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bffless
i have recently lost my bestfriend and all of my other friends..
i really can't take it anymore, school is torture, getting up in the morning is hell, and just doing things is just miserable..
any advice on what to do??
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In my opinion you need to try to talk with you best friend and friends, see what went on that put a hold on your relationship with them and try to fix it. Also, to begin talking to other people in your school, see witch people would be good to have as new friends. This way if it does not work out with your friends, then you will have other people to hang with and socialize with, and if it does work out then you have your friends, plus new people to talk to as well. And when you approach your friends, you may want to put your self in the position of the blame and not your friends. This way you are not putting them on the defense, but showing them that you are willing to take the blame for the issues that arose in the relationship. I hope this was beneficial to you. And Good luck.
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I know how you feel. I've felt like that many times before. Try talking to your best friend and do what you can to get her to be friends with you again. Until then try making new friends. Just start talking to new people and spend more time with your family so life isn't so terrible.
-Bunnunnah
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This exact same thing happened to me. Honestly, i don't know how i got through it. I don't know why your friends stopped being your friend. For me my best friend told everyone that i said all of this junk about them behind their back. They belived her. Basicly, all you need to do is stay calm. Even though, at school, there are times when you've reached your breaking point, you just need to get out of the situation. If you feel like your going to cry, go to the bathroom no one goes to. go to the libray. go to a quiet corner. If lunch is bad too. Go to the libray. do homework. You need to show these girls you don't care. If they were really your friends they wouldn't have done what they did. I tihnk that this is just a time that you need to find a new hobbie or a new group of friends. Start up a sport and practice so you can be good at that. Find friends who won't do what your old ones did to you. I know its not easy, but find the girl that you say hi to but never say anyghing more. Become close with her and she'll introduce you to her other friends, then you have a whole new group! if rumors pop up about you...who cares?! so people are that jelous of you that they need to talk about you 24/7...pretty pathetic huh?
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hope i helped
-E
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i was in your position last year. all my life i had been a really happy person, lots of friends. i used to have parties that had at least 20 people at them and they were all really good friends and then it seemed that over night i lost everything. the stress made me fail two classes and i didn't know what to do. basically what i did was i got a job which distracted my from school and friends because when i was working i didn't have time for friends. plus it brought in money and i made friends with the people i work with. i really feel for you and i know what you're going through sucks. and sucks doesnt even begin to describe it but you have to stick through it because IT WILL PASS and you'll be fine. i'm good now and i have all my friends back. i'm not going to tell you it'll happen overnight because it doesn't. it takes time and you have to keep telling yourself that this depression will pass.
so try getting a job. one that is low-stress and something fun. i work at an ice cream shop so i get to flirt with guys who come in and say "would you like some whipped cream with that?" haha. jobs that involve food are always fun no matter what it is. or you could try getting a summer job at a camp taking care of little kids if you like that sort of thing and you're old enough. little smiling faces who adore you will most likely cheer you up.
keep your head up. you'll be fine.
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modelkate11
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first off just relax deep breath you need to try to fix it humble your self and maybe consider it was something you did, and apologize and if nothing happens they weren't good enough friends any ways and try talking to other people try something new mix it up hope this helps
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