My boyfriend family is always nagging him, and his sister always gets her way, no matter what. I feel really bad for him but i don't know what to do or say to make him feel better. and sometimes when he gets mad, he really scares me, he might start punching his truck or just really getting mad. And lately its just annoying me really bad, because not only the fact that i have no idea how to calm him down, but he gets mad at the smallest stupidest things that i just don't under stand why he can't ingore. So can anyone help me by telling me ways to calm him down?
Additional info, added Tuesday June 26 2007, 1:37 am: and also he always ask me to help him, and talk to him and give him advice. He says i help so much more when i am around. But i feel like i always say the same thing. also maybe tell me things to help him channel his anger.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? boylover answered Monday August 13 2007, 7:40 pm: i understand being scared when someone gets mad. i lived in a house like that, i can really only say one thing if he doesnt get help then it could get even worse, if he is hitting his truck when he gets mad who knows the next thing could be your face. listening to him helps you dont always have to tell him something just letting him no your there when he needs you sometimes is all it takes.
if i were you i wouldnt be with him much longer if this keeps happening theres no point in being with someone who gets mad about everthing, because you dont wanna be the one that gets him that pissed. [ boylover's advice column | Ask boylover A Question ]
khadiya answered Tuesday June 26 2007, 1:25 am: Give him space when he gets mad. He doesnt need another person putting things in his head. That just frustrates him more. Also Just listen if he is telling you about it. He just needs to get it off his mind. He doesnt need a response. [ khadiya's advice column | Ask khadiya A Question ]
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