Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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i am a freshman and I'm bi, but none of my friends know it. I have a crush on this junior who is a lesbian but i don't know what to do. do u think i have a chance with a girl that's 2 years older than me, and what should i do to make her notice me? (link)
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I think anybody has a chance with anybody wether they're a year older, younger, 10 years older, 10 years younger, whatever.
If you ever have the chance to talk to her, take it. Don't let any opportunity go to waste. Just start bringing up casual conversation about whatever it is she might be doing at the moment ( listening to music, doing homework, etc. ) If she's sitting on the bus ( if you two ride the same bus ) then just sit near her and listen in on the conversation. If there's something they're talking about that you can relate to, let them know. It'll show her you have common interest and opinions with her.
After time, maybe even let her know you're bisexual, because that could open up alot of conversation and show her that you two even have MORE in common together than you two thought. This'll also let her be aware that you're single and you could possibly be interested and if she were to develop feelings for you, she wouldn't be as worried or nervous to try and let you know.
And just keep conversation flowing with her on a day-to-day basis and maybe even suggest a possible hang out with her sometime soon. This'll give more chance to show her outside of school how much fun and how great you can be, and maybe then after a few times of hanging out, if you feel comfortable and gutsy enough to do it, let her know you have feelings for her, and see where it goes from there.
I hope I helped, and I hope everything works out.
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ok....so I am gonna make it short. I have a girl that I know likes me and lets call her K. and then, heres the problem I know another girl that likes me and lets call her B. so what should I do..I also like both of them...advicenators...Help ME (link)
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I would try going on a date with each of them and just see how it goes. Try to get to know them better, find common interests with them, see who understands your jokes better, etc. Basically who are you just more compatible with.
Then after the dates, just kind of write out a list of the pros and cons of each girl. I know that sounds a little unrespectful of their feelings and kind of just laying all their flaws and good parts about them out on a piece of paper, but it might help you decide better. And just see who have more feelings for, who you could hang out with more, yet still be romantic with, who'd get your jokes more, whose more of an outgoing type of person, who'd get along with your family, friends, everything. Who could basically have a wonderful time with & know you'll have a good relationship together.
Just don't let time progress and leave them both sitting there, waiting for you to choose one of them. That'll only hurt the one you don't choose more in the end that you kept her sitting there waiting for nothing.
I hope I helped.
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what does it mean for a girl to "put out"? (link)
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Whenever people say a girl usually "puts out", it means she'll have sex with anybody. Well, not ANYBODY, but if she wants to hook up with a guy, she'll probably just go and do it.
I hope I helped.
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Isn't annoying when people type in run-on sentences and don't punctuate? It makes the question/statement difficult to understand and read. I can understand when people sometimes misspell words; but I hate when people don't even attempt at making themselves seem somewhat intelligent. It is bothersome when people type a response or question like its a text message. No, I'm not an English teacher if you're wondering. I am a sixteen year old female that is in high school. (link)
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Haha, I'm somewhat like you. I mean, I've had times where I've forgotten maybe an ' here and there, or I've made several typos and everything, and I'm fine with that, but I don't find it extremely annoying. I actually find it quite funny whenever I'm trying to read the question and they're like "kases" or "iam" "hore" "iiAM DoOnE WiItH HiImMm WhattT SHoUlD I do I DrIVeA cAr AfTeR ScHoOlO."
I mean I'm fine with reading it and everything if there's some mistakes, but I do get annoyed whenever I'm trying to help them, and I have NO CLUE what they're even talking about, haha.
I can't wait to see these people fill out job applications or something.
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before, i posted about my friend being over obsessed with her camp friends and making me and her other school friends being like backup. i think im going to talk to her about it, but i dont know how to say it casually without hurting anybodys feelings. what should i say!??! (link)
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Well there really is no way to go about saying it without hurting some feelings. I'm sure she's going to be offended in some way, but just be careful with how you say it and everything.
