about

Hey whattsupp, my names Erin, but i sign E whenever I answer a question. I'm a sophmore in high school. I used to run, but strained my back and now i'm done. I love track so if you need any help in that I'm your girl! I'm love giving advice and helping people with their problems. I've been through so much in 15 years, that I can pretty much help anyone. Feel free to ask me anything I'd rather tell you that i don't know than give you a bad or wrong answer.
I love clothes so i'm best at answering questions about style or fashion. When I grow up I want to be either an actress or a fashion desighner. So these are my best subjects! Butt, I can help in pretty much all of them :). Please feel free to ask me anything, I'll ALWAYS answer to the best of my ability, and come on here as often as possible!

-E!

advice

okay, so i'm debating on dying my hair again.
but idk what color to do it.
right now it looks like this:

http://a991.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/55/l_0d0def119573498ff3fbb87b135c8106.jpg

but it faded since then and i need a new color.
so i was thinking of going back to this color blonde:

http://a840.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/124/l_e0985d5e857b894db0f30e147560a157.jpg


so i guess the question is,
should i keep my hair brown?
or go back to the blondish color?

I would stay with brown. Or the second picture. Honestly, sorry if you think this is mean, i don't think you would look good as a blonde. you look much better as a brunette or whatever the color is in the second picture!

hope i helped!
-E

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Hey im in 9th grade andt his year i just entered the high school.....i came in with a decent amount of friends but because the school is so big and i had no calsses with any of them..we lost touch quickly...my friends moved on to other groups and my other friends who i didnt usually hang out with moved on to groups...and now im left pretty much alone....its not that im anti social or anything cause im pretty welll known...i say hi to pretty much everyone...and im involved a little in activites but next year im doing more.......i seriously havent hung out more then 10 times with anyone this whole year.......is this a 9th grade thing that will pass.....or what should i do....and please dont say GET INVOLVED >>>DO SPORTS>>>BLAH

thanks for anyone who tries

OKay,as much as you don't want to hear it, the only way to get friends is to put yourself out there. But sice, you said that you know a lot of people, just put in the extra effort to hangout with them BE the one that says hey wanna see a movie on friday? If you want to re connect with your friends, just because your not in classes, call each other everynight to tlak baout the day and hang out on weekends...basicly, OTHER THAN GETTING INVOLVED, you need to put in the effort. You can just wait your whole life for people to come to you. if you realy want to get friends, just be the one to make the first move.

-E

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ok me and my ex is cool with eachother and we always talk so
i asked him
me: would you ever go out with me again?
my ex:idk....
my ex: but i might miss you

What does that mean? i dont really have any feelings for him i like him as my friend

i think he is trying say that he doesn't know if he would go out with you but he does miss you in a sexy way...in other words he might still have feelings for you but he is still confused about weather or not it owuld be a good i dea for you guys to go back out. IF he likes you as more...well you can't do anything about it but don't lead him on if your not looking for anything more than a freindship


-E

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What is a truth box on myspace?

OMG i lovee thiss!!

okay, so your friends can basicly say ANYTHING they want about you to you. Then you can cheak it and see what people say. Its anonomis --sorry for spelling-- so you won't know who said it. if there good and you don't mind people seeing them, you can make them public and then people can veiw them if they want


hope i helped
-E

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Well, 1st of all my best friend in the whole world moved WAY far away. And then now me and my other best friends (like 7 of them) are at a war, does that mean that i am not a good friend, because i keep losing all of my friends?

Just because you and your friends are in a fight doesn't mean you are a bad person let alone friend. I think that if your friends and you are in a fight you need to find out what happend...if you did something wrong..apologize. You need to own up to your actions. If you didn't do anything...still say your sorry and make an effort to be friends with them agian. I think that you need to be the bigger person in this situation and just apologize for whatever happend. It might me just a big misunderstanding!

-E

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16/f
alright so, ive been dating this guy for 2 1/2 months, and i dont love him is that normal? like.. if i dont love him by now should i brake up with him.. what would other people do? everyone around me is saying to brake up with him.. i do like him a lot i just dont love him..


thanks.

A ton of people in the world don't know what love is. If you like him...thats not love. You don't have to love him to go out with him. Love comes with time. You get married when your in love...so are you trying to say that you guys should seal the deal at almost 3 months just because you "love" each other? No one is in love after only that little time. Give it a chance. You may never fall IN love with him...but that doesn't mean that it couldn't be there

hope i helped

-E

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i have recently lost my bestfriend and all of my other friends..

i really can't take it anymore, school is torture, getting up in the morning is hell, and just doing things is just miserable..


any advice on what to do??

This exact same thing happened to me. Honestly, i don't know how i got through it. I don't know why your friends stopped being your friend. For me my best friend told everyone that i said all of this junk about them behind their back. They belived her. Basicly, all you need to do is stay calm. Even though, at school, there are times when you've reached your breaking point, you just need to get out of the situation. If you feel like your going to cry, go to the bathroom no one goes to. go to the libray. go to a quiet corner. If lunch is bad too. Go to the libray. do homework. You need to show these girls you don't care. If they were really your friends they wouldn't have done what they did. I tihnk that this is just a time that you need to find a new hobbie or a new group of friends. Start up a sport and practice so you can be good at that. Find friends who won't do what your old ones did to you. I know its not easy, but find the girl that you say hi to but never say anyghing more. Become close with her and she'll introduce you to her other friends, then you have a whole new group! if rumors pop up about you...who cares?! so people are that jelous of you that they need to talk about you 24/7...pretty pathetic huh?
lol

hope i helped
-E

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f/15 I want a medium/short hair cut like pics of a punk /grunge but still classic and casual look...i also want a green streak but I dont want to bleach any part of my hair...HELP ME PLEASE

I'm not really sure what your question is here... but if you want your hair to look like that you might want to try to find a picture so you can show your stylist. if you want to do this your self go ahead and you can't really get your hair to turn green unless you die it...or you could just get a clip in and just keep putting it in everyday.

hope i helped
-E

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when i ask questions people sometimes send me links to a page.how do i do that when i am answering other peoples questions

If i find a site and copy and paste it it will show up as a link.

for example, http://www.advicenators.com/answer.php?q=537250

thats your question!
-E

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my dad is getting married in july and im moving to a new house. i need some good ideas for my room like what color or theme. i want it to be something i can still appreciate when i get older and not feel childish. be the way im 15. im kinda girly i like polka dots if they are cute. stars are okay or a cute theme. some good colors would be pink, or navy or, black or brown. i dont really know what i want to do yet and i need a lot of help!!! thanks

I would deffinetly NOT get stars or polka dots. When you get older you'll regreat it. Go for a color and do one wall darker than the others. like 3 light brown walls and one dark. Thats what my sister did. Then she got a bedspred of brown and blue. And she decorated it up with candals and flowers and vases. It looks really cool. If you want pink do a lot of white flowers that'd look really pretty.

Hope i helped
-E

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I do not know where to start but to make the long story short i hate my self and my life I am 25 years old i am not capable of having any kind of relationship cause I am the person you want call when u r having bad times however I am never there when u r having good time. Moreover,I finished law faculty but hate it so never practiced.I have done my master degree on something else, event management, but hate it as well. Right now I do not know what I want to in my life. So I have start to think best thing to is commit suicide....do you know the easiest and quickest way to do it.

You may think that killing yourself would be better for everyone, but its not. YOur not only going to hurt yourself but all of your family. Can you imagine being a mother or father and sitting at your funeral thinking for the rest of their lives that if they would have done ONE thing their child could still be here. All you need to do is find something that makes YOU happy. NOt someone else...YOU. Call a hotline just so you can talk about your emotions. Call a family member. You may not have a good relationship with them but you always need to rember that friends come and go but family will always be there for you. No matter what you need weather yu hate them or not they will be more than willing to help you. Why not stay with someone just so you can get your mind off of this. I think that if you want to be a better friend you have to act like one first. Take some time out of your day and think about all the less fortunete people out there. Knowing that you have food on the table and a house that you can live in. Those are just some of the MANY things kids and adults don't have around the world. Live your life to the fullest. Live your life for those who couldn't. Live it for all the people who died of cancer. Natural death. Think of everyone who commited suicides family. They have to live, for the rest of there lifes, that there loved one is gone forever. Maybe if they just took 10 minutes out of there day to ask you wahts wrong or made the effort to talk to you, they'd STILL be around. Do you really want to cause that much pain and suffering to people? As much as you think life is horrible, there are people out there who have worse. Please, Please, Please. Reconsider the way you are thinking of ending your life. VIOLENCE IS NOT THE ANSWER. Just like suicide is not.

-E

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15/f
i can perfectly be social with people at school,
even when im only with a friend.
but then when theres a large number of people im going to hang out with, i get very quiet. this is because i don't always know them well and don't want to say something wrong.
what can i do, to be more social around large groups of people?

Just try to be like whatever. If people don't like you for the REAL you...then do you even want them to talk to you?! Well, if you crack a joke and its not funny, just laugh at yourself. If you say something stupid just laugh. Laughing is a great way to be more social. I think that if you just be yourself, the real people that you want to meet will come and find you. And that is what you really want. No people to use you or judge you. Your you and no one can change that.

hope i helped
-E

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is "kinky" considered a cuss word?
like if you said it in front of mom or dad what would they say?
or in front of a high school teacher?

It's not a swear word. But it means like sexy and like hott in a sexual way. If you said it inforon of your mom and dad you might get in trouble. If you said it infront of a teacher you would DEFFinetly get sent to the office..

hope i helped
-E

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Well im 14 years old. and a female. and theres this guy i like. whos in my grade. and we see each other everyday. and we are always textin each other. well i just started likeing him and he knows i do. all my friends always say stuff to him. and hes friends with my brothers. they tell me he likes me back. and he told me he liked me too. but if i he does then wouldnt he ask me out already. we always flirt. when we see each other smile. everyone says he likes me and that we should go out. but i cant figure out why he wont ask me out. do you think i should ask him out?? or wait for him too. i just dont know what to do. i really like him and i want to go out with him. i just cant make up my mind. Helpp!!!! thanks :]]

okay, if you don't think its weird for yout o ask him out then why not?! go for it. but, if you wait for him just keep dropping hints. like, text him and say wanna know a secreat and he'll say sure and you say i have a REALLY big crush on you or someting like that. trust me, if he likes you and you like hime, most likely it will happen. he might be a little chicken. i mean, seriously, no one wants to get regected!

hope i helped

-E

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So, my really good friend, Anna has liked this guy named Jake for 2 years, and me and him started talking last year, and I'm in 8th grade now, and so is he and her, but she kind of didn't really have a chance with him, they're COMPLETELY different. And she can be bossy and stuff. But anyway, he likes me a lot, and I like him a lot too. And Anna found out so now she's really really mad at me, and doesn't talk to me at school or practice! Its driving me crazy. And I'm SO SO SO SO SO sorry! Like, extremely, but he is perfect for me. What should I do?

I would tell your friend streight up that your sorry and you can't help the way you feel. Also, say that your not going to go out wiith him because your friendship is more important then having a boyfriend. that will deffinetly work. if it doesn't then just say that you understand why shes mad and you'd be mad to if they had switched positions. you can say i'll stop likeing him if you want and i know i made a mistake and i won't let it happen agian. most likely, she;ll say its fine that you to go out and you guys can be friends agian and you'll have a guy on your shoulder...and face it...who doesn't want thattt?!?!?! lol

hope i helped!
-E

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okay me and my boyfriend text alot. alot of the time he texts me first, but when he doesn't i dont want him to think im obsessive or anything cause if he is hanging with his friends i dont want to disturb that i guess. but on the other side i dont want him to think i dont want to text him.. so i dont know!! haha f/13

I think you should just text him and if he's busy, he won't reply..yeah, but make sure if he doesn't reply don't text back saying are you there what are you doing who are you with. that sort of thing. i hate when people do that so i wouldn't do that yourself...


hope i helped!
-E

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k i want to do some thing cute for my one month only cuz hes my first real bf end same with him so any cute but simple and not expensive gift for him??? thanks

the best gift is to listen when they talk. if hes constently saying that he loves ballons --just an example-- then buy him a bunch of ballons...or you could get a key from luggage or an old diarry...and put it in a box and but a ribbon around and and when he opens it say that thats the key to your heart.


hope i helped1
-E

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In the book The Diary Of Anne Frank, they are living with the Van Daans, and Mr.Dussel right??

I was looking up Anne Frank on the internet, and there was a website about her house, and well her history and stuff.

On there it said that the other people that came to live with them were the Van Pels' and Fritz Pfeffer.

Whats up with that?? Is this a con website or something?? heres the link in case you want to check it out.

http://www.annefrank.org/content.asp?PID=249&LID=2

Thanks:)

the person before me is right. They probally did it so it was eaiser to understand. She was an amazing wrighter...my school just got done with a whole section on her so if you have any questions just drop it into my inbox

-E

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i went on a calorie less diet. i only take in more or less 1200. soemtiems i take in 1400 but i do a lot of exercise if i do that.

on saturday i ate soooooooooo much and gained 2 pounds do i went form 112 to 114'!!! i want to weigh 100. i need my stomich to be flat.

any ideas.???? i do 30 min abb exercises an kcikboxin

I am 13/f and 117 and i'm 5'1 3/4" so i think your fine. but instead or watching your calories try making it so you get the right amout of each food group everyday. go to mypirimid.gov so you can find the information out. ANSWER HONESTLY or you won't get TRUE results.

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i need a good do for the prom, but im not good with hair. i have some help but i dont know what to do with it. if you can help me, like if u know any good websites that show you ho to do it, or if u can tell me that would be great

go to seveenteen.com they have makeup, and hair ideas and there REALLY cute!!!


hope i helped!

-E

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