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I have a friend, Alyssa, who has not had any sex yet. She wants to wait. Thats okay, but she always says that none of it can be fun. Does any one here already had sex and knows how fun everything sex related can be?
Meh, its ok. The moment is good, but when it's over I find its very sort of meh. I think it should only really be doen with some one you love as it makes your connection with them stronger emotionaly and physicaly. Of course it is a very different thing to different people, so maybe she'll find she doesn't enjoy it, maybe she will find she will.
i have ben single for about a year and a half i have been seeing diffrent lads but none o then what a relationship i want to find the right person how long do you think that will be
How old are you? I wouldn't be too worried about finding a bloke if you are still youngish. Just enjoy 'playing the market' as it where.
Also how many of these lads do you get to know on a very intamate and personal level? Some of the best relationships one can get are from a man whom is your best mate, and whom you may well have over-looked.
If you are really wanting a meaning relationship I would suggest trying to get to know them, before jumping in the sack with them. Its hard to have a relationship with someone you bearly know and who isn't one of your best mates.
hi please can you help me i am 16 and scared that i will get cancer, my mum had cancer she nearly died, my mums sister had cancer she died and then my dad's dad died of cancer do you think that i will get it please help
I would have said there is a strong possibiltiy but this is somthing your should take up with your doctor, not an online advice forum. You doctor can carry out tests and determin the liklyhood of your developing some kind of hireditary cancer. And even then, your chances of dieing from it are slim what with advaced medicins now-a-days.
Talk to your doctor, have regular cheackups, cheack yourself regularly, and in the meantime, make the best of the time you have.
*hug*
is there a web-site where i can do some kind of test to get to know what I`m good for? Or for what kind of work I could be good for?
I have an idea of what i would like to study, Is there a site where i can search diferents carriers and get to know what are the trade of the job?
I don't know if this is available in the US, but in the UK there is an electronic test that the school [or other related organisation] can give wich asks you a series of questions about your likes and dislikes, and complies a list of jobs/ careaers it thinks would be sutable for you.
Here is a abridged version of this test, but remember it is primarily for the UK ONLY:
http://www.connexionscard.com/x/c/cxc.jsp?P1=CRAS
i have this emense pain the right side of my body it goes all the way down to my leg iv started having pain under my arms front and back of neck it goes up to my head somtimes my left side of my head and face goes numb,i have a lot of raw nerves threw out my body which is very painfull but my whole body seems to shake and tremble ive got terible tremors all the time,i keep having tremors in my chest it feels like pulling and tugging of musclemy throat pulsates all the time,and when i put my head down i can feel a pulsating in my head in fact my whole pulsates i dont know what this could be please help
I would go and see your doctor. It sounds like it could be athritis, but your doctor will be able to perform tests and give treatment. So just to reenforce: GO SEE YOUR DOCTOR!
my most recent ex boyfriend broke up with me this saturday. which is also the day i was supposed to go over to his house and hang out with his sister. he told her he didnt have feelings for me anymore, but, he ketp smiling at me. and looking and starting at me when he thought i wasnt looking. his flirting and him just being himself are kinda the same. hes the pick on beat up kinda flirt and that way as himself so i cant tell if he likes me again. im to shy to just ask him. what should i do? his sister said to kiss him and see what his reaction is but im afraid he will pull back before i even get to his lips and then i will look like an idiot. by the way. i am 13 and a female.
It sounds like he is just messing with you, so I would recomened you stay way from him for a while, sort your feelings out and let him sort his out.
And besides, this isn't really a life-or-death sort of thing at 13....
How do I get the cysts to pop, so I can rebuild my health , so I can a have a child before it is to late. I have been trying for 13 years to have a child.I had a tubal pregnency when I was 17. I had a miscariage in early trimester jan. 2004. I am a 30 yr Am. Indian,5'5" tall,around 200 lbs. Please can someone help me before I lose my window of opertunity to have total happiness.
I don't think that cysts are somthing you just 'pop'. You need to talk to your doctor about the cysts, and also about the fact you can't have a child. Rember, it takes two, so there maybe somthing wrong with you *or* your partner.
Rember, having a child is not nessisacirly the whole point of your existance.
i have known my best friend since we where babys and she waned me to move in with her and i was going to but then she startd saying i was knicking off her and been jelouse of me because she likes this lad that i like but he does not like her he likes me and we are seeing each other i know nothing will happen between them because she is 15 an he is 20 every time i go see him she is there holding his hand and flirting how can i tell her how i feel and belive me that i have not taken any thing HELP!!
First, from the 'known my best friend since we where babies' bit, you would be the same ages as her, yes? So therefore you are both 15. So why are you talking about moving in with each other?
Second, the guy. If he is holding hands with the guy *you* are seeing, not only is there something wrong with your mate, but there is somthing wrong with your guy, and if you are 15 then you shouldn't be seeing him anyway.
So to answer, I suggest you get rid of both of them.
If you really want to try and make it work between your mate and yourself, you need to ask her what she thinks you have taken and then alwo her to serch your room or somthing. This is the only way I see that you can convince her you haven't taken anything.
With regards to the guy, if you are really seriouse about him, and belive he is serious about you, then it is up to him to tell your mate he's not interested, as she will never belive it coming from you.
i am a single parent of three children claiming income support, i want my partner to move in but im not sure how to go about claiming together, do i contact my d.s.s office or claim tax credits first and will we be better off
thanks
I'm not sure how it works in the sates, but in the UK one has to contact the place issuing the benifits, and inform them of any changes [eg, your partners income]
I'm really confused at the moment. I have this friend. We have been friends for about 8 months. But since January me and him have become really close. I have had loads of friends that are guys but I am his first friend whose a girl. We are always hanging round in college together. People seem to be getting the wrong idea. Anyway a few days ago we were in some real quiet place and he said he was confused to whether he liked me in that way or not. So he tried to kiss me. I didn’t want to because I thought it might change our friendship. I thought it might ruin it. In the end we kissed. It didn’t change anything. I still don't feel for him in that way and he doesn’t feel for me in that way. But then yesterday we kinda kissed again. I don't know what to do. We don’t like eachother in that way so why do we keep doing this. I feel bad afterwards but we aren't hurting anyone. He hasn’t got a girlfriend and I haven’t got a boyfriend. Is this wrong?
If i were you I would take some time out from him. If it feels wrong, some deeper part of you phycie is probably trying to tell you to stop. So take some time out from him, hang with your other mates for a while :)
I went to this party and I'm 15 and I drank but I only had one beer and than I woke up the next morning in my bed. After that for the next couple of weeks I got sick daily, I started to get worried and had my friend buy a pregnancy test for me and it turned out that I was pregnant. I don't know how that's possible because I'm a virgin. But I can't remember what happened that night at the party. I don't know what to tell my parents.
~Pregnant?~
Are you sure your beer wasn't spiked? Its highly unusual for one beer to make you so paraletic you forget what you've done. when you woke up the next morning, did you feel any discomfort 'down there'?
I think you have to explain to your 'rents what you explained to us: that you have no clue how this happned. You suspect you were drug raped as you only had the one drink and rember nothing else.
I hope for your sake that your 'rents are understaning and suportive.
Your next step is to try and work out if you will have the thing aborted or what you will do with it after you hav it.
HELLO! MY QUESTION IS I'AM STRUGGLING WITH MY WEIGHT.I WEIGHT IN AT 222POUNDS.DO YOU HAVE ANY INFORMATION YOU CAN GIVE ME ON THIS MATTER.
What is your hight out of interest?
I would recomend you try to cut down on your overall food intake and get more excesise.
This site has some good tips in regard to dieting:
http://health.howstuffworks.com/diet.htm
my mayor concern is that i always have been working with my hands. my injury was my right shoulder and i don`t have good education or skills to start on. but can you give me some examples of what other people is doing for living
on the moment iam studing inglish but my family needs me. to support them. thenk you for your preview answer.
AsI said previously I would try minor office work, or offer yourself as an apprentice for somthing. I'm afraid I don't know what oppertuinites there are outside the UK.
The blooms on my amaryllis have faded. What do I do now to promote re-blooming?
[Just guessing here] Maybe pruning it and making sure it is protected during the winter [from frost]. Try BBCi's Gardener's World for more advice.
How can i make a room feel calm
and want to work
Calming colours are usually blues, but other light colours waork. Also make the area seem spacious.
what kind of work is people with medical restriction are doing after doctor release them?
what kind of work a person that can not lift more then 20 pound can do? please help me, than you.
It depends on what medical condition you have. 20Lb is not a lot, so maybe you would be best at office junior, if your typing skills and english were better.
My best friend is trying to hook me up to his girlfriend's step-sister, and tells me she likes me but also isn't sure wether or not she wants to go out with me. We've met twice already, and we talk for hours on the phone, but we seldom get any private time so that i can really get to know her and to show myself to her. How can i convince her to give me a chance in this situation without weirding her out or making her angry?
Humm, try asking her out on a double date. This way each couple can each have some alone time, but if she doesn't feel comfortable around you there are her mates to talk to.
good luck!
1)when did i get a good paying job?
2) i will settle down my life in india or abroad?
3)iwant to settle in euprope can it be possible?, (i am indian, my qualification is 10+2, diploma in materials management and computers, working exp=12yrs in indian industries).
4)wot about my financial ststus throughout my life?
1. I don't know, try looking at your records
2. Whatever you think holds the best prospects for you
3. Yes it's possible, but as I understand it, to immagrate you wave to be worth somthing to the contry you wish to imagrate to, and be able to learn the language. you won't be able to get into england at least if you talk like you type.
4. thats entierly up to you, no one can predict the future, just take a damn good guess
I did a "calcuate your real age" survey on line the other day which showed your real age changing as you answered the questions. I was almost at the end and the survey was showing me as 32.5 and I'm 33. The only section left was the exercise section. I answered the questions (I work out 5 days a week). I thought for sure my real age would go down even further, but was shocked to see it go up to 34!
I have listed my workout routine below, can you please give me some advise as to if I am working out too much? I feel great, my endurance is high, after my workout I feel great, I don't feel pain or discommfort. I eat healthy and feel great almost always.
3 x week (Tues, Wed, Fri): 20 min fast walking on treadmill followed by 20 minutes of intense riding on the stationary bike
2 x week (Sat & Sun): 20 min fast walking on treadmill followed by 20 minutes of intense riding on the stationary bike followed by 20 more minutes on the treadmill at a medium comfortable speed for cooldown(I do 20 min but feel like I could walk forever and not be tired)
I am happy with the way my routine makes me look good too. The bike is toning me right where I like it.
Why would my routine make me older? Was this survey I did wrong? Should I cut it down to 4 days a week?
Sorry this is so long, thanks for your help!
Paula
It sounds fine to me, and that thing you took was probably some really lame test made by someone who knows nothing.
I'm 13 and I found a dildo in my moms dresser a couple of months ago, since then I've fingered myself every day. Is that normal?
You are at an age when self exploration is normal, but I would still cut down, especially if you are useing another persons vibrator.