Just sit down with her sometime and in a calm nicely toned voice, just be like,"Me and ____ have already talked about this as you know, but you haven't really been listening to us, so I just feel the need to repeat it. I mean, we're glad you had a great time and everything at camp, but camp was a couple of months ago, and we've been hearing about it non-stop. Now, every now and then's cool, but hearing it day after day can start to wear down on you, you know? So if you could please just try and stop." ( Or something like that ).
Just let her be aware of everyone's feelings on the situation and that you're all not trying to hurt her feelings or anything and don't want her to feel like she's being attacked, it's just talking with her didn't work before, so you're just to be a little more strong about it and try and make her understand better.
I hope I helped.
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sxycheerbabie07 THIS IS A MYSPACE FREAK! i didnt know this person and they sent me a messege on AIM..and said well do u want to see my myspace page. i said ok.. the person sent me MY myspace page! my myspace is private and now i am freakin out cuz they said they knew me.. I BLOCKED THEM if i die.. tell my mom she was right about myspace (link)
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Well, I don't really know what you want me to give you advice on, but I don't think you're going to die. If they know you, it's probably just some practical joke to freak you out, also there's tons of people out there whole like to take other people's pictures and pretend like they're that person. "Myspace Fakes" are what some call them. You did a good thing by blocking her, and block her myspace too, and if she's ever to contact you on another name or something, just block her again. Like I said, it's probably just some stupid joke to make you freak out.
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okay way back in the beggining of july this year, i found a quarter sized drop of brownish/reddish blood. i remember that before i noticed the blood, i had cramps and it was hard to stay still and it would only feel better if a moved a lot and i kept feeling like i had to go to the bathroom sooo bad, and then i didnt even need to go. i havent found any blood since and its now almost halloween. was that my period or did i pop my cherry? i dont remember if i was being active that day when i found the blood, but i play soccer and run a lot. (link)
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Playing soccer and running alot can pop your cherry, but very rarely. Same as riding a horse and everything, because I used to play soccer and I've ridden horses myself, and nothing's ever happened to me. And if unless you've had sex, then your cherry probably didn't pop.
It sounds to me like you just had your period because cramps can usually come before the period actually gets there for girls. I know whenever I have my period I always feel like I have to go to the bathroom too, when in reality, I really don't.
So it was probably just your period. :)
I would suggest to mark your period down so then if it happens again and again monthly, then you'll really know it's just your period.
I hope I helped.
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in your opinion, do you think that these shoes are cute to buy ? http://www.payless.com/Catalog/ProductDetail.aspx?&TLC=Womens&SLC=WomensAthletics&BLC=WomensAthleticsSneakers&Width=Regular&ItemCode=55278&LotNumber=050938&Type=Adult&Popularity=16&DescriptiveColor=Tan/Pink thankss!! (link)
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Yeah, I think those colors look really cute together.
I hope I helped.
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My and my "boyfriend" just broke up nine days ago. It feels like months, because he asked someone out right after he broke up with me. I was heartbroke, I was crying everynight. I'm no longer crying every night, but I still love him. I want to let him know; that I miss him & love him still. Even if he doesn't want me back. I'm thinking about asking him out again, after I get myself back together.
But he still has a girlfriend, it's completly obvious that the relationship between them won't last. It's sorta of a rebound-relationship. I haven't talk to him ONCE since the breakup. I don't want to ask him out right away. But, I don't know how to start talking to him again without it being really awkward. Help? (link)
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I know this isn't what you want to hear, but think about the reason why you two broke up in the first place. Maybe it's for the best, you know? Now I really WOULDN'T because I have no idea what the break up was about, but if it was over a big issue like insessantly fighting and everything, then that's something that's firstly going to need to be talked about, if you two are going to think about having a relationship together again.
So talk to him firstly about why you two broke up in the first place and let him know that you still love him and miss him, and you'd really like to resolve it, and hopefully gain a relationship again. And if the issue is resolved, you both are going to have to make an effort to make sure it doesn't happen again.
