he probably is using you. If he treats you bad, leave his ass. All women deserve better.

Q: I have a friend who recently travelled to India, and brought me back some little jars of coconut oil.. she says it is common to usecan in your hair as a conditioner. Should I use it after shampooing on wet hair, then rinse out? Or is there another method?

Alot of people put it in after washing and towel drying.
I prefer not to use it.

Q: So my best friends Mandy and Pheobea are mad at me because I have a friend named larissa that used to be my best friend but they hate her and I used to be mad at her after she told me she didnt want to be my best friend any more, and Mandy and Pheobea still didn't like her and I had a sleep over with Larissa and Mandy and Pheobea got mad at me because i did and they also got mad at me because they think I said bad things about them to Larissa but I didnt and they didnt believe me. Now they absolutedly hate me. What should I do?

They are being childish.
These girls arent you real friends if they cant take your word for what you say.
Do these two girls even have a reason not to like her?

You need to let them know that you are going to have more friends than just them, and if they cant handle it let them go.

Q: How long does it take kittens to open their eyes?

got this off of kittencare.com--

They usually open when the kittens are between 8-14 days old. The eyes will stay blue for 2 more weeks. If you notice any swelling/bulging under the eyelids, you should open them gently with a cotton ball dampened with warm water (DO NOT use Q-tips). If you see pus dripping from the eyes, it is probably an infection and the kittens should see a vet. If the eyes remain shut after 14 days, your vet should look at them.

Other things to look for:
At 2 weeks of age, the kittens should be alert and be making attempts to stand up.
At 3 weeks, they try to climb outside of their box or pen.
At 4 weeks, all of the kittens should be walking, running & playing.

Q: Hey i am a 13 year old girl and i have a boyfriend and he's like reeeeeeeeealy sweet and he loves me but.... When ever im sad he like just gives me this look as if i have done somthing to affend him. Then he just walk's off and dosen't do anything about it. so what should i do???? Can someone help me please im crying:'(

Love,
sad and no one cares!!!

Do you try to talk to him about it or just sit there and hope he asks?

If your just sitting there waiting for him to ask you what is wrong this is the problem. You are bringing him down, and he probably think that he has done something.

You gotta remember, he cant solvee all your problems.

Q: we'll call my friend "janice". well janice and i do alot of stuff togehter, alone with other people. whenever i do something without janice, i try not to make her feel bad and i don't try to make her feel left out. yet, whenever i can't go to something, it has to be the FUNNEST NIGHT OF THE YEAR. like, out of all the times we hang out, the ONE i can't go to is the BEST. it's always like that. she tries to make me feel bad and left out. and she tries to make me feel like because of ONE night, shes ohsoclose with those people now and im on the outside. my question is, why does she do this? its so stupid! and how can i not let it bother me? oh yeah i caaant talk to her about it so dont say that. ok thankss.

She does it because she knows it bothers you. The next time she does it, make it seem like your so interested in what she has to say. And make it look like your happy for her. As long as you let it get under your skin and she knows it she is going to continue.

Q: I have a boyfriend and I have been with him for over a year. But The other night i was at a friends house and we were watching a porno and we ended up going down on each other. Does this make me bisexual because I did it? Or enjoyed it? I'm not attracted to girls but it just happened. 16/f/.

Im not going to say this makes you bisexual. Lets just say bicurios. You were comfortable because it was a good friend and niether of you had a problem with it, rite?

So ask yourself this question, If it was a random girl that you know but dont know well would you have done it?

I just think you wanted to try something new. You were in the moment.

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Its A brand new year!! And I havent really been giving advice lately so now IM BACK!! If you have something to ask dont hesitate to ask. DONT BE SHY!! I've been there! Or I know someone who has!

I am a black albino female whose been through alot!!! I have a lot advice to give. Im a very knowledgeable person, and i look at things from many different views. Im very blunt, so if you dont want to hear it straight dont ask me!! any thing else you wanna know get at me!

LET ME REINTRODUCE MYSELF REAL FAST, REAL QUICK!
iM A BLUNT PERSON, IF YOU ASK A GROWN UP QUESTION, IMA GIVE A GROWN UP ANSWER. RECENTLY A GIRL ASKED HOW TO GIVE A BLOWJOB AND I WAS VERY BLUNT AND UPFRONT WITH HER. I GOT SHUNNED FOR MY ACTIONS SO, BASICALLY. IM GOING TO TRY TO AVOID ANSWERING QUESTIONS LIKE THIS. BECAUSE ALL THOUGH THESE KIDS ASKING THESE QUESTIONS ARE YOUNG, THEY OBVIOUSLY BEEN DOING SOMETHING THEY AINT GOT NO BUSINESS DOING BECAUSE THE WOULDNT BE ASKING THOSE TYPES OF QUESTIONS.