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Situation: I'm involved in a long distance relationship.. Neither of us can drive right now.. and my parents wont let me date yet. His mom doesnt have her license right now (not sure why) so we dont have rides to see each other. My older sister doesnt approve of me dating him.. so she wont take me to see him.. and i barely know anyone that lives in his town.
Can anyone think of a way we can make this relationship last.. we're deeply in love.. but its hard not being together...
we've asked friends for rides.. and they wont take us.. Could someone please tell me how we can be together.. and it not be so hard on the both of us?
Thanks!
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could u maybe take a bus? maybe make a long walk? idk hope i helped a lil. ~steph~
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OK...telling this story is getting really annoying, and I'd appreciate it if I didn't get snide comments about it, I already feel like a whore.
Well, to start it out, I had just gotten this new account on vampirefreaks. My friend had some crazy-cool people posting on hers so I went to check it out. One of the guys was so awesome. His profile was freakin' long and crazy, and he seemed really sweet. I left a message on his site and toddled off. Then he left a message on mine and so on. Well, anyways, we started talking on IM. The first time, I thought I had thoroughly annoyed him, so when we spoke next I apologized. Well, during our second conversation, we started making out. We pretty far, but not quite THAT far. Before I'd really talked to him, I thought he was really great, and when I did talk to him, I began to develop a crush on him.
A few days passed, othing happened. But then, his birthday came around. We had talked a little bit...and then we started doing a few things. It was mostly me doing, well, everything, so it was sort of weird. but that time, we did everything... In the end, I thought it had meant othing to him, but it didn't really bother me. but then after we did all of that, I felt sort of guilty, dirty...
Later that same night, after talking to 2 of my very close friends (one online, one not), i still felt bad. Then I was IMed by another guy from vampirefreaks, that I had become friends with a few days earlier. (NOTE: i had been at school, trying to sign in to vampirefreaks, and I wandered aimlessly onto this one page and it said the name Eryk. I looked at the pics and thought he was pretty, decided to look later. I looked him up later, and it wasn't him, but this other guy. There weren't any pictures of him so I read his profile. I left a comment, then he looked at my profile and IMed me. Thats how I met him.)
I Started talking with him, and he seemed sweet and he was always really nice and funny. I did like him, yeah, but I didn't really know how much. So, on the same day as the incident with Dion, I also did stuff with the other guy (his name is Dan). After all of that Dani and I talked... and he said that he'd liked me. I did like him to, so we just talked. Then after a few days we're like in love... My mum finds out about the cyber because I had printed it *dolt* 'cause I needed to talk to my friends about it. Mum banned me from IM. I snuck on to talk to them both, last night. Turns out it did mean something to Dion, and now he won't tell me how he feels about me. Dan and I are currently split up because he needs to think about some things, but he says that once he's done, we can go back to that. So, everything with Dan is ok, I think. But what do I do about Dion? And what about mum? (link)
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none of tht made any sense rlly, cant help ya
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ok im 15 years old, and im bout 5'3 i weigh 100 pounds even, and im a size 0. but sumhow i always think im fat! my friends r like "your not fat, stop saying that" i mean yea im not the most self-confident person.. but i dont see why my weight bothers me so much. i dont have like rolls or ne thing. but im constantly talking about how i want to lose weight. yet i know im not fat... but at the same time i convince myself i am. i think it has to do with my x boyfriend, b/c he called me fat as a joke once, but since then.. ive been really concious about it. i dont know wut to do. or how i can stop being so obsessive about my weight and just my personality towards it in general....ne suggestions? thankx
L0v3 - brittany (link)
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lose weight? u need to gain wait if ur 100 pounds and 15 yrs old. im 13 and i weigh 105 and im not rlly fat or anything. ~steph~
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okk...so i told my b/f we should take a break cuz we neva hangout and get to see eachother (hes always with his friendss)n it seems like he just wants to be with them all the time..i really really like him still n everything but i dont know really what to do...i tryed talkin to him about it but he doesnt get it?....helpp lol write backkk (link)
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ask him if he rlly does like u ?? if u already talked to him and he doesnt get it then he better, i aint gonna tell u 2 get over him cuz i kno from expierence tht thts the last thing anyone wants to hear. hope i helped ~steph~
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13.m.fl(8th grade)
