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19/f. My names Casey. I'm a crazy cat lady who's obsessed about books and doesn't wear matching socks. I enjoy all kinds of tea and sometimes I believe in as many as six impossible things before breakfast.
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okay i'll tell you this from the beginning I AM NOT EMO! i just have a question about them
how do they style their room? it's just a question that's haunting me
okay, well..taking this from someone who can be labeled "emo", there rooms are pretty much just filled with band posters, and anything they can express themselves with.
not that the whole room scene really matters.
its pretty much the same as a preppy person's room. just minus the colors.
Ok...my ipod is getting on my nerves ive downloaded like 2 songs because im just now gettin to it...and theyve downloaded but they wont go on my ipod!! does anyone know how to explain it to me and help me put these songs on it??
itd be greatly appricated!(i prolly spelt that wrong)
close out of your itunes when you've downloaded the songs you want, and then plug your ipod into your computer, and open the itunes back up again.
it should automatically update your songs in your library and put them into your ipod.
i got an ipod nano myself, and i was having the same problem you did until i tried that.
if you need any more help with it, you can always message me!
13/f
my little brother is serously adroable
hes 5 and hes into football and stuff
but he dosent like me. he loves my brother tho!! wat can i do to make him not hate me? like little stuff like playing with him. and what sgouldent i do??
well, at age 5, almost all little brothers don't hang around their older sisters, they want to be around the 'guys'.
i guess you can try relating to him somehow. maybe all three of you can play a little game of football?
im 13 and i havnt gotten my period yet is that bad?
no. its not bad. most of my friend's didn't get there's until 15. you'll probably get it somewhere from now through 17 (if you're late)
how do u get a picture on your myspace in about me?
go to photobucket..or tinypic. upload the pic you want to put on your about me. copy the url and BAM. Just right and but it in your about me edit section.
or if you already have a picture loaded onto the computer (on a website or something), you can right click on it, and click "properties". there should be a popup thing that comes up, copy the url displayed and there..
hope that wasn't too confusing. i suck at explaining things.
what is a "butterface" ? Ive heard a guy refer to a girl in my school as one. He said she had a nice body but a butterface..what does that mean??
i think he's saying that she has a weird face?
i'm not entirly sure on that one either..
ok, me and my friend have verizon. my friend's visiting family. i know there is roaming charges for him, but what do i get charged for?? i have verizon and so does he, so when we call/text it's free, but would that change since he is out of the country or what?? i'm just wondering if it is still free or if i use my plan minutes even though we both have verizon.
thanks!!
if its the same phone as he used before, then no it wouldn't cost any extra money or anything. a cell phone is a cell phone no matter where you are. i'm pretty sure it doesn't matter on what the verizon area code thing is.as long as its verizon.
I see a lot of questions on this site about SEX. I think the weirdest part for me is that the age of the girls asking is like 12 and 13! Im 15 and I havent thought about sex yet..Im just not ready. I think Im MORE mature for it. I dont do it because I dont want to become pregnant. But Im also scared of it, am I immature or more mature than these 12 year olds having sex? Someone just explain to me how they can have sex without any second thoughts. When I was 12 I was like playing with barbies...Im really confused.
i agree with you..
i'm fifteen also, and i still find it extremly stupid how little 12 and 13 year olds are having sex..honestly, i think we're more mature than them, because they just do it for the fun of it, not really for love. and even if it is out of love, they don't even know what love is, so they can't even go there.. i beleive, they'll just turn out to be sluts..until i get proof that they don't, i'm sticking to that theory..