But if he isn't willing to resolve it, then I'm sorry, but it seems his mind is made up. Like I said, I don't know the real reason for why you two broke up, but maybe the relationship isn't a rebound. It probably is, but do you think he might've had feelings for this girl, and dumped you for her? Because if that's so, then talking to him about getting back together already is not going to go over too smoothly.
So just think of the reason why you two broke up, and think is it really worth it to get back together with this guy, and if the issue you two had is able to be fixed and everything. And then if you find it can be, then talk to him about him and let him know you love him and miss him and are willing to try and work everything out if he is, and you really want to get back together with him, and see where it goes from there.
I hope I helped.
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How do you effectively clean a mirror without it leaving streaks or "fuzzies" from the washcloth? (link)
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Whenever I go to clean the mirrors and everythig in my room, I just use Windex and I use a paper towel so there's no fuzzies or streaks or anything on it, and it cleans very well.
I hope I helped.
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He says the sweetest things,
Treats me like his princessess,
Doesnt need an occasion to give me a gift,
risks alot jus to talk to me,
respects alot of my desciosns towrads him and things we shouldnt do,
never pressures me,
changed himself fully for me,
doesnt try to act all macho infront of his friends hes the same with me both ways...
But the thing is..
When he said he loved me i didnt return the words back to him i dont feel tht strongely yet and he said he could wait not knowing ifit hurt him or not should i be worried tht he mite not care? its always on my mind that he might be facking all that he does for some reason to try to make me trust him and i might get screwed over i mean shouldnt he feel a lil sad tht i didnt say it back? or does it mean he does love me because he isnt pressuring me to say it to him? im confused..thx (link)
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This guy sounds wonderful, and I'm positive that he indeed does care that you didn't say it back and everything, and he probably does feel a little hurt, but he does respect your decision, and just doesn't want to force you to say it. He probably just wants you to say it whenever you're ready to say it because sometimes girls feel pressured and lie and tell them they love them whenever they really don't, so he's basically just telling you,"When you really do love me, tell me."
Because think if you were to say it to him, and HE wasn't to say it back? Would you pressure him into saying it so he'd then be basically lying to your face that he loves you? Or would you rather him wait until he's positive that he loves you so then wheneevr you do hear it, you definetely know that it's for real?
It's the second one ; he really does love you because he isn't pressuring you to say it to him.
I hope I helped.
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i'm just going to make this clear. i'm a freshman in high school and i am NEVER GETTING A BOYFRIEND. and this depresses me so much.
guys don't ask girls out. i don't know why. it's weird. only a few girls ever get asked out and they're the hot ones. i'm giving up on guys from my school-just pretend they're all gay ok?
so how can i possibly meet cute guys if the guys at my school are completely crossed out? any extracurriculars? mall?movies?etc.. ? please help me :( (link)
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Extracirriculars would be a good option to meet guys, but don't just join soemthing and commit to it JUST to meet a guy.
I would suggest like you've already mentioned, the mall, the movies, any local hangouts you guys have, and maybe even some local concerts some bands are throwing. It all depends on what type of guy you like, if you like jocks, try going to the schools football game to meet them, and if you already have guy friends, if they know other guys from other place, you should suggest a get together and invite some other girls so it won't be just you, incase you get nervous.
Whenever you're wwalking around the mall, there's guys everywhere yes, but also try going into the stores they go to. Whenever you want to meet a guy, you've sort of got to think of them and their interests to find them and where alot of them will be. And then whenever you go into the store, ask a guy employee for help and start up a conversation or just hang around and see what happens. ( Also, for the employee if you decide to talk to them, tell them you're shopping for your brother so they don't think you're shopping for your boyfriend ).
Trust me, I'm a sophmore and I've really never had a boyfriend either. I've had like, ones that lasted a week, if those even really count. I just keep reminding myself it's going to happen someday, and it's going to be great and I'm not going to have to go through 2304393 bad ones to find the one good one, and neither will you.