i like this girl a lot that goes to the other jr high in our area. i met her a couple weeks ago from her friends that ive known for a few monthes. i recently asked her out but she said she doesnt think she knows me well enough and is now going out with sum1 else from her school. im afraid she has a bad reputation of me from rumors about wut me and my friends do. wut should i do (link)
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get to know her, show her the good side to u, maybe if her and her bf break up someday u can go out but dont become too good of friends with her bc if u do she may not want tht to change. hope i helped ~steph~
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hey..i got a question. I had danced wit this guy a week or so ago at this dance and i think we had a pretty good time andi got the vibe that he liked me. My friedn talked to him and sed that he prolly did like me but then the next day he sed that he didnt like me. now, the kid that i danced with never talks to me and wehenver i see him he sometimes looks in my direction adn walks away. I know he's shy but i cant tell if he is avoiding me cuz he really doesnt like me or if he is just being shy. So i don't really kno wat to think..or if my friend "lied" to me about him liking me or not liking me..plz help tnx! (link)
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he may jus not like u. he may like u and hes scared to talk to u. theres no good way rlly to find out if he likes u or not. if he does hes gonna have to make sure u find out bc he isnt showing it. hope i helped ~steph~
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Ok here is my problem!!...
There is this guy i like.. Lets call him rascal..
He brings me to school everyday and takes me home when he has time. He offers to do this 4 me!! IDK y tho. I like him A LOT!!! he knows that too. But today he asked me to go to the Mt. Pleasant Halloween Parade to watch him. Im going anyways because my little sister is a cheerleader and shes in it too. But anyways.. Does this sound like he likes me? Or what the heck is goin on?
He also told me that hes gonna make sure i c him in the firetruck!! Should i be scared or not?
Then this weekend we're going to this party for halloween. Do you think anything special will happen? I hope.. I like him very much!!
We text messege each other all day while hes in tech. and while i have freshman classes.
What should i do?
Signed..
Alf Alfinator (link)
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i think he definitly likes u. u need to go and watch him, he may have a surprise waiting 4 u........ who knows? hope i helped ~steph~
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UGH!! everyday before cheerleadin i always put on loads of deorderant on!! and i put perfume on...but my stunt group is always complaining about someone having B.O.! and i think they are all saying its me!! but i dan never smell anything when they say it smells...and i dont get how it could be me cuz i wear sooo much deoderant and sweet pea perfume. UGH!! its getting soo aggravating....does anyone know of any really good deorderant!!??? and fast!!?? (link)
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try a different perfume. it may not even be u it could be someone else and u jus dont smell it. if u put tht much stuff on then i dont think it rlly is u. hope i helped ~steph~
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ok ive been really sick lately! ive been outta school all week and im really sick anyway my parents think im ready to go back to school tomorrow but im not i feel terriable seriously i feel like a bus ran me over no joke!how can i convince my parents im not ready to go back! the thing is they wnt take me to the doc so i dunno wuts wrong wit me n sum grl in my class had mono! how can i convince them to let me stay home? thanx [[bLonDii]] (link)
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make ur parents think ur more sick than u rlly are so maybe they'll take u to the doc. tell them u still feel horrible and u still dont feel well at all. theres really nothing to do if they dont believe u except like throw up. hope i helped ~steph~
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well..i really like this kid..and he asked me out one time and i said no because i didn't really know him and everything. but now i know him and i REALLY like him. he knows i like him and he tells me he still likes me..but he hasn't asked me out again and he flirts with EVERYONE..and he know it makes me upset but he still does it. what should i do? (link)
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everyone is allowed to flirt if their single so i dont c y theres a problem there as long as he doesnt if u 2 go out. ask him out, wht can it hurt if he still likes u. hope i helped ~steph~
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okay i'm doing this project and we need to knoe when were ever going to use math like when we grow uo and stuff. well i want to be a professional basketball player and i was wondering what kind of math would i need to know for that? thanx (link)
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u need to know math b/c u need to be able to keep track of foul shots, average points per game and stuff. i dont know much about basketball stats but i kno u can use som stats stuff. hope i helped ~steph~
