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bad friend Ok so here is the story. Last night i went to a party and my friend's crush was there. I knew that she likes him. she likes two other guys too. well i was kind of all over this guy last night we didnt hook up or anything just alot of hugging and stuff and flirting and i know that she saw. but she like never tried to even talk to the guy. i don't know if i like him or anything. anyways, was i being a bad freind? should i talk to her about it? what should i do?
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If you had liked him and were doing it to hurt her or make her jealous, then yes, that would be being a bad friend, but I don't think you are. You didn't even hook up with him, even though flirting might've been a little bad, it wasn't bad enough to declare you a bad friend or anything.
I would just talk to her about it and ask her if she's upset by it or anything and let her know you didn't mean to do it purposely or anything, and you feel bad about it and hope she isn't upset or anything. And just apologize for doing it, and try and resolve it with her if she's upset.
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Okay,
i think you should talk to her and see what she says, and you arent a bad freind, but it might've appeared that way to you other friend.
-Jan ]
well...if you were trying to make her jealous or mad then i think you were being a little selfish but i think that you should just explain to her why you did it if she is mad. If it is a good enough reason then i think you werent being a bad friend but if u just did it to do it or to make her mad or jealous then i think you were being a bit bad. ]
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