Has anyone ever been truely used by a boy/girl? I feel like my boyfriend is using me and i want to know what are some signs of being used/what should i look for?..this is so upseting =[..id die for this boy and i dont deserve being treated like thiss..
for sex
-is constantly asking for sexual favors
-touches you inappropriately without your consent
-pretends to be nice and loving until you give in
for money
-steals from you
-"borrows" money and never pays you back
-makes you pay for everything
for just a human play toy
-talks disrespectfully to you
-is emotionally degrading
-ignores you frequently
-physically hurts you
I would talk to your boyfriend about how you're feeling towards his actions or attitudes. If he really loves you as much as you love him, maybe he'll change. If he denies it or just ignores you and continues, I hate to say it, but you need to leave him. What starts as something that you might think is a one time thing could escalate into something that you find you have absolutely no control over. I'm sorry you have to deal with this, it's hard as hell, I know it. Just keep your chin up and everything will work out in the end.
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khadiya answered Tuesday June 19 2007, 4:22 am: Thats a sign. If you feel it then it is most likely true.
My baby's father used me for sex. And when he got me pregnant...yea you pretty much can figure that out.
More signs are if he constantly asks you for certain things. Money, Sex, etc. If your a "nice girl" and have a hard time saying no to him them he probably is using you. If he treats you bad, leave his ass. All women deserve better. [ khadiya's advice column | Ask khadiya A Question ]
Cmilner1607 answered Tuesday June 19 2007, 4:20 am: Some signs...
- he makes you do things you don't want to.
- he disrespects you.
- he does WHATEVER he wants.
- he hurts you in any way.
- he doesn't try to workwith you on anything. it's all about him.
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