about


~A little Advice for the broken hearts~
You are afraid and hurt and you dont know what to do. You feel empty and alone, like the whole world has just ended. You have a hole in your heart one that feels like it can never be repaired, but just know that in time that hole will be gone. Getting your heart broken is like getting a deep cut. It hurts really bad, and no matter what you do you cant stop thinking about it because you know its there and its hurting, but with a few stitches and a little tlc (friends and family helping you through) and some antibiotic ointment (ice cream) soon that cut will only be a scar (a memory) it will always be there but it wont hurt anymore, you are strong and you can make it through this!!

advice

okay so im going to be a junior in high school and i suck at talking to guys! i have no idea how to do it if i like them or think their cute and i would be soo shy going out to prom or homecoming with them! guys have asked me but i just went with my friends, how to i talk to them and break my shyness? please help!(:

People always tell me I am outgoing and I am not shy at all but secretly when I meet someone new I am scared to death... But you just have to tell yourself that it is going to be okay and push yourself to break out of your shell... Next time you see someone you like just walk up to them push yourself to do it be strong and brave... I am silly when I was in high school if I saw a cute guy I liked I got super nervose and scared but I would force myself to talk and I would just walk right up and say hey you... youre cute (haha) Guys like to get compliments just as much as girls do ... some times you just have to leap out there there is no easy way to do it your heart might pound like crazy but in the end youll end up having more fun and more friends good luck on your junior year

[view]

Ok so I'm Gracie and I'm 13 and this august I'll be starting 10th grade and I'll be taking advanced classes. I'm kinda not looking forward to it. I mean, the work isn't easy but it's not hard either so that's not the problem it's just that I don't like being the smallest and youngest kid in my classes. Is there a way for me to go back a grade so I can be in classes with kids closer to my age and still get some advance work? My dad doesn't want me to go back a few grades. He doesn't think it's a good enough reason and he says I should take classes that are more challenging so is there a way that I can go back a grade without his permission? I mean, I'm the one taking the classes not him, right?

Well gracie i know it sounds hard but someday when you are finished with school you will be happy that you finished early just think you get an early start on life and college... the other kids will accept you and be fine about you .. they may even look out for you since you are the youngest there. dont worry it will be okay... I dont think there is anyway to get back with the other kids unless you fail but you dont want to do that good luck

[view]

The guy that I think is "the one" is moving 1,959 miles away from me and I having a hard time imagining life without him, sure we tease each other but it will never be the same without him. Also I don't know whether to tell him if I love him so much that I can't live without him or wait to see what happens. He is also my best guy friend and we have a very strong friendship. We talk to each other about everything and I really need some advice before I get too depressed. Please anyone? :'(

This brings back memories... when I was about 13 or 14 I had a boyfriend and I was so "in love" with him but I had to move away... all the way across the country.. it sucked i was heart broken... we had a few phone calls but then we drifted apart we were young and its hard to have a long distance relationship we are friends now but thats all it seems like you will never get over the pain but dont worry you will... tell him how you feel ... tell him you love him and maybe he just might stay

[view]

So im 13 now but when i was 11 i got my period and ironically we were going to a waterpark that day and my sister suggested putting a tamp up so i wouldnt bleed everywhere, so i tryed and i started crying and really mad like How do you do this??!!?? this stupid thing doesnt go up, wth?! and my mom would be like their are two holes, and shed say make sure you put it in the right hole, and im like wtf? how the f*** do you expect me to put something up my vagina at 11 and know where its supposed to go?! basically freaking out...but anyways now i use them all the time, prbly more than i should but i bleed heavy and i hate wearing thick long pads that feel like diapers :/ sooooo...when the first, first time i did it when i was crying and what not trying push it up...i dont think i read the instructions and if i did i didnt understand them at all, and all of a sudden this big splatt of blood drips out, so im wondering now if i popped my cherry because of the tampon? i was on my period that day (mind you i had my period all ready for about a month then) sooo was that my period or was it my hymen breaking? im confused :S thnx much for the help! ;)

Most likely it was your period... its easy to break your hymen some girls even break it while riding their bikes but while you were sitting or standing there without anything there you probably just had enough time to drip out it doesnt take long so dont worry im sure it was just period blood

[view]

My boyfriend have been dating for a month now. Within a week of us dating, my mom brought up sex. She is extremely tight on that subject, because I've had sex before and she got very angry when she found out, but she said a while ago, "You can have sex with John.......as long as we go to a doctor first and get you all set."

