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After the breakup
Ok so me and this guy were together for about 2 months but it was a kinda weird open relationship. i loved him alot...and he said he felt the same.We had never met and we had this function to go to and then when we meet it's for about 1 minute and I'm not really good with new people (shy) and i like him, to make matters seem worst. Well that week we didn't talk and now we're not together or anything. We're barely friends and it's puzzling cause i really still like him.
what should i do, if anything? should i ask him why he 'broke' up with me? how do i become friends again?
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just tell him youd like to become friends but nothing more yet.
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I wouldn't do anything. You can talk to him if you see him on, but if he has been missing since your brief meeting you probably won't hear from him again. My guess is he is a superficial boy who didn't like what he saw.
If you want to ask him about it go ahead. I really don't think you will hear from him again. Its not your fault. Young guys are just that way sometimes.
If you had an "open relationship" that is just code for...He has other girls hanging on the internet too. You may have felt you were going with him, but
you weren't. Sorry. :)
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Move on. Even if he is shy like you, he would at least still call. Dont waste your time lingering on him. The best thing to do is turn the page.
As far as being his friend, all thats gona do is just attach you to him even more. BUT if you feel the need to be his friend give him a call. Tell him you were just calling to check on him cuz you havent heard from him in a while. Ask him how he's doing, and when he tells you whatever he has to say, ask him can he call you back in a couple of hours. If he calls back then thats a good sign, but if he doesnt dont stress over it.
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He might not be sure too. Maybe he's scared like you. Ask him. Or, he might not like you anymore, he might have met someone new. which is rough, but you will too. You could stay friends ifso though.
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