:P
16/f.
alright well i really like this kid "B". and i really thought he liked me too. we talked and everything and then we hooked up at a party. he always flirts with me and everything too. well last saturday he called and invited me and my friend to a party. we went. but he was being a real asshole to me. he was calling me a bitch and everything in the car. then we got to the party and he was like slapping my butt and tapping me on the shoulder and moving. then i was talking to this girl and she said that she just met him and she wanted to hook up with him. she said that he kissed her before he left to get us. that really made me mad. and THEN he started kissing me in front of her. and then they had sex. then he was kissing every girl BUT me. he even tried kissing my friend even though she has a b/f. she pushed him away of course. i was so mad i sat in the bathroom and i wanted to cry. but then i decided that i wouldnt let him ruin my night. so i went back to the party and i started talking to his best friend "E" that ive known since like 4th grade. he was really drunk but he kept hugging me and he told me that he's always thought i was cute but he doesnt know why he never talked to me. he said that he liked me. then i danced with him and after an hour of us talking he kissed me. he did tell me that he acts like a whore when he is drunk. he said he just wanted to stick with me. but i went upstairs and then came back down and the chick that had sex with "B" was flirting with "E". then she started making out with him. i got mad again and i just sat down. my friend went and called him a whore and said that he was an a-hole. i sat next to him and started talking to this guy about something and "E" was like "do you hate me" and i told him no but i thought that he was a whore. then he was like "im soo sorry i really like you" and the kid next to me was like if you really liked her you wouldnt be making out with the chick next to you. well by then the chick was making out with another guy. well "E" went upstairs and layed down and i had to go up there for a drink and me and him started talking and he said he was really sorry. but then "B" kept touching my shoulder and moving again. he kept asking if i was gonna have sex with "E" and i kept telling him no. he started being an a-hole again. well when everyone fell asleep, me and "E" went downstairs and hooked up. we didnt have sex though. well then that chick had sex with another guy. she was disgusting. but then the next morning "B" kept asking me if me and "E" had sex and i kept telling him no and he kept calling me a whore. "E" held my hand the whole way home and everything and gave me a kiss goodbye. the next day i got his number and i called him. then yesterday me, him, his sister and "B" hung out. and he was holding my hand and everything but "B" was again being mean to me. he kept calling me a bitch and we all went to mall. he was like "dont walk by me" and i was like "w/e" but then when we got into the car to go get something to eat he was like "why are you so mean to me" and i was like "are you kidding me? your mean to me" and he told me he was sorry and he kissed my hand right in front of "E". then when "E" was in his house to get something "B" was like this is my song to you and it the beginning went "i never knew how loved felt until i fell in love with you" and he kept flirting with me. we all went out to eat. and he kept staring at me even though i was sitting next to "E". idk what to do. there both a little "whorish" but i really do have feelings for them.
i get that weird feeling in my stomach when "B" touches me like i just want to be with him and when "E" touches me all i want do to is cuddle with him and be with him. their best friends and that makes this really hard. "E" has some flaws to though. he's always talken about hooking up with other girls in front of me. i try not to pay attention but it gets me mad. so does anyone know what i should do???
yeah..i think "b" and "e" definitly sound a little whorish..
personally, i think you should ditch both of them. if your not sure what you should do, and you don't want to ruin they're friendship, go find someone else. who is definitly worth your time.
i would think that if i ever went out with "b" or "e" i would start to feel like i'm going to be cheated on, or abused, or hurt (pretty much all the same thing buttt)..
hate to break it to you..but they're probably the WORST guys you could date..
so i like this guy i hardly know him but we've flirted online and he seems pretty interested and i am too. but the thing is i know it wont go anywhere. he drinks and smokes and does weed. i have never drank or done drugs or anything i am a goody goody but i still like to have fun! if this had happened a while ago i would be like ew no way but for some reason this guy has me interested in him. should i start backing away? i realy dont want to. could it work out even if he does drugs and im a good girl
yes, i think it could work out between you two.
in fact, there's a lot of girls who like the 'bad boys'. you just need to know when to say you don't want to do something.. if he starts to pressure you into some things(drinking,smoking,etc) he's not worth it. but if you're up for some experience with it, i say go for it.