I was taken aback... because I never expected that. I only nodded since I didn't wanna make her suspicious or jump into it too quick. I'm wondering if she is just joking, or is she really serious? What do you think? And if I wanted to have sex with my boyfriend (not yet of course,) how would I bring it up without it having to be so awkward??

Thanks!

Of course she is being serious she doesnt want you to end up pregnant at a young age with no way to take care of a child. Maybe you should go talk with her now and tell her you want to get on birth control for just in case purposes that way if you do end up having sex then you will be prepared just sit down with her and tell her its not going to be easy talking about sex with you mom give everyone an odd feeling but dont worry you can do it !! :)

[view]

My boyfriend and I see each other almost every week, including Saturdays. We have an awesome connection, always laughing, same interests, never a dull moment, always conversating, keeping the talks going and learning more and more about each other. We are a good match from what he says and I think he is amazing. We have the best chemistry and I think we are inseperable. We're crazy for each other!

But almost every time we meet, we end up fooling around. We don't go all the way, but just a foreplay and oral... He mentioned one day he wanted to stop being naughty and that our relationship didn't need to revolve around sex like all his other ones did... It makes me think he's extremely serious about our relationship even if we haven't been dating for a while. Still, he changed his mind, too, when we were at his house. He was getting "handsy"... and I laughed and we ended up having dry sex, but after yesterday I really want to stop being so sexual. I'm all for a little fun but I think I wanna slow down...

How do I say it sweetly yet firmly to let him know? He always is about what I want, and he's very sentimental and understanding and patient about things...but still...

Thanks!

Just tell him that there is more to a relationship than sex also you can try doing things that dont just revolve around staying in places where this can happen go for a walk or to the movies out to dinner stuff like that... let him know that you like all the cutesy playing around and touching but you want to know that he is going to be there for you for more than just that reason hoped i helped

[view]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month now, and I am sixteen, and he is eighteen. He is going to the Navy in December, but he says that if we last until I am eighteen, he wants to marry me. He seems really serious about it, and it's not like I'm afraid of committment, but I kinda wonder...

He is extremely mature and when he says something, he means it. I'm not worried about him changing his mind, but should I be cautious with this relationship if he brings it up this early? Or is it really serious?

Well this is so sweet in a way because it kind of reminds me of my husband and I. He asked me to marry him just 4 months after we were together and we married shortly there after. Some times people just know that they found the one they want to spend their life with.
Maybe you will last and you will be happy. He could have just got too into a moment that you have and something slipped out but why would he say it if he wasnt thinking it. Wait and see what happens dont worry yourself over this and good luck to you

[view]

I'm always crying and my eyes are usually swollen, I've had a rough year, constantly getting bullied. My teachers just pretended that they cared what was going on in my life. My face is usually greasy + pimply, and I have a crush on a guy who will probably never like me back. I hate being 12.

Huni I feel so sad that you are having a hard time... you really need to talk to parents or someone about the bullying and stand up for yourself... You can fix the pimple problem easy by using some face cleanser and its just a normal part of growing up every one gets them also the guy that you like might actually like you too why dont you try approaching him and talking to him if he doesnt feel the same dont worry you are only 12 you have a whole life ahead of you ... let your parents know how you are feeling maybe you should go to some counseling sessions that can really help also if you ever need to talk feel free to contact me I will be here to talk to you and help you with whatever you need

[view]

I met a man on facebk 3yrs ago.I would write to him & he would write back but was always very brief.After a year I asked him if he wanted to meet me,he replied that he never meets people from online.After 3 yrs I deleted him since It seemed to be going nowhere,3 mnths later I asked him to be friends again since i missd him and he acepted.In one of our mails he left his phone# I was surprised but stupidly I calld & lft a mssg with my # when he didnt answer.About an hour later he deleted & blckd me from fcbook. I new he wasnt interested but thought we where friends? What did I do wrong? how could he be so mean?

you didnt do anything wrong this guy is clearly just a jerk... he shouldnt have led you on... you seem to be a nice person and you can do way better.. forget him he isnt worth your time or tears good luck :)

[view]

just wanted to say according to your title "youngmommy" im guessing you have kids... annd if you do i think your a great mom, or will be a great mean, you seeem like a very nice, understandable person(:

Aww this has got to be the sweetest thing that anyone has ever said to me.... I have two children my son is 3 and my daughter is 17months. I really appriciate your compliment it makes me feel so happy inside :) thank you so much

[view]

do you know anything that will make your teeth whiter. ive tried the whitening strips and they did nothing and i dont want to spend a fortune on things and my parents prob wont allow me to. any home remodies or something besides baking soda that will help and wont ruin your teeth and wont have my parents see a huge differnce wondering what i did haha, so that u doint get in trouble lol

I am totally obsessed with having white teeth so I know a few inexpensive tips and tricks...

