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i need more FRIENDS
Hey im in 9th grade andt his year i just entered the high school.....i came in with a decent amount of friends but because the school is so big and i had no calsses with any of them..we lost touch quickly...my friends moved on to other groups and my other friends who i didnt usually hang out with moved on to groups...and now im left pretty much alone....its not that im anti social or anything cause im pretty welll known...i say hi to pretty much everyone...and im involved a little in activites but next year im doing more.......i seriously havent hung out more then 10 times with anyone this whole year.......is this a 9th grade thing that will pass.....or what should i do....and please dont say GET INVOLVED >>>DO SPORTS>>>BLAH
thanks for anyone who tries
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it's somewhat a 9th grade thing. i kinda had the same problem it all depends on you i guess. i got more confident in making friends and just going up to random people that seem to have same interests as me. if you havent alredy try joining some clubs and befrending people there. u'll find your place soon im sure of it.
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OKay,as much as you don't want to hear it, the only way to get friends is to put yourself out there. But sice, you said that you know a lot of people, just put in the extra effort to hangout with them BE the one that says hey wanna see a movie on friday? If you want to re connect with your friends, just because your not in classes, call each other everynight to tlak baout the day and hang out on weekends...basicly, OTHER THAN GETTING INVOLVED, you need to put in the effort. You can just wait your whole life for people to come to you. if you realy want to get friends, just be the one to make the first move.
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