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ok well my mom is getting sruvery tomorrow..a historectory..how ever you spell it..and like I'm really scared for her but like we're fighint because I failed my geography test and my teacher called my mom and told her and now we're fighting..and I'm scared something might happen to her and we'll be fighting..she said I'm grounded for 2 weeks and like I can't..like I have a life a big one...like I do stuff everyday with people..and my mom is always saying how she misses me because I'm never home or I'm talking on the phone or on the computer..and like I try to spend time with her but we always end up fighting..I just want to spend more time with her but have a life too..and I wanna get out of this fight before tomorrow because shes leaving for the hospital tomorrow at 5:00am and I'm not gonna see her..I'm soo scared that somethings gonna happened and we're gonna be fighting..please help..I'm sitting here crying cause I'm soo scared..I'll rate high! (link)
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u need to talk to ur mom and no matter wht if u wanna get out of this fight then u should tell her tht u were wrong (even if u werent) b/c then u wont be in a fight anymore. tell her ur scared 4 her but not 2 scared bc u dont wanna get her worried. jus make sure u make up b4 she leaves. hope i helped ~steph~
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ok my bestfriends is always in trouble and i cant go see my boyfriend with out her like i can but shes like i dont want any1 meeting him cz their related..right but i was supposed to go see him friday but now she juss called and said she may be moving bcz she juss screwed up with her mom ONCE AGAIN!!..i rly need to see him tho...should i go without her or juss wait cz i kno shes totally grounded 4 halloween! (link)
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if i were u id rather go c him without anyone there anyway. but if u usually go together then i think it would be ok to go without her juss as long as u tell her first. hope i helepd ~steph~
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Does any body know how to do a half and half bun? (link)
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whts a half and half bun?
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Does it look okay to leave part of your hair down and the front half pulled back in a bun? (link)
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i think it looks good. besides dont go wht other people think u need to do wht u like, wear it how u like it.
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we broke up a month ago and there has not been much progress since. her mother, sister and brother inlaw tell me to hang in there she will come around. last night she called to say that she had some more of my stuff packed up so i went over there and said, thursday you said you were 50/50 about us and now you are still packing my stuff up what am i to think. she said it is over. but her family is telling me to hang in there. do you think i should give her an ultimatum? or just move on? (link)
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give her a lil more time if she doesnt come around then i would move on. theres rlly not much to do except wait for a lil bit of time to pass. hope i helped ~steph~
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Okay, so i was going out with this boy for a 2 months. i loved him so much and i still do! but my friends were really mean to him and stuff and so i dumped him because i thought it would just be better for him and everyone else since they like hated him. but then i found out that they didn't really hate him they just like him. But i dumped him before that and then he got really mad at me. Was it right to dump him in the first place? sorry this is long and i hope that made sense! (link)
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yes if they were rlly tht mean. i think if u explain it to him he'd understand and maybe take u bck. u nvr did anything wrong, it was ur friends, they shouldnt have been so mean. talk to ur friends and tell them how u feel. hope i helped ~steph~
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last time i ask advice i promise. but her mother, sister and brother inlaw are all saying to hold on a little bit she will come around. how do i know if there telling the truth or saying that so i keep everything in the house?
thanks b (link)
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can i have a few more details plz? ill answer i jus dont understand the question so send me another i dont mind. ~steph~
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what kind of dancing is 'frinding' liek how do u do it
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do u mean "grinding" ?? if u do then its like when a guy puts his hands bellow ur hips and u dance. i rlly dont know how to describe it well. ~steph~
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i got this discibility that physically shows and i have a hard time getting to know girls and asking them out because i dont want to be the butt of the jokes because of my discibility and people staring at me what should i do? (link)
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if shes nice she'd go out w/ u bc of whts inside. if she would turn u down bc of this then shes obviously not good enough for u. try to ask her out and see wht happens. hope i helped ~steph~
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