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i'm just going to make this clear. i'm a freshman in high school and i am NEVER GETTING A BOYFRIEND. and this depresses me so much.
guys don't ask girls out. i don't know why. it's weird. only a few girls ever get asked out and they're the hot ones. i'm giving up on guys from my school-just pretend they're all gay ok?
so how can i possibly meet cute guys if the guys at my school are completely crossed out? any extracurriculars? mall?movies?etc.. ? please help me :(
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Extracirriculars would be a good option to meet guys, but don't just join soemthing and commit to it JUST to meet a guy.
I would suggest like you've already mentioned, the mall, the movies, any local hangouts you guys have, and maybe even some local concerts some bands are throwing. It all depends on what type of guy you like, if you like jocks, try going to the schools football game to meet them, and if you already have guy friends, if they know other guys from other place, you should suggest a get together and invite some other girls so it won't be just you, incase you get nervous.
Whenever you're wwalking around the mall, there's guys everywhere yes, but also try going into the stores they go to. Whenever you want to meet a guy, you've sort of got to think of them and their interests to find them and where alot of them will be. And then whenever you go into the store, ask a guy employee for help and start up a conversation or just hang around and see what happens. ( Also, for the employee if you decide to talk to them, tell them you're shopping for your brother so they don't think you're shopping for your boyfriend ).
Trust me, I'm a sophmore and I've really never had a boyfriend either. I've had like, ones that lasted a week, if those even really count. I just keep reminding myself it's going to happen someday, and it's going to be great and I'm not going to have to go through 2304393 bad ones to find the one good one, and neither will you.
I hope I helped.
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