The strawberry method.
1. Cut one strawberry in half so it can fit in your mouth. Cut in half again if necessary.
2. Hold it by the skin so the inside is facing towards you. Rub it over your teeth until they are pinkish.
3. Leave on for about 5 - 10 minutes and then brush off with your regular toothpaste. You should brush twice a day. When you wake up and before you go to bed.

the vinegar method
Take half cup of white vinager and add one table spoon of salt in it . Wash you mouth daily before going to bed. You will absolutly find your teeth dazling and strong.

A friend of mine got me into this one it sounds a little crazy but it works instantly and its awesome ... get a mr. clean magic eraser, tear a corner off and scrub your teeth with it, makes your teeth whiter !

also I use crest 3d white toothpaste I brush after I eat or atleast twice a day and it really works wonders the bottle sai it would take two weeks and I noticed a difference in two days!

[view]

okay so this is very weird but once in awhile my armpits itch a lot! and its happening right now and i run it over hot hot hot water and it makes it feel bbetter but now that i did that it hurts and itches at the same time and its kinda dry.. its weird lol,, do you know something i can do?

Sounds like you may be having an allergic reaction to something try changing your deodorant also try using aloe vera gel .. it will stop the itch and it will help it heal it there is a rash or allergic reaction... you can also try pouring cold milk into a bowl and then dip a clot into it to soak it up and apply the cold milk cloth on the area that is bothersome... try doing these things and if it doesnt help you may want to go to a doctor and see if there is any thing they would recomend good luck and I hope you feel better soon

[view]

well i honeslty dont think im fat but i hate my legs! its summer time so when i wear shorts it seems like i have wrinlkes on the back of my legs... and it seems like i look fat but i dont think i am! snd it just looks gross. my sister has the same thing? its weird. any reccomendations?

I am going to paste some information in here that I found on a search I did for you.. these things should do the trick good luck :)

run
Step 1
Run two to three times per week. Running at the pace of 6 mph can burn more than 400 calories in 30 minutes for someone that weighs 135 lbs. while also toning your butt, hamstrings and calves.

Step 2
Run up hills. This will strengthen and sculpt the back of your legs. Increase the incline on the treadmill every five minutes for two to three minutes to incorporate hills into your indoor run. Plan a running route that allows you to push your body up a hill every so often if outdoors.

Step 3
Incorporate sprints to keep your body guessing and burn fat. Sprint for 20 to 30 seconds at an accelerated speed and then recover for two to four minutes by running at your normal endurance pace. Repeat this patter for six to eight cycles and then cool down for five to 10 minutes.

Wide-Legged Squat
Step 1
Place your feet slightly wider than hip-width apart, toes facing forward. Place your hands on your hips.

Step 2
Lower your butt toward the floor as you bend your knees.

Step 3
Stop when your thighs are parallel to the floor. Your knees should not extend beyond your toes.

Step 4
Push through your feet to return to standing position. Complete three sets of 10 to 15 repetitions to tone and sculpt your hamstrings and butt.

Calf Raises
Step 1
Stand with your feet hip-width apart, toes pointing forward. Place your hands on your hips.

Step 2
Push through your toes and the ball of your foot as you raise your heels off of the ground, until you are balancing on the front part of your foot. Hold onto a wall or chair for support if necessary.

Step 3
Lower your heels back to the floor to complete one repetition. Complete a total of three sets of 10 repetitions to sculpt and strengthen your calves.



Read more: http://www.livestrong.com/article/419126-how-to-get-rid-of-fat-on-the-back-of-the-leg/#ixzz1QoNJg415

hope this helped

[view]

out of all those remodies of damaged hair... which one do you think i should use?




and thanks(:

my favorites to use are the mayo i use that once every three months and the aloe vera I use twice a month because it is supposed to help your hair grow :)

[view]

Me and my boyfriend of six months want to become sexually active. I am fifteen and a half and he is sixteen, but this is something we're both completely sure about doing. And we are planning on using two forms of contraception: condoms and birth control. His end is taken care of, but I don't know how to ask my mom to make me an appointment for the gyno. She has me when she was seventeen years old, and has always insisted that I go to her as soon as we started talking about it...but I don't know how. I'm still afraid she's going to get upset and keep us from seeing each other.