I hope I helped.
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so my friend asked this kid if he liked me and he said why do you care? and then she was like i just wanna know. and then he didnt say anything. and then she asked him again and he said SERIOUSLY why do you care? and she was like i just wanna know. and then she said im not gunna stop bothering you until you answer me so do you? and he said maybe maybe not.
do you think that means he does or he doesnt? even if he didnt say it but most likely.
thanks in advance =) (link)
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This literally could mean maybe, maybe not.
Most people whenever they like someone, they're not going to let anybody know, especially the person they're crushing on's friend, because they know that information's instantly going to go back to the friend and she'll know and so will other people.
But I really do think he might, because if he didn't like you, he would've just flat out said no, don't you think so? I've found this is true with people cause I've had times where I'll ask my friend if they've done uh, ( example ) Calculus before, and if they've gone, "maybe, maybe not", then I always just say what I just said to you, and they usually wind up admitting to me that they've done it. Haha, crappy example, I know, but you got the point, right?
I hope I helped.
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its all the guys are into in 7th grade. I am at 13 year old female size 34 A. I am very slender and tall (5'4) or so. I want bigger boobs. How can I get them without pills or anything.
*I dont need advice on all that self consicous crud.k?
*And I dont want to have to stuff my bra.
Is there any special food that helps or something. (link)
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There's nothing you can really do to make your boobs bigger, except get surgery, and I don't think you want surgery, let alone at 13 years old.
Believe me, you're only 13, you're young, no need for bigger boobs now. Plus, you won't stop developing and changing until you're around 18-20, you've got loads of time ahead of you for your boobs to get bigger.
Also, take a look at your genes. If you come from a line of small chested women, your boobs might come out that way because of your mother's genes and everything, but if you come from a background of big-chested woman, yours might grow to around theres. Like me, I'm have hardly any boobs ( I'm a __A ) and so is my mother.
So you don't have to stuff your bra, but until you start developing and everything, you could go to Victorias Secret or any store for that matter and by some push-up bras or padded bras for now.
I hope I helped.
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In my speech class I have to give a 3 minute speech where i INSTRUCT the whole class to do something, here's ome stuff that people have a lready done; breathing excersizes, singing, dancing, yoga, kickboxing, acting, swimming, and so on.. like you show the basics how to do it, and then the whole class has to do it with you a couple of times.. and i REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO, what can i instruct them on that will be funny, a bit original, yet not too weird..
any ideas? (link)
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If you really want to have something that's original and I'm sure alot of kids like and everything already, is do the acting bit.
Show them the basics of acting and the normal routines everyday actors go through to prepare for plays and auditions and everything and they're facial expressions and whatever it is they do to rehearse.
Here are some sights I found that might help you out with that:
http://www.beatnikbeats.com/acting_exercises.html
http://www.geocities.com/actorsinspiration/basics.html
http://method.vtheatre.net/basics.html
Then, give them a movie every teenager loves like Anchorman, or Napoleon Dynamite and have them try and act it out. So it's both funny and everyone'll get a kick out of it trying to watch the students do the voices and imitate all the really weird and funny scenes.
I hope I helped.
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Please help ASAP!!!
how do you get 2 pics stacked on top of eachother in your "my pics" section. thank you so much!
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I'm not quite too sure if you're talking about putting a picture in caption or if you mean like, literally right on top of eachother, so I'll give you advice for both.
I believe you mean literally ontop of eachother, so. What you do is just take the one picture you want and paste it into paint and crop it to how big or wide or whatever you want it to be. Then do the exact same thing for your other picture, but just drag it so it's right under your other picture.
Then just save it to a file/folder that you'll remember where it is at and then just go to myspace and browse for the picture like you normally would and upload it and it should work just like any other picture.
If you mean caption-wise:
Go to paint and crop the picture and do whatever you want to it and then save it like I said, in a file/folder you'll remember easily and be able ti find, and then go to tinypic.com or photobucket.com, wherever you usually go to, and upload it and take the link for the image and just paste it into your captions area. I would suggest tinypic.com, cause they make the link much smaller than they do on photobucket. And it should upload properly, and there ya go!
I hope I helped.
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Ok so here is the story. Last night i went to a party and my friend's crush was there. I knew that she likes him. she likes two other guys too. well i was kind of all over this guy last night we didnt hook up or anything just alot of hugging and stuff and flirting and i know that she saw. but she like never tried to even talk to the guy. i don't know if i like him or anything. anyways, was i being a bad freind? should i talk to her about it? what should i do? (link)
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If you had liked him and were doing it to hurt her or make her jealous, then yes, that would be being a bad friend, but I don't think you are. You didn't even hook up with him, even though flirting might've been a little bad, it wasn't bad enough to declare you a bad friend or anything.
I would just talk to her about it and ask her if she's upset by it or anything and let her know you didn't mean to do it purposely or anything, and you feel bad about it and hope she isn't upset or anything. And just apologize for doing it, and try and resolve it with her if she's upset.
I hope I helped.
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how can i completely delete my myspace account? (link)
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If you go to your homepage on Myspace, and then go to "account settings" next to your default picture, then at the top there'll be three red links, and the last one should say "cancel my account", click on it.
Then it should ask you if you're really sure if you want to, and then it'll send you a confirmation email to your adress and all you have to do is click on it and it should then fully delete your account.
I hope I helped.
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i love my friends and all but i dk wat to do, i know that im bitchy and all but they push the fact that i am WAY TOO MUCH i try not to be because i know i am and i know that its not always a good thing but i dk what to do about it .. how do i explain to them that this is the way that i am and i dk how to change , andhow do i tell them that i cant change but im sick of hearin about it???HELP ME PLEASE!!! (link)
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Just tell them exactly what you just told me. They're your friends, they should be able to talk to you about anything and understand.
Just be like,"Guys, I know, I can be a bitch and everything every now and then, but could you please not bring it up so much? I've been trying not to be as bitchy, but I can't help it. :/ How about I make you guys a deal or something? If I start being bitchy, just let me know so I can try to stop, and if I don't, just tell me you'll talk to me later or something." So that way they're not there whenever you're being in a bad mood, and that way you're at least trying and you won't have to hear all of that crap from them every second.
If they continue to keep hassling you on it, then they're not playing a very good friend, here. Friends are supposed to like people for who they are, and they shouldn't try to change them at all, and especailly hassale them about everything they do and or say.
I hope I helped.
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There's this guy I met, a friend of some friends. And I really like him. I know he likes me, he's told me. And I think we're going to make a go of it. But I've got one doubt - he's also made it clear from the beginning that he likes another friend of mine. They've known each other for years, and she says to me that she isn't interested in him and that I should go for him. He's liked her for longer than me though - but he said he liked me the minute he met me. Which is a big plus, because he's liked her for so long and nothings happened but he meets me and after 6 weeks we're as close as he is with her. Should I go for him? I'm just a bit worried that he'll still have like this unrequited love for her (OTT, but you get me) even if he's with me. (link)
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Take a chance!
If in 6 weeks you two can be just as close as he is with her after years of knowing eachother, then I'm sure if you two started dating he might even stop liking her completely!
You'll never really know unless you take a shot at it, and I doubt you want to sit there always be wondering "what if, what if" to yourself.
Just be a great girlfriend and show him what he'd be missing if he sat there and liked your other friend the whole entire time. I'm sure he'll be too busy focusing all his time on you anyways.
If he does end up continuing to like her, you can always just end the realtionship, and at least be relieved you now know what would've happened if you kept a relationship with him and then you also learned that if this situation were to ever reoccur, you'll know what the results would be.
I hope I helped.
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