At night I get REALLY scary dreams and I wake up terrified.In every dream I die. Not a peacefull death I mean murdered.Well I do't know what triggering these dreams im not watching scary movies and I havent resently, and before i go to sleep I eat a sandwhich.I've had about 4 diffrent dreams but have the same dreams multiple times.The one that accurs the most is the one I hate the most.I'm trapped in this house a house with like 9 other kids at any age.In the house we have to find a way out of the house and the guy that has us there planted maps and clues on how to get out.So kids are ripping things and its just a mad house but theres one girl i think 7 she has herself huddled in a corner crying, I try to talk to her and she never talks back she only looks up with these huge eyes and I can't help her.The first time I had this dream I never saw her and I just ventured off on my own and when I entered this room I woke up and I knew that I was killed.
Another dream I'm in this cage at the bottom of the ocean and im locked in it and i have to find the certain key to unlock myself and the other kids get out long before me and the same girl that was huddled in the corner in the house.I have never seen this girl before and in every dream she's there and I feel so helpless cause I cant even help myself.
This question is really long but theres more.
I dont know if there a similarity to my dreams to my actual life.I stayed back last year and I have no friends now and when I go to school im in hell and i feel helpless there too so i just wanna know why im having these dreams and how to prevent them from happening.
I'm sorry its so long but if you would please help me.
go to
www.dreammoods.com
there might be a reason you are having these nightmares. often, your life and your dreams are connected in one way or another.
I have my big winter dance coming up on February 3rd. I am a 15 year old female, 5'5 and 163 pounds. I desperatly need to lose weight. Here are my problems:
-I love to eat
-I eat wayy too much
-I don't have enough time to excersize a lot
-I drink 1-2 sodas a day
I have 45 days to get into shape. I'd like to lose 30-40 pounds.
Here's what I'm looking for:
-Pills
-Drinks
-Powders
that speed up matabalism or just make me lose weight all together.
Most of you will say, "Don't use those things, just excercise and eat right." Yeah well being heavy runs in my family and I've tried the excercise and eat right thing and I'm just not getting the results I want.
What I'm looking for from you:
- Specific brands of pills, drinks, or powders
- Maybe even different types of excersies
Thank you so much!
well..in this..i can slightly relate to you. i weigh pretty much the same as you..and i am the same height.
i saw this kind of diet i liked. its called "special k diet". for the first two meals a day eat a bowl of special k and a peice of fruit. and then, for the third meal, eat anything under 500 calories. you can still drink your normal sodas also.
it says you will lose a jean size every two weeks if you continue doing it.
for excersises? i just kind of walk around the house/walk home from school (its a thirty five minute walk..).
i've been trying this for a week and i already lost a few pounds..so maybe it shall work for you?
just don't try and overwork yourself.
alright i really need a little advice here.
thank-you in advance.
Alright well my bestfriend came out and told me that hes liked me for two years. i was very shocked because i would have never guessed. he gave me a list of reasons why he liked me
-im not like other girls
-im cool
-easy to talk to
-good looking
-the only girl that hes liked that has actually paid attention to him
ionno there was a few other things too but i forget. Its all very cute, but there is one problem.... i dont like him back in the way and i told him that i dont want to ruin our friendship if were to date because i value it a lot. and he seemed to get it. Now we talk and its not awkward but he brings up the fact that he likes me. hes always bringing up the fact that he dealt with holding in his emotions for two years and that since i dont want to go out with him he can do it for however longer he has feeling for me. so its all good.... EXCEPT that now im hearing rumours that hes going to ask me out.. and i dont know what to say this time. please help
thanks
okay. well.
1. Rumors are worthless information. It probably started because someone found out he likes you..and it somehow got twisted into "omg this kid likes her and is going to ask her out". so yeah, i wouldn't beleive that.
2. It is sweet that he likes you because of those reasons. and not just because your hot or anything.
i'm not EXACTLY sure on what you should say to that kid...but just say you would rather be friends..cuz you don't want to hurt him.
my friend dylan is selfish and never cares about anybody or anything i say and he is mean what should i do still be friends with him or not and he is always mean
you don't have to mean back..and you shouldn't just..stop talking to him.
spend less time together. and hang out with a few different people, or just tell him that he really needs to stop being an ass or whatever he's being.
i met this guy in 6th grade and we had a lot of classes together. we talked to each other and i guess we were KINDA friends. now im in 9th grade and ive kinda fallen for him =/ we dont have any classes together so i dont really know what to do but i do see him in the hallway like almost every morning. any advice on what to do to get him to notice me? and maybe like me and ask me out? and please dont yell or talk to him in the hallway cause i see him for like a second and i dont have time to really have a conversation .
