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should we go out?
Well im 14 years old. and a female. and theres this guy i like. whos in my grade. and we see each other everyday. and we are always textin each other. well i just started likeing him and he knows i do. all my friends always say stuff to him. and hes friends with my brothers. they tell me he likes me back. and he told me he liked me too. but if i he does then wouldnt he ask me out already. we always flirt. when we see each other smile. everyone says he likes me and that we should go out. but i cant figure out why he wont ask me out. do you think i should ask him out?? or wait for him too. i just dont know what to do. i really like him and i want to go out with him. i just cant make up my mind. Helpp!!!! thanks :]]
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He's a guy. They can be like that. He's probably just really nervous and thinks you might turn him down. Not that I'm saying you will... A guy I went out with in the past, it took him 2 wks to get him to ask me out. I would just take him somewhere private and just talk about everything. Doing all this in person is better then doing it over the phone. Trust me. And if you do get tired of waiting for him to ask you out, which the way you described it just sounded like he does, then just tell him you like him a lot and wish you had a boyfriend that had the same qualities he has. He'll deffinetly get the hint. Guys are seriously blind when it comes to this sort of thing. It's like you have to spell it out for them. I LIKE YOU! LET"S GO OUT! lol. Hope I helped.
xoxo,
dottie4
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okay, if you don't think its weird for yout o ask him out then why not?! go for it. but, if you wait for him just keep dropping hints. like, text him and say wanna know a secreat and he'll say sure and you say i have a REALLY big crush on you or someting like that. trust me, if he likes you and you like hime, most likely it will happen. he might be a little chicken. i mean, seriously, no one wants to get regected!
hope i helped
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go for it girl if you feel comfortable doing it but if not make it super clear that u want him and make little hints about it like "oh hey we should all hang out some time" so like a group of friends an you could go and hang out then see where it goes from there!!!! good luck
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