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Oh god.
So, my really good friend, Anna has liked this guy named Jake for 2 years, and me and him started talking last year, and I'm in 8th grade now, and so is he and her, but she kind of didn't really have a chance with him, they're COMPLETELY different. And she can be bossy and stuff. But anyway, he likes me a lot, and I like him a lot too. And Anna found out so now she's really really mad at me, and doesn't talk to me at school or practice! Its driving me crazy. And I'm SO SO SO SO SO sorry! Like, extremely, but he is perfect for me. What should I do?
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I would tell your friend streight up that your sorry and you can't help the way you feel. Also, say that your not going to go out wiith him because your friendship is more important then having a boyfriend. that will deffinetly work. if it doesn't then just say that you understand why shes mad and you'd be mad to if they had switched positions. you can say i'll stop likeing him if you want and i know i made a mistake and i won't let it happen agian. most likely, she;ll say its fine that you to go out and you guys can be friends agian and you'll have a guy on your shoulder...and face it...who doesn't want thattt?!?!?! lol
hope i helped!
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Boys are often a sensitive area for girls around your age and you have to be careful what you do with whom. Try talking to her about it and let her know that you really like him alot, but that you understand why she is upset with you. If you really care about her then maybe you should let this guy go and pick your friend over him. Often times your friends will be there long after those boys you fought over.
My best friend and I fought over a boy for 2 years, then we got over it and now neither of us is with the guy and we are best friends.
Hope I Helped.
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Well let me be the best solution for this problem. I have been through this and seen it around me. First of all you need to make a decision in yourself... if the boy more important then your friend? Look at it this way being so young boys will come and go in your life but your friends will always be there... So take it from me never let a boy step in a way of a friendship. there are other guys out there that will be perfect for you. just take your time and let destiny take its course. your still young.
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heyy. i know how you feel. but always remeber that friends come before boyfriends because friends will always have your back and boyfriends come and go. so my advice is talk to your friend and see how she feels. and try to fix your friendship with her. before going out with this guy. i hope everything turns out well :]
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