THANK YOU SOOO MUCH.
if he looks right at you in the hall, smile at him. even if it doesn't strike up a conversation, its still good to smile, because he'll know that you noticed him..
I have only been dating this guy for two weeks
i rlly like him
i have already kissed him and i have never done that before this soon anyway
we already tell each other i love you and all this
some of my freinds say im falling to hard to fast
what should i do ?
do you think it is true?
there's nothing wrong with kissing anyone too fast.. but the word 'love' shouldn't just be thrown at people unless you REALLY do love them. people have their own terms on how fast you can say 'i love you' to people. so if you think your falling to fast, then you're falling to fast. but if you don't...then..there's no problem.
okay, sorry this is a little long and confusing.. but anything will help!
anyways, okay well me and my ex boyfriend had dated for a little over a year and a half on and off. then i broke up with him because he was a jerk and while i was dating him, i started liking this other kid, lets name him john.and john started hanging out with me and my two best friends and thier boyfriends. and i broke up with, lets name him nick, and about two days later john asked me out. i said yes and yesterday was two months.(by the way, i'm 12/f and both nick and john are 13/m, and year above me in school if that does anything..) but lately, me and nick have started talking again and i discovered i still have feelings for him. don't get me wrong, i still like "john" alot, but i don't love him like i do a little still, nick.i mean, "john" treats me better than i've ever been treated by a guy really, and "nick" didn't treat me NEARLY as well but yet i still have feelings for i him. well last night i asked nick if he had feelings for me and he said no.and my friend talked to him and told him i still have feelings for him. and he promised he wouldn't tell anyone and told my friend that he doesn't have feelings for me right now.but then last night i had a dream that "john" cheated on me with my friend at school right in front of me and stuff and i punched him and ran off crying and then went into a hotel thing that everyone from school was staying at ( remember, this part was just a dream) and one kid said that john said he wasn't going back inside until i did. and so on... but the point is, cheating. i feel bad becuase john promised me awhile ago he would never cheat on me and i feel like the word cheating is coming in play... from me. i don't know what to do.i mean, i didn't tell nick that i loved him or anything and everything that was said to him was online and i don't know. i'm so confused. and i feel even WORSE because "john" didn't do anything wrong and yeah. someone please give me advice! thanks so much in advance!
hm. well first off, you probably had that dream of john cheating on you because you might feel like you're cheating on him with your ex, because you think you stil have feelings for him.
no..john didn't do anything wrong..that we know.
the best advice i can give you..is stay with John. You obviously like him, and it sounds like he likes you. and honestly, if nick treated you like crap the first time, why should you give him another chance? but yeah..
Well, I've not long been out of a bad relationship, and I'm not sure whether I'm ready for another one. BUT, I've become really good friends with another boy, and I found out over the weekend that he fancies me. I really, really like him, but I think I'm just afraid to get into another relationship. What should I do? BTW, I'm 16/f.
if your not sure you're ready for another realationship ..then don't. there's nothing worse then being a relationship when you're not sure if you should be in one yet..
if its out of fear from expereinces from your past ones.. try and get to know this guy a little better..it'll build up trust.
ok well me and my gf just broke up and i just really want to be sad right now every one is all like u need to get happyer or w/e but i just really want to lay down and listin to sad music
so dose any one know any sad songs i could get
for instanse
tonight i want to cry-keith urban
kinda stull like that
thanx
Your Guardian Angel by Red Jumpsuit Apparatus.
that song makes me cry for some reason. the lyrics are deep.
why is cunt such a bad word to call your pussy?
i think its because they're basically calling that person a whore.