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Have you ever lost a bestie?
Well, 1st of all my best friend in the whole world moved WAY far away. And then now me and my other best friends (like 7 of them) are at a war, does that mean that i am not a good friend, because i keep losing all of my friends?
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NO!! Dont think that and I am sorry that your best friend moved away dont blame yourself for that you had nothing to do with that and just because your other friends are fighting doesnt mean you caused all of it it probely has nothing at all to do with you im sure it will all be for the best in the end!! And just be carefull not to pick sides with the friends that are fighting beacause that could hurt your friend ship with the other 6! Call your friend that moved away every week to see what she is doing and tell her how things are going it will help you with her moving away im sure she misses you too!
-Dukesgirl01
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Just because you and your friends are in a fight doesn't mean you are a bad person let alone friend. I think that if your friends and you are in a fight you need to find out what happend...if you did something wrong..apologize. You need to own up to your actions. If you didn't do anything...still say your sorry and make an effort to be friends with them agian. I think that you need to be the bigger person in this situation and just apologize for whatever happend. It might me just a big misunderstanding!
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well since your friend moved away you could find ways to communicate..like email,phone, or seeing if ever so ofter you or she could visit. as for your situation with your friends you are not a bad friend! if they dont want to be your friend and stick by you then they arent TRUE AND REAL friends other wise they would still be there! and mayvbe you could talk to each one privatly and ask what happened? and talk it out..not argue or make things worse..try to come to agree able terms and be friends again if you can. but dont talk to all of them as once. they may not express their whole feelings truthfully by eachother...but talk it out.
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