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Question Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 6:59 pm

He says the sweetest things,
Treats me like his princessess,
Doesnt need an occasion to give me a gift,
risks alot jus to talk to me,
respects alot of my desciosns towrads him and things we shouldnt do,
never pressures me,
changed himself fully for me,
doesnt try to act all macho infront of his friends hes the same with me both ways...

But the thing is..
When he said he loved me i didnt return the words back to him i dont feel tht strongely yet and he said he could wait not knowing ifit hurt him or not should i be worried tht he mite not care? its always on my mind that he might be facking all that he does for some reason to try to make me trust him and i might get screwed over i mean shouldnt he feel a lil sad tht i didnt say it back? or does it mean he does love me because he isnt pressuring me to say it to him? im confused..thx


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MelLeDisko answered Sunday October 29 2006, 7:46 pm:
This guy sounds wonderful, and I'm positive that he indeed does care that you didn't say it back and everything, and he probably does feel a little hurt, but he does respect your decision, and just doesn't want to force you to say it. He probably just wants you to say it whenever you're ready to say it because sometimes girls feel pressured and lie and tell them they love them whenever they really don't, so he's basically just telling you,"When you really do love me, tell me."

Because think if you were to say it to him, and HE wasn't to say it back? Would you pressure him into saying it so he'd then be basically lying to your face that he loves you? Or would you rather him wait until he's positive that he loves you so then wheneevr you do hear it, you definetely know that it's for real?

It's the second one ; he really does love you because he isn't pressuring you to say it to him.

I hope I helped.

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darkmoon1231 answered Sunday October 29 2006, 7:29 pm:
this guy sounds great i think he understands that you dont want to tell him that you love him and not meen it and that hes glad that you were honest with him and it looks to me in he does love you and cares

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