This is going to be a very hard thing for you to do but your mom is not going to be mad at you she is going to feel better that you came to her and asked her... its better than comming home and saying well mom im pregnant and that is all she is going to think about... so tell your mom its really important that the two of you talk and sit down with her and explain to her that you think its time to go get birth control and remember everything is going to be okay you are a smart girl

[view]

thank you so much! your a great help honestly! and thanks for the wesites. do you know if theres a coverup thats waterproof that wont harm it... ( its flat like mmy skin by the way) haha

You are very welcome glad I could help I am also going to post a link for different brands of waterproof foundations :)

http://www.bing.com/shopping/search?q=waterproof+foundation+makeup&FORM=HURE


hope this helps

[view]

hair damaged? and i do straighten it and curl it but i can't just do nothing with it! so im 15 almmost 16 lol and i have been growing my hair and its about halfway down my back and i want it to be longer. but i think my hair is unhealthy ( i dont think i have split ends but) when i look down on my hair it looks like i have to cut all my hair off until it eb=vens out ( and its not layers) and it looks all nasty, and i have it a little frizzy, what can i use that will make my hair one beautiful healthy and non frizzy? please help! but thats not expensive and will make your hair longer? !!!! anything i can buy at the store thats not expensive, home remedies?

Oh the hair curse, I remember those days... When I was younger I had curly poofy frizzy hair that wouldnt do anything and my family would make fun of it and they said I had an afro... I was so insecure about my hair until my husband bought me a new hair straightener... it is called wet2straight.. buy it it will be the best $20 you spend for your hair... I still to this day have never seen anyone with dry damaged hair as bad as mine was and that little thing made my hair soft silky and shiny and it doesnt frizz.. and it makes it so much easier to style your hair in different ways... my hair looks and feels like it came off a super models head after I use my straightener you will love it

here is a link for home remodies for dry damaged hair... I used them and I loved them...

http://www.ehow.com/facts_4798922_home-remedies-dry-damaged-hair.html

^^use that link there a few different things you can try that are not expensive and most likely you have most of them in your kitchen right now :)

[view]

hi(: im 15 almost 16 and since ive been born ive had a birth mark on my left leg. everytime i grown the birthmark does to and its long and really dark brown and someone once said it looked like poop :( and i got offended and im embarrased because its now summer and you can see it and a lot of people always look at it and i try to ignore it but a lot of people ask my and i feel embarrased and i want to run away. my parents told me to stop coloring it and putting tattoos on it because it may cause skin cancer and they also wont let me get it removed because their scared of skin cancer and i cant put a bandade over it eithert hahah.

i tried putting coverup on it and it just gets on my pants, any suggestions on something it wont harm it with... and my parents wont let me go to the doctors and my aunt (dads sister) keeps saying when you get older i would get that removed, and its just.. :( haha do you have any suggestions? thanks(:

I dont think that there is any way to get rid of your birth mark without medical help but I did a little search for you and a lot of people say that using lemon juice on the birthmark will lighten it... lemon juice works on a lot of things :) I am posting a couple websites that I found that might help you with your problem... but remember no matter what anyone says you are beautiful and perfect just the way you are :)

http://www.ehow.com/how_5652034_lighten-birthmarks.html

http://homeremedies.ygoy.com/answers/144/how-to-lighten-a-birthmark/

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100828100019AAJPOU4

I hope one of those three websites help you :)

[view]

hey guys i was just wondering if there are some similar songs to each of the ones i have listed

I don't want to be in love - Good Charlotte

High Life- Wiz Khalifa

The nosebleed section- Hilltop Hoods

Drive- Incusbus

Shine on - Jet

I know these are totally different kinds of songs ahah but it would be great if like you could suggest songs/bands similar! Thanksss!

This seems to be the only unanswered question at the moment.. I am a very big music lover but I am not sure what kind of song you are looking for exactly.. maybe you could message me back and let me know if its like sad songs happy songs love songs break up songs also let me know what kind of music you do and do not like i might be able to help you out here if i had a little more information :)

[view]

how do i tell heim i love him?

Telling someone you love them could be a little scary when you do it for the first time.. you have a lot of thoughts running through your head like what if he doesnt love me back... Just take a deep breath and let it out.... he could be holding the same thing back and not telling you because he is afraid of the same thing... Good luck and congrats on the new love

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker