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I'm 13 and I found a dildo in my moms dresser a couple of months ago, since then I've fingered myself every day. Is that normal?
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yeah its very normal for girls to get alittle horny when see something sexuall i do it to
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Many people - especially teenagers, masturbate every day. It's normal. Masturbation isn't excessive unless it's interfering with the other things you need to do (like cutting class to go masturbate in the school bathroom) or if you are causing harm to your body (masturbating so much that wearing your underwear hurts because it pushes up against parts that have been rubbed raw).
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I realize this may be overlapping with other responses, but in a nutshell:
1) Yes. It is perfectly normal to masturbate. Whether you prefer to stimulate yourself manually with your fingers or by using a dildo or vibrator this is perfectly normal and acceptable.
2)It is not, however, alright to use someone else's sex toy. For one thing it's just not hygenic. You should never use a sex toy that has been inside another person without sterilizing it first. In fact, you should not typically even use a sex toy on yourself without cleaning it properly between uses.
As well it's quite simply and invasion of her privacy and personal belongings. It's quite unnerving to many people that someone, especially a relative, would use such a personal item in such a personal manner. While you don't state explicitly that you've been using it, if you have, I suggest you stop.
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why were you looking in your mums dresser in the first place, havent you learnt not to nose around in your parents stuff, its an invasion of privacy, and you also find nasty stuff like 'a dildo'!!!
Don't do it!
And why does your mum have one any way?
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Every day might be a bit excessive. But yes, masturbation is normal. (Why does EVERYONE misspell it? Gah!) I would not use another person's vibrator, though. That's extremely unhealthy, even if it is your mom. Just a word of caution. =)
-Siren
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Well you didn't use your MOM'S dildo did you? I'm not saying that she has a disease or anything...but you never know. So DO NOT use hers if you plan on using one.
Well...I DON'T finger myself but I know your just curious, as am I when it comes to puberty, sex, and relationships or something like that. I'm not quite sure if it's normal for a 13 year old to finger themself, but then again it's not REALLY BAD or anything like that. Just be careful. WASH YOUR HANDS AFTER...Fingering yourself is better then actually participating in a sexual activity with a partner...do you see what I'm saying? So just do what feels right?
Do you feel it's okay to finger yourself after seeing what your mother had in her dresser? Because just because your mom does it doesn't mean it's okay for you to do it. I don't mean with fingering yourself either...it's okay to do that if you really want to. So don't worry...it's nothing BAD...but don't go overboard.
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Its not nomal,its normal if you dont like guys and would rather have sex with yourself
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I think it is normal for you to have curiousity about sex and your body, but I think you should talk to your mother about these feelings instead of using such a personal item of hers without her permision or knowledge. If you don't feel comfortable talking to your mother about this, then you should find a trusted female adult that you can talk to. It might be a good idea to go to your library and find some appropriate books about sexuality that may help answer any questions you may have about the "normalness" of your feelings. Take Care!
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Yes materbation is extremely normal so your fine, except maybe everyday is a bit exceesive
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You are at an age when self exploration is normal, but I would still cut down, especially if you are useing another persons vibrator.
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