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My best friend is trying to hook me up to his girlfriend's step-sister, and tells me she likes me but also isn't sure wether or not she wants to go out with me. We've met twice already, and we talk for hours on the phone, but we seldom get any private time so that i can really get to know her and to show myself to her. How can i convince her to give me a chance in this situation without weirding her out or making her angry?
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I suggest you, on one of your neverending phone conversations, tell her you'd like to get to know her better, and tell her your reasons. For instance - "You know, [insert name here], I'd really like to get to know you a little better. I mean, we never really get a chance to talk when there are no distractions around, and you seem like a really nice person. How about [insert fun (but not date-like) activity here]?" I wouldn't suggest a movie. You can't really talk during those, and your aim is to get to know her better, right? Just give her a little speech. She shouldn't be weirded out by that. Hey, if a guy I sort of liked but didn't know too well called and gave me that speech, I'd be like putty in his hands. Good luck, Romeo! =P
-Siren
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Suggest a time where you can hang out - maybe ask her if she wants to go for a walk, wants to see a movie with you or just wants to hang out for a bit. You really need to get to know each other, and you seem to be on the right track since you realise that. If she gets weirded out or angry, then she isn't the right one for you, and she didn't deserve you in the first place. Good luck :)
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Humm, try asking her out on a double date. This way each couple can each have some alone time, but if she doesn't feel comfortable around you there are her mates to talk to.